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Although rare, meeting an INFJ for the first

time can trigger all sorts of unfamiliar feelings,

personal reflections, and inaccurate opinions.

With such an infectious affect on others despite

their reserved demeanor, there’s something

in meeting an INFJ for the first time that

So, how do people perceive INFJs and their

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One of the first things people notice about

the INFJ personality type, within minutes

With an inquisitive mind and grounded demeanor,

most INFJs have been told more than once that

they seem mature for their age, and it doesn’t

take long for people to pick up on this idea.

People instantly notice through the INFJ’s

unbiased insights, deep understanding of the

world, emotional maturity, lack of desire

for materialism, innate need for solitude,

inclination to go against the status quo,

and philosophical view of life, that they’re

that some INFJs, at a young age, know too

Despite this being rather intimidating for

some people at first, after a while of getting

to know the INFJ, this energy transforms into

a welcoming and comforting presence that draws

The only downside is that through this grounding

essence, they can attract the wrong type of

Sophisticated and mysterious, when people

Because of their reserved and pensive energy,

depending on the setting and the person, this

quiet nature can be quite attractive and alluring

due to the fact that it’s difficult to put

People become captivated at just how little

of their personalities INFJs show on their

surface while exuding such an infectious aura

that can be felt as soon as they approach.

When talking to an INFJ, you can tell they

don’t share all that they think or all that

they do, and that triggers an innate curiosity

in others that drives them to want to know

Although the INFJ has the ability to ingeniously

adjust their demeanor to match others, they

always maintain this sense of unwavering poise

and politeness that further captures the attention

This spotlight on their inner beauty allows

others to see how charming and courteous INFJs

truly are, beyond their physical appearance

The best part is that this grace comes with

an obvious sense of acceptance; to the INFJ,

it doesn't matter who they're talking to,

Despite other’s best efforts in trying to

break through the INFJ’s mysterious exterior,

from a social engagement with an INFJ thinking

Upon meeting an INFJ, some people see them

INFJs know they’re not like most, and fortunately,

they learn to embrace that reality after years

eccentric type to find out that others notice

how unique and unrelatable they are to the

Despite their best efforts of mirroring the

energies of those around them, their genuine

thoughts and intellect ultimately shine through.

In addition to their intriguing oddities,

they hold a noticeable unease and apprehension

when navigating through a world they don’t

This becomes even more apparent in social

settings or upon meeting someone new, whom

Number 4: They notice the INFJs reflective

Reflective and thoughtful, the inner workings

of the INFJ’s mind leech into their outer

demeanor no matter how much they try to conceal

Although their reserved nature doesn’t always

prompt them to share their analytical findings

with others, their deep demeanor can be quite

Through constant analyzing, observing and

introspection, INFJs tend to choose certain

wording and subjects when they communicate

not unlikely that they will be caught observing

them with their piercing gaze or gently pushing

to connect with someone’s emotional sides.

Rooted in this reflective and nostalgic energy

comes a slight intensity that hints at the

However, without knowing the INFJ’s imaginative

thought processes and genuine curiosity for

human nature, one could easily mistaken this

intensity as seriousness, making them seem

In addition to their noticeably reflective

perfectionism that others tend to pick up

on when they spend enough time around the

Despite the deeply appreciative and playful

character INFJs have within them, there’s

no doubt that they can be a tough nut to crack

Whether in a romantic setting or in how they

view their own accomplishments, it often seems

that satisfying the INFJ can be both effortless

Like many of the contradictory traits common

among INFJs, this difficulty in finding satisfaction

can make them appear far more judgmental than

This aspect of their personality might lead

others to believe that INFJs always find fault

and never see anything as good enough, when

in fact, they simply have a specific vision

in mind that they believe can be achieved.

