Why Are People So Obsessed With The Infj Rarest Personality Type explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
There is something about the rare traits of
the INFJ personality that seems to draw people
In a world of competition and materialism,
INFJs can definitely offer a unique perspective
on the deeper aspects of life with little
focus on the less important things, but what
is it about them that makes them attract seemingly
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Number 1: They’re mysterious nature sparks
They tend to only open up to a very small
number of people that they let into their
social group, and even then, their closest
friends and family still won’t know everything
This hesitancy to share their feelings and
emotions on personal matters causes people
They’re like an onion, you have to slowly
peel back their deep feelings one layer at
a time, and this can be extremely intriguing
to people who lay it all out, which is easy
They seem cool, calm and collected in all
scenarios but then their introspective insights
and advice gives subtle hints that there’s
a lot more going on in their busy minds than
This keeps people coming back for more, especially
While INFJs aren’t so quick to talk about
themselves, they have an incredible gift of
Listening is slowly becoming a lost trait
focused on themselves and what’s going on
Therefore, to be able to talk to someone who
is genuinely concerned and willing to offer
advice is a rare occurrence for most people.
So, when people do talk to an INFJ, they feel
heard, understood, and not judged, which is
The unfortunate aspect to this innate listening
ability is that it calls for many one sided
conversations, which can quickly drain an
In these times, INFJs will pull-away which
usually causes people to chase even harder
in hopes to get one last free therapy session.
The INFJ personality type is extremely introspective
which allows for interesting perspectives
They are usually considered old souls who
hold unexplainable wisdom on life's deepest
questions and everyday topics like relationships,
worklife, and really anything that has to
This, much like their listening skills, can
feel like a breath of fresh air for people
who are so wrapped up in the everyday drama
of being a human surrounded by other humans.
People who have been around an INFJ for a
decent amount of time will crave that deep
wisdom and uninterest for drama because they
However, if someone brings drama to this drama-free
zone (which is easy considering the INFJs'
Number 4: They attract people who need help
Because most INFJs can be considered empaths,
they often attract people who need emotional
While this doesn’t bother an INFJ who has
great pride in helping others, it can definitely
When people who lack emotional support get
in touch with an INFJ, they can feel an understanding
And while this can create amazing deep bonds
that most INFJs crave themselves, it can also
create a host of problems that cause the INFJ
This is when the unhealthy obsession can settle
in, where the INFJ is wanted much more than
the INFJ wants to be around the other person.
INFJs are seen as the counsellor personality
type for many reasons, aside from being amazing
listeners and extremely empathetic, they also
are able to deliver unique advice that gives
to stop and treat themselves, but they also
need to put in a little more effort to get
People who have had the pleasure of receiving
advice from an INFJ may begin to feel like
they have trouble making decisions without
their INFJs input, especially when it comes
INFJs are very independent people, and their
Because this personality type is actually
concerned about the well-being of others,
they don’t hesitate to give their full attention
However, getting an INFJ to step away from
their much desired alone time is where the
They’re not the ones to be constantly checking
in on people or spending their spare time
This can create a type of clinginess for some
people that require a good amount of attention
and presence form their friends or partner.
If outsiders were to take a look into the
mind of an INFJ personality type, they probably
wouldn’t be able to wrap their heads around
how much and how deep the INFJ is constantly
However, since they look calm, collected and
put together on the outside, people tend to
Their perfectionism, empathy and motivation
to better themselves requires this personality
type to stay consistent in their goals and
This makes other people look up to an INFJ,
craving to get close enough that the INFJ
attitude on health, money and life perspectives
This idolization and attention is flattering,
but for an INFJ, it can seem ingenuine and
almost as if they’re not completely understood
The intuition of an INFJ is one of their greatest
powers, especially when they learn how to
With that being said, if you’ve ever been
around an INFJ in the heat of following an
intuitive hunch, you may even call it psychic
The INFJ can feel when something is off about
a friend's relationship, career choice, emotions,
In fact, this personality type can receive
intuitive and empathetic hunches about their
friends and family just as they receive intuitive
This can make others obsess over the fact
about them that they may have not even seen
People may even begin to rely on these INFJ
insights to make decisions, especially when
it comes to close friends and romantic partners.
Number 9: They have an infectious charisma
INFJs have a great understanding of how the
human mind works, and in turn, what it takes
Okay.. maybe not all walks of life