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The Compromises No Infj Will Ever Regret Making

The Compromises No Infj Will Ever Regret Making explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.

others, often at the detriment to themselves,

INFJs tend to compromise their needs and wants.

With that being said, compromisation is nothing

sometimes they can end up deeply regretting this

recurring choice. However, then there are the

necessary compromises that INFJs never regret..

8 of which we’ll be discussing in today’s video.

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If there’s one thing the INFJ can be faulted

for, it’s their need for perfectionstic and

their future projections or the people they rely

on, INFJs can’t help but to place their at-times

Luckily, they know this about themselves,

and can often compromise these expectations

when they see fit. When they’ve worked up an

imaginative future-scenario in their heads that’s

incredibly realistic, only to find that when they

arrive at that future destination in their lives,

it’s nothing as they’ve imagined, they have no

choice but to compromise with the reality of the

matter. While some INFJs can end up disappointed,

over time they learn that to live life in the

moment, and to focus on the strengths of others

rather than their perceived short-comings is a

much better approach for their overall happiness.

Number 2: The compromise of their social status

They say without the appropriate networking,

those people are in society. With this belief,

people often compromise their mental health,

their connection to self, and their independence

for the sake of this social power. For the

introverted and intuitive INFJ however, this

concept is all backward. While they understand

compromise the position they’re expected to hold

within their social groups for the sake of their

solitude. Despite having the necessary skill set,

motivation and social skills for climbing to the

top of the professional and social ladder, they

often compromise that potential dream for the sake

of the deeper satisfaction they long for in life.

maintaining connections built on ingenuity

and self-gain. And while they may look at

those in higher positions as having something

they don’t have, they know it’s all in their

willingness to put up with fakery, leaving the

INFJ with no room for regret for their choices.

Number 3: The compromise of their beliefs

With strong beliefs and an unshakable open

mindedness, INFJs can be found caught between

learning about alternative possibilities.

Luckily, their innate knowledge-thirsty nature

allows them to compromise their initial beliefs

in the hopes of finding something they can

closer relate with. This expansive approach

may seem counterintuitive to people who see their

views as the end-all-be-all, however, no matter

how seriously the INFJ takes themselves, they

will always leave room for a different approach

or mentality. While they say that values and

beliefs live right in the core of each individual,

some of the INFJ’s deepest beliefs revolve around

the very fact that they’re not always right.

They feel humbled by that fact, and the knowing

that the brilliance of their fellow humans may

in fact have connected different dots due to their

life experience. And should the INFJ be convinced

of these opposing findings, the INFJ will happily

adopt them as their own. Or at the very least,

that everyone should have their own views.

Number 4: The compromise of their comfort zones

Despite having to fight against their screaming

inner avoidance in the moments before they take

the leap into the unknown, the INFJ rarely regrets

what they discover on the other side. In fact,

this is one of the best compromises this dreamer

personality type can make in their lives.

Whether it’s a nagging dream that won’t go

un-experienced like moving across the country,

setting out for a solo travel, or even getting to

know someone they’ve been pondering on. Or be it

the milestone in their self-growth journey, such

as taking a step in the right direction for their

health or expanding their professional skill

set. INFJs do have a deep need for alone time

new connections and a new vigor for life.

Speaking of the preference for close connections

based on genuinity, INFJs will do a lot for the

people they hold close to their hearts. One

of which is the compromise they make to the

preferences they have for how they like to live

their day-to-day life. While this occurs to a

certain extent when prioritizing their immediate

friends and family, there’s nothing quite like the

compromises they will make when their normally

solitude-based life is replaced with a close

romantic connection. In fact, since they’re

known as the mediator type, most INFJs have a

history of making self-sacrificing accommodations

for their partners. This type of ‘compromise’

is usually less of a ‘middle-ground’ approach

and more of a regretful over-giving scenario.

However, luckily, it’s not always an uneven

balance of give and take. And when the connection

is built on more of a balanced foundation,

INFJs will happily compromise their go-to way

of living for the sake of their lover. In fact,

in these rewarding romantic-based compromises,

they’re able to expand their interests and

even adopt new ways of doing things that last

regardless of the state of the relationship.

