Why Do Infjs Leave Relationships (Infj Breakup) explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Since the INFJ is known to be such a caring
and empathetic personality type, it can be
surprising to some to know that they also are
known to cut off relationships rather quickly.
While breaking it off may look like a spontaneous
and reckless decision from the outside looking in,
things that can surely make any INFJ leave a
relationship. Before we get into the video,
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Number 1: Fear of living an unconventional life
INFJs walk to the beat of their own drum.
They’re hesitant to fit themselves inside any
box that society has deemed conventional, and they
usually seek out friends and partners that have
similar standards. Most INFJs will never really be
ready to settle down to live a conventional life
because they have such elaborate imaginations that
show them the realities they could be living. So,
when an INFJ is roped into a relationship
overtime, fear of societal expectations and risk
can make people change their desires in life.
When this happens in a relationship with an INFJ,
they will almost instantaneously feel the lack
of passion and drive for their unconventional
vision, and this can feel seriously unsettling.
When this doubt in an INFJs vision occurs,
it’s usually not long before they make the move
INFJs are like sponges that pick up on all
emotions and energies that surround them on a
day to day basis. In fact, since most INFJs are
considered highly sensitive people and empaths,
they tend to actually take on people’s emotions
for an INFJ relationship to maintain optimal
harmony, it’s crucial for them to seek out a
partner who is emotionally stable. INFJs know
this is a lot to ask of some people because
they understand the hard work and dedication it
takes for proper emotional stability, however,
they know they have no other choice. So, when
an INFJ is stuck with someone who seems to be
in a constant state of negativity, anger,
sadness, or hurt, it can cause mental and
emotional distress like no other, ultimately
usually leading to a door slam of some sort.
INFJs see the good in everyone, and sometimes it’s
not as easy as it looks. This caring personality
type is always willing to help because they can
see that everyone has a great potential underneath
all of their emotional struggles. Therefore,
are so real with themselves that they don’t fear
accepting a helping hand. The kicker however,
in their own work. For example, if an INFJ is
in a long term relationship with someone who
would be willing to put in all the effort
to get their partner back into something they like
doing. They wouldn’t hesitate to job search while
acting as an emotional support system for their
spouse, however, they need effort from the other
party in order to stay passionate. Without this
mutual effort, INFJs can easily run themselves to
the point of mental burnout which is a sign that
distance within the relationship is long overdue.
when in the moment of trying to impress someone.
While INFJs usually have a good judgment as to who
people are on a deeper level, they can easily be
flattered into being convinced that a potential
partner shares similar values as them. Afterall,
an INFJs morals and values are some of the most
important things they cherish, because they
And while it may seem like a near impossible task,
INFJs look for romantic partners that share these
their need for someone who is interested in an
unconventional lifestyle, this harmony-seeking
personality type needs to be on the same page
in order for things to work in the long run.
While most INFJs would claim that they’re
perfectionistic planners who need a steady amount
of structure within their lives, they actually
have a care-free fun side that refuses to take
life too seriously. Although all INFJs have their
times of being uptight, when they’re with someone
they can really trust and open up to a whole other
side of the INFJ is unleashed. They require a
level-headed partner who doesn't add additional
stress to unideal situations and daily duties.
INFJs require a balance between responsibility
and enjoyment in life, so if their partner
is to anal about the little things in life,
you can be sure they’ll get the boot sooner or
later. Afterall, if you can’t laugh about the
little things in life with your partner, life will
seem pretty miserable for any personality type.
As much as they’re hesitant to admit it, INFJs
love attention, especially when it comes from
the people they love. However, since we’re talking
about the walking paradox personality type here,
it’s no surprise that there’s such a thing as too
much attention for the INFJ. For optimal harmony,
INFJs require someone who understands their need
for attention sometimes, and personal space other
times.. And it can definitely be a daunting task
to decipher between the two at times. So while
it’s not always completely fair, considering
the INFJ is sometimes hesitant to communicate
their needs and wants within a relationship -
naggy and clingy partners will almost always
have INFJs running for the hills. In fact, INFJs
may even find themselves longing for a time when
they didn’t have the additional responsibility of
entertaining a relationship for this very reason.
the biggest turn-ons for this caring type,
and on the flip-side, unethical behaviors
not to say that things like lying and cheating
are some of the notorious break-up reasons for
just about anyone on the planet, but, for an
INFJ who requires trust above all else, even
the smallest fibs can set off major red flags.
INFJs need more time to open up and trust their
romantic partners - perhaps more than most other
personality types - so once that trust is broken,
it can be nearly impossible to win an INFJ back.
While some introverted personality types are
reluctant to ask about their partner’s deepest
thoughts, emotions, and past - these are the
things that keep an INFJ coming back for more.
Empathetic and extremely curious, the INFJ craves
deep connections with their romantic partners,
They’re not overly interested in the surface
level details - they want to dive deeper and see
what’s underneath all that social conditioning and
expectations. They want to understand people’s
aspirations, childhood stories, fears, dreams
they really are. So, when an INFJ feels a
reluctance from their partner to open up, they can
become extremely skeptical and maybe even begin
feeling as if their partner is a complete stranger
to them. Ironically, INFJs only reveal themselves
their true selves.. Talk about hypocritical!
One-siders are like an INFJs worst nightmare,
especially when it comes to romantic partnerships.
other’s shoes and see situations from all
angles, this personality type requires a great
deal of open-mindedness when it comes to romantic
partners. In an INFJ’s eyes, biased opinions and
one-sided views call for arguments and debates,
2 things they try to avoid at all costs. So,
when they find themselves continually discussing
you can imagine the accumulated frustration
The last reason why INFJs leave relationships
is for no other reason than an intuitive hunch.
The strong intuition of an INFJ is usually
a few steps ahead of their heart and mind,
meaning even if they can’t see the issues to come
- they feel deep down that the partnership won’t
serve them for the long run. This intuitive hunch
can be something as simple as a reluctance to
spend time with a romantic partner despite
enjoying their presence in the moment. Or
maybe it’s a nagging inner voice telling the INFJ
to move on. Whatever the intuitive message may be,
this reason can seem rightfully unfair and
confusing for the opposing partner - but intuition
comes before empathy. Or at least that’s how it
should be for this introverted intuitive type!
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