INFJs will likely do their best to communicate

their expectations kindly and help others

understand their perspective, yet it’s in

Number 6: They probably witness their benevolent

from their reluctance to socialize with strangers

INFJs not only enjoy helping others, but it’s

in their very nature and cognitive make-up

Known as the MBTI advocate or counselor, the

INFJ holds an innate empathy that drives them

In fact, in relation to their at-times judgemental

exterior, INFJs not only see helping others

as a non-negotiable act of human decency,

but they can become rather disappointed when

And so, it wouldn’t be surprising for another’s

first encounter with an INFJ to be in relation

Whether it’s through the simple act of going

out of their way to hold the door open for

someone who has their hands full, offering

to help a classmate study, or offering a couple

dollars to someone who is short-changed, these

altruistic obligations tend to be someone

of the only interactions they have with strangers.

Number 7: They tend to trust an INFJ’s opinion

Yes, INFJs usually consciously decide to avoid

watching the news or reading the paper, yet

due to their inherent curiosity, they somehow

Not only are they aware of what's happening

in every aspect of their lives, such as recent

work drama or global affairs, but they also

hold well-evaluated opinions about these matters.

By meticulously analyzing situations from

all angles by considering various perspectives,

they’re ability to uncover the closest approximation

to truth makes their judgements valid and

Despite others not knowing all that goes into

their opinion-making process, INFJs give off

a sense of unbiased fairness combined with

their intelligence that makes them seem as

Whether it’s due to the fact that they only

speak when they have something necessary to

say, or their conflict-avoidant nature that

encourages them to disagree in the most polite

way, INFJs approach their opinion-giving tactic

Plus, this sensible approach to all sorts

of matters grants the INFJ access to deeper

conversations with others—an outcome INFJs

So, do you think you project these qualities

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When Infj’S Avoid Spiritual Evolution (This Happens..)

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Known as the mysterious mystic of the MBTI,

the INFJ personality type can’t help but to

use their intuitive and instinctive abilities to

climb their way to the most awakened and aware

version of themselves. However, sometimes even

this spiritual type tries to avoid the difficult

but necessary lessons that come with spiritual

evolution..and unfortunately, they pay the price.

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Number 1: Their view on humanity can become warped

If there’s one thing every INFJ has the innate

draw towards, it’s their need for observing,

understanding and theorizing humans. Everything

from the connections people form, their individual

perspectives, the strength of the ego, and the

interesting places the human mind can wander to,

there’s nothing about the different aspects of the

human experience that doesn’t fascinate the INFJ.

However, with such deep understanding and the

captivation to dive into even the darkest facets

of humanity, INFJs can certainly form a rather

distrusting and wary view on relationships and

interactions. However, this is only the case

when this personality type doesn’t take the

time to simultaneously learn the why’s behind

the evil acts that lie within human capabilities.

As a matter of fact, it’s within learning

about the consequences of individual traumas

and unhealed emotional wounds that the INFJ finds

their own spiritual passage. However, should the

INFJ refuse to learn this inevitable lesson,

their need for human interaction can easily be

replaced with destructive self-isolation.

With a combination of extroverted feeling,

introverted intuition and introverted thinking,

the INFJ doesn’t always rely on their feelings

towards things as their main decision-making

factor. Instead, they resort to absorbing other

people’s emotions to fully understand the scope of

the situation, while also observantly processing

the facts and details through their introverted

functions. So, where do their own genuine feelings

of sadness, fear, anger, surprise and disgust go?

Well, in the subconscious attempt of keeping a

cool, calm and collected exterior for the support

of others and the mental equilibrium to process

the facts of the matter within their own minds,

the INFJ puts their feelings on the back burner.

They come and go within their own awareness in

strong that they end up ruminating on them

for an unnecessary amount of time; there’s no

in between. In fact, without the proper steps

to spiritual and emotional evolution, the INFJ

will never truly know what it’s like to identify,

nevermind process their own emotions in a healthy

manner. Ironically, the process of healing their

own buried emotions is the very process that

will lead to their spiritual development.