INFJs make compromises in their lives that

other personality types wouldn’t even consider,

nevermind relate to. Due to their truth-seeking

compromising both the comfort that comes with

blissful ignorance and the ease that comes with

living life through conformity. There’s a special

kind of challenge that comes with refusing to go

with the crowd by instead opting to be the black

sheep of society as well as their families.

through the forbidden knowledge and alternative

approaches to living for the sake of their overall

health and well-being, there is never any

regret attached to the compromises they make.

In fact, some INFJs would argue that when it

comes down to it, they have no choice but to

take the road less traveled for the sake of

staying true to themselves. A road that comes

with many compromises to the connections they have

with their family, the judgments they receive from

others, and the overall loneliness that comes with

this unavoidable perspective they have on life.

been on the unfortunate side of a targeted

attack, the need for reassurance of being

faultless is a fair approach to closure. However,

most times, that aspect of closure never comes in

the way we need it. And for the conflict-avoidant

counselor-type INFJ, who can usually see all sides

to a conflict quite fairly, they know this to be

true first-hand. In fact, this is a compromise

they’ve had to make time and time again for

the sake of their own mental healing in life.

Since they’re often the ones to be walked

over rather than the ones doing the walking,

they’ve had to make the compromise of needing that

specific type of closure by learning to let go.

Despite their need to analyze past conflicts for

days, weeks or even months before this conclusion

is met, INFJs rarely hold grudges. Although

they don’t necessarily forgive and forget, they

can certainly forgive and move-on in a healthy

manner, regardless of the absence of an apology.

Speaking earlier on the INFJ’s high expectations

they set out for themselves and their future,

this personality type certainly holds some of

their greater life goals with utmost importance.

They can end up being slightly competitive through

their determination, and may end up compromising

by playing out some of the most implausible

actions they never thought they’d take. However,

when it comes to their morals and need for

contributing to the greater good of humanity,

Whether it’s a job position, a relationship

the virtuous INFJ will compromise their initial

goals to remain true to their moral high ground.

Luckily, the choice is usually a change in

direction is usually a blessing in disguise.

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5 Intj & Infj Intuition Hacks (Introverted Intuitives)

5 Intj & Infj Intuition Hacks (Introverted Intuitives) explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.

introverted intuition as their most dominant

how are these INJ types able to strengthen

their natural gifts using intuition hacks?

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Alright, let’s get right into it starting with..

When it comes to spending time in solitude, you

don’t have to ask an INFJ or INTJ twice. However,

instead of spending this time escaping their

ever-going analytical minds through social

media or ruminating about certain scenarios,

these introverted intuitive types can find

great benefit in simply allowing their mind to

wander, without getting too fixated on one topic

or activity. A great intuition-strengthening

exercise is to brain-dump. Starting by simply

turning off any sensory information such as music,

harsh lightning and surrounding distractions,

and then letting their mind drift into the

abyss. Without any real purpose or direction,

they can begin writing down any insightful

thoughts, symbols or images that come to mind,

in any sequence that feels right. The results?

Well.. sometimes they can make very little sense,

intuitive types ironically knew all along.

Another amazing intuition-hacking exercise

concept of perspective shifting. In fact,

both the INFJ and INTJ are able to actively notice

the perspectives of other people quite naturally

because of their understanding of human behaviour.

Yet actively perspective shifting can strengthen

this intuitive gift to be able to pick up accurate

insights without all the unnecessary processing.

To do this, start by thinking of a person you

know, and begin imagining all the different

ways people may view them. For example, people may

see a considerably serious individual as snarky,

of the individual. Question where they may be

emotionally, what challenges they’re facing,

what their home life is like, and so forth.

Eventually, once there’s a good idea of who this

person really is and why they behave in a certain

manner, it’s easier to point these traits out in

other people. Ultimately giving this introverted

intuition a greater insight into the patterns that

lead to predictions aka, intuitive insights.

Intuitive hunches can come in all forms, whether

it’s physical reactions like butterflies in the

stomach or mental reactions such as an overly

persistent thought or curiosity, these intuitive

types know not to ignore these feelings when

it’s easier said than done.. Especially when

their nagging callings are difficult to fit

into normal day-to-day life of playing human.

Yet, these deep curiosities are actually their

introverted intuitive at hand, ready for more

information to decipher and make sense of.

It’s almost as if the intuition of these types

can see the next step before they’re conscious

brains process why or how it will all play out.

