When People First Meet An Infj.. (This Happens) explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Although rare, meeting an INFJ for the first
time can trigger all sorts of unfamiliar feelings,
personal reflections, and inaccurate opinions.
With such an infectious affect on others despite
their reserved demeanor, there’s something
in meeting an INFJ for the first time that
So, how do people perceive INFJs and their
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One of the first things people notice about
the INFJ personality type, within minutes
With an inquisitive mind and grounded demeanor,
most INFJs have been told more than once that
they seem mature for their age, and it doesn’t
take long for people to pick up on this idea.
People instantly notice through the INFJ’s
unbiased insights, deep understanding of the
world, emotional maturity, lack of desire
for materialism, innate need for solitude,
inclination to go against the status quo,
and philosophical view of life, that they’re
that some INFJs, at a young age, know too
Despite this being rather intimidating for
some people at first, after a while of getting
to know the INFJ, this energy transforms into
a welcoming and comforting presence that draws
The only downside is that through this grounding
essence, they can attract the wrong type of
Sophisticated and mysterious, when people
Because of their reserved and pensive energy,
depending on the setting and the person, this
quiet nature can be quite attractive and alluring
due to the fact that it’s difficult to put
People become captivated at just how little
of their personalities INFJs show on their
surface while exuding such an infectious aura
that can be felt as soon as they approach.
When talking to an INFJ, you can tell they
don’t share all that they think or all that
they do, and that triggers an innate curiosity
in others that drives them to want to know
Although the INFJ has the ability to ingeniously
adjust their demeanor to match others, they
always maintain this sense of unwavering poise
and politeness that further captures the attention
This spotlight on their inner beauty allows
others to see how charming and courteous INFJs
truly are, beyond their physical appearance
The best part is that this grace comes with
an obvious sense of acceptance; to the INFJ,
it doesn't matter who they're talking to,
Despite other’s best efforts in trying to
break through the INFJ’s mysterious exterior,
from a social engagement with an INFJ thinking
Upon meeting an INFJ, some people see them
INFJs know they’re not like most, and fortunately,
they learn to embrace that reality after years
eccentric type to find out that others notice
how unique and unrelatable they are to the
Despite their best efforts of mirroring the
energies of those around them, their genuine
thoughts and intellect ultimately shine through.
In addition to their intriguing oddities,
they hold a noticeable unease and apprehension
when navigating through a world they don’t
This becomes even more apparent in social
settings or upon meeting someone new, whom
Number 4: They notice the INFJs reflective
Reflective and thoughtful, the inner workings
of the INFJ’s mind leech into their outer
demeanor no matter how much they try to conceal
Although their reserved nature doesn’t always
prompt them to share their analytical findings
with others, their deep demeanor can be quite
Through constant analyzing, observing and
introspection, INFJs tend to choose certain
wording and subjects when they communicate
not unlikely that they will be caught observing
them with their piercing gaze or gently pushing
to connect with someone’s emotional sides.
Rooted in this reflective and nostalgic energy
comes a slight intensity that hints at the
However, without knowing the INFJ’s imaginative
thought processes and genuine curiosity for
human nature, one could easily mistaken this
intensity as seriousness, making them seem
In addition to their noticeably reflective
perfectionism that others tend to pick up
on when they spend enough time around the
Despite the deeply appreciative and playful
character INFJs have within them, there’s
no doubt that they can be a tough nut to crack
Whether in a romantic setting or in how they
view their own accomplishments, it often seems
that satisfying the INFJ can be both effortless
Like many of the contradictory traits common
among INFJs, this difficulty in finding satisfaction
can make them appear far more judgmental than
This aspect of their personality might lead
others to believe that INFJs always find fault
and never see anything as good enough, when
in fact, they simply have a specific vision
in mind that they believe can be achieved.
INFJs will likely do their best to communicate
their expectations kindly and help others
understand their perspective, yet it’s in
Number 6: They probably witness their benevolent
from their reluctance to socialize with strangers
INFJs not only enjoy helping others, but it’s
in their very nature and cognitive make-up
Known as the MBTI advocate or counselor, the
INFJ holds an innate empathy that drives them
In fact, in relation to their at-times judgemental
exterior, INFJs not only see helping others
as a non-negotiable act of human decency,
but they can become rather disappointed when
And so, it wouldn’t be surprising for another’s
first encounter with an INFJ to be in relation
Whether it’s through the simple act of going
out of their way to hold the door open for
someone who has their hands full, offering
to help a classmate study, or offering a couple
dollars to someone who is short-changed, these
altruistic obligations tend to be someone
of the only interactions they have with strangers.
Number 7: They tend to trust an INFJ’s opinion
Yes, INFJs usually consciously decide to avoid
watching the news or reading the paper, yet
due to their inherent curiosity, they somehow
Not only are they aware of what's happening
in every aspect of their lives, such as recent
work drama or global affairs, but they also
hold well-evaluated opinions about these matters.
By meticulously analyzing situations from
all angles by considering various perspectives,
they’re ability to uncover the closest approximation
to truth makes their judgements valid and
Despite others not knowing all that goes into
their opinion-making process, INFJs give off
a sense of unbiased fairness combined with
their intelligence that makes them seem as
Whether it’s due to the fact that they only
speak when they have something necessary to
say, or their conflict-avoidant nature that
encourages them to disagree in the most polite
way, INFJs approach their opinion-giving tactic
Plus, this sensible approach to all sorts
of matters grants the INFJ access to deeper
conversations with others—an outcome INFJs
So, do you think you project these qualities
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