Speaking of burying their emotions, the INFJ can

become so avoidant of their feelings that they

fall into a dark, numb, and regretful state of

mind. They can become so consumed in avoidance

of their true thoughts that instead of reacting to

their undesirable outer circumstances they begin

to lead with an ‘it is what it is’ perspective.

depressive episodes due to their deep thinking and

philosophical views on life, it’s not uncommon for

their spiritual awakening to serve as their saving

grace. While the INFJ’s introspective nature is

what allows them to be so understanding to others

while also being able to live an independent life,

through a religion, an alternative practice,

or by simply learning to go within, these

sacred practices are what grounds the INFJ from

their whirling and rabbit-holing thoughts. So,

while the act of spiritual awakening is certainly

challenging in the moments of being tested,

once the INFJ has come out on the other side,

the clarity and vigor for life is incompatible.

their innate empathy toward other humans,

it’s not uncommon for the INFJ to attract

the people who need their empathy the most.

Whether it’s within their romantic connection,

or their friendships, the INFJ can end up

becoming a magnet to those who require their

unwavering care and protection. And while this

isn’t always considered a challenging aspect of

their deep care for others, at times, they can

end up alluring those who are only there to take

advantage of the INFJ’s kindness. This is where

the opportunity for spiritual progression comes

into play. In these rather toxic connections,

the INFJ can either choose to continue giving

their exploited goodwill under sheer obligation,

or take the more difficult path of setting firm

boundaries around their spiritual energy. If the

end up finding themselves in similar connections

time and time again. They will become a forever

doormat for others to walk over, and only through

spiritual evolvement will they find their way out.

Like every personality type, the INFJ comes with

their own quirks and oddities that when combined,

make them who they are. And when you dive even

further, each INFJ has their own quirky traits

that make them unique to who they are. However,

since the basic INFJ qualities can be described as

strange, peculiar and at times even otherworldly,

they are often challenged to take their journey

to self-understanding a little more seriously

than others. They learn from an early age that

they don’t necessarily fit in with their peers

as seamlessly as they’d hoped, and ironically,

this serves as one of their first spiritual

lessons. Through this outcast experience, the

INFJ is challenged to go deep within themselves

and slowly uncover why they are the way they are.

This is the fork in the road where they can either

take on a victim mentality or begin unwrapping why

they feel such an avoidance to simply follow the

norms, why they don’t have the same viewpoints

as their peers, and why they tend to think and

observe so deeply.. By taking the latter route,

Number 6: They never reach their full potential

Speaking of their unique spiritual gifts, the

INFJ is said to be one of the more spiritual MBTI

types. To reach their full potential would

mean to also reach their highest divinity.

For the INFJ to fully avoid their spiritual

evolution would ultimately result in an INFJ

who hasn’t quite matured into their genuine

selves. In fact, this would have to be one of

the most damaging and unfortunate consequences

of avoiding spiritual progress for the INFJ.

To be stuck in denial mode or complaint mode

would not only result in the INFJ ignoring their

creative abilities, their intrinsic gifts, and

their calling to make the world a better place,

but it would also force them to live a life rooted

in disconnection from their most authentic selves.

To put it simply, for the INFJ to not reach their

full potential wouldn’t only be a disservice to

them. Which brings us to our last point..

Luckily.. or unluckily, depending on the way

you view it; INFJs can’t avoid their spiritual

enlightenment journey whether they try to or not.

Although they can certainly put in the effort

to dodge their spiritual lessons, they’ll only

find themselves confused and lost by painfully

prolonging the process.. And since the process of

spiritual revelation is already a lengthy journey,

the opportunities and chances that serve as

stepping stones to ultimately becoming the

most authentic version of themselves. So, while

they may experience the mentioned repercussions,

inevitable. In fact, throughout the INFJ’s life,

they will be continuously challenged with

similar obstacles until they finally choose

to get it right and learn the lesson. Whether

it be the toxic connections they find themselves

that comes with not following their dreams,

the sadness and confusion that comes with avoiding

fully getting to know themselves, or the wandering

lostness that comes with navigating being one

of the most misunderstood types. It’s only a

matter of time before they must put down their

know-it-all attitude and surrender to it all.

Well PSYCH-Os, that’s it for today.. So, have

you attempted to avoid a spiritual awakening

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