The only important thing is to follow it without

hesitation - of course all to a certain degree,

I mean at least make sure it’s intuition talking

before making any dramatic steps. Yet, when

done properly, these intuitive hunches can

prove themselves to ultimately show these types

just how far they can be guided if they just hand

over the wheel to their dominant function!

Number 4: Document all significant insights

The INJ introverted intuition is intrinsically

tied to the deep unconscious. And as a result,

many Ni-types have seemingly random insights that

can happen quite literally out of the blue. Yet,

aside from random insights and visions, people

with the INFJ & INTJ personality type are also

known to have very vivid, and symbolic dreams.

Especially in times of looking for deep insight

pertaining to a certain situation or area of life,

these intuitive types can often look to their

dreams to gain a deeper understanding. The only

trick is, often enough, these flashes of insights

don’t make themselves apparent in just one dream..

It actually takes a series of dreams in order to

analyze the patterns and similarities of what

is unfolding in the unconscious mind. And so,

these natural callings that may not make so much

sense on their own. When documenting dreams,

it’s important to write them down first thing

after waking, with as much detail as possible.

These creative types can use words, images and

symbols, no matter how bizarre it may look..

And then let your pattern-connecting skills run

wild - you’ll be surprised at what you kind find!

With excelling pattern-analyzing gifts, the INFJ

and INTJ personality types are known to not only

be able to predict accurate future outcomes

for themselves, but also for other people.

Unfortunately, both of these introverted types

tend to keep the majority of their intuitive

callings to themselves in hopes of not being

misunderstood. Yet, what they don’t realize is

that letting people in on their awareness can

actually strengthen it overtime. People love

knowing more about their potential future, and

for these intuitive types to be able to accurately

project certain possibilities, it would be a

shame to not share these insights with others.

Of course, some people may not be so open to

the idea of these seemingly taboo insights,

and sometimes these callings are entirely positive

or optimistic..But these introverted types would

be surprised to know how many people really

do appreciate this unexplainable function,

Well, that’s it for today PSYCH-Os.. So, are

you an INFJ or INTJ personality type? If so,

comment down below your favorite intuition

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8 Easy Ways To Instantly Cheer Up A Grumpy Infj

8 Easy Ways To Instantly Cheer Up A Grumpy Infj explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.

With the deep understanding that they can’t

look to others to resolve their emotions,

INFJs don’t expect others to cheer them up.

Yet, that’s not to say it’s not easy to do!

Welcome or welcome back PSYCH-Os! In today’s video

we’ll be discussing 8 easy ways to instantly cheer

up an INFJ. Before we get into it, we’d love

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Alright, let’s jump right into it starting with..

If you didn’t get it from the intro, we’ll

say it again. Some of the worst things you can do

for the INFJ when they’re not feeling up to par is

give them half-genuine support. INFJs are usually

quite aware that they are in charge of their own

problems and so trying to turn their mind off or

distract them with classic ‘turn that frown upside

down’ quotes can end up making them even more

annoyed. A few other things to avoid is trying

to convince an INFJ they’re overthinking, or

that they brought they’re issue upon themselves.

shoes’ scenarios because even this extroverted

understands where others are coming from.

They’re not one for tough love, and they’re

not overly hyped about being confronted on

where they went wrong on a personal issue, so if

you have nothing nice to say.. you know the rest.

Okay, so now that we’ve covered everything we

shouldn’t be saying or doing to cheer up an

upset INFJ, now let’s talk about the things

you can say or do instead. INFJs won’t seek

help and will instead try their best to conceal

their feelings of temporary dissatisfaction.

So, first, it takes someone rather close to

them to feel out that there's something wrong.

And since the last thing an INFJ wants to do is

blow their emotions out of proportion, they’ll

say everything's A-Okay if asked. So, by silently

observing and acting with small, unseen and unsaid

gestures that usually don’t even get recognition

are instantly noticed by the observant INFJ. For

example in a workplace setting things like going

above and beyond to do the more difficult tasks,

taking some of their load off. Or if we’re talking

about a family setting, things like picking up

some extra chores or giving the INFJ the night off

of adult responsibilities are the perfect small

gestures that don’t scream “I can tell you need

saving” but rather “put your feet up and relax.”

Serious and deeply complex, INFJs may look like

a tough cookie to crack, especially when they’re

not feeling like themselves. However, people

closest to an INFJ will know first hand that

this is far from the truth. They have a crazy,

silly side that just requires the right time,

place and person to come out of hiding. Now of

course, this is one of those actions you have

to feel out of the mood for.. But considering

the fact that INFJs feed off of the energies of

others, lightening the mood just may be the thing

they need to crack out of their grouchy front.

Silliness, intelligence and dark humor are

typically considered the weak spots to the INFJ’s

inner lighthearted spirit. With that being said,

if someone's humor involves making fun of others,

or even playfully criticizing the INFJ, they can

easily become uncomfortable and uninterested.

In fact, the wrong joke can change an INFJs

entire mood for the worse. So, when approaching

this already risky tip, a rule of thumb is no

teasing or bullying, just fun-loving, witty humor.

INFJs are known to be great listeners. Yet

unfortunately as a result, this personality type

is often stuck being the open ear on the other end

of a conversation. They’re rarely given the space

and patience from others to unleash their complex

thoughts and ideas that are in constant flow.

In fact, it’s been this way for most INFJs since

childhood, causing them to adopt a more quiet and

reserved demeanor despite actually having lots to

say. And although most INFJs have gotten familiar

with this one-sided position in conversations, it

is incredibly important for this rare personality

type to have people to listen to them when they

need it. By vocalizing their thoughts, INFJs can

find it easier to sort through their rambling

whirlpool of continuous thoughts, which helps

them get to the root of why they’re feeling what

they’re feeling. So, by actively and attentively

listening to an INFJ, they will automatically feel

supported, and depending on what they have to say,

Seems simple enough, doesn’t it? Just do nothing

at all, and wait for the INFJ to respawn.

type, an INFJ can feel feelings of anguish,

However, one common denominator each situation has

is the INFJ’s need for some alone time to process.

Although this rare personality type may enjoy

having genuine connections around to seek support

in, they’re still known to be highly introverted

and often highly sensitive individuals. Whether

they just need to recharge their social battery

or reconnect with their introverted intuition,

sometimes doing nothing at all is the best remedy.

This is especially true if that is what the INFJ

is communicating they need. They’re not just

saying ‘leave me alone’ so they can wallow

in their feelings, but actually to use that

time to figure out what the heck is going on.

When showing an INFJ that you’re supporting them,

it’s important to respect this boundary of theirs,

Number 6: Just silently be in their presence

Since an INFJ is so often stuck inside their

out of their heads and into the moment. This

requires a connection that doesn’t involve

awkwardness or obligation when sitting in silence

together focusing on solo activities. Luckily,

these are the only people that will know the

INFJ well enough to notice the difference in

‘I’m here for you but we both know you’re

probably going to figure it out on your own.”

INFJs are future focused thinkers. They rarely

get stuck on the past, but can easily become

overwhelmed and even anxious about the future. So,

if they’re feeling rather nervous or tense because

of an up-coming plan, sometimes it helps to

schedule something even further from that dreaded

date for them to focus on. Let’s say they're due

for some dreaded dental work. Maybe finding a

fun museum or planning a walk in the woods for

after is all it will take to calm their nerves.

having something they can consider somewhat

all on it’s own. Even if they’re too grumpy or

in their heads to admit it upon being offered.

The 2 key things to keep in mind is that plans

with people outside of their immediate social

circle may just add more pressure, and the plans

have to be something the INFJ actually enjoys.

What do they enjoy? Well, let’s move on to..

Number 8: Take them somewhere to calm their senses

Keeping in mind those two key rules, if an INFJ

is willing to step foot outside their house while

feeling only half like themselves, sometimes

a peaceful outing can make all the difference.

toxic relationships and living situations,

nature and low-key adventures is a perfect remedy

to take their mind off of things. Maybe it’s

something simple like a silent walk in the forest,

a challenging hike, a day at the beach, or even

a long drive. Anything that requires just enough

attention to not wander off into thought is good,

most INFJs have an incredible love for nature

of all kinds and don’t mind visiting their

So, even just reminding them of these simple

pleasures they can do alone can make their alone

time much more fulfilling. Oh, and if it’s

a romantic connection, simple gestures such

as offering a shoulder rub or running a hot bath

can instantly make the INFJ feel 10 times better.

Alright PSYCH-Os, that’s it for today. Before you

go, let us know in the comments below if you think

these 8 things would cheer up someone with the

INFJ personality type. Also, make sure to leave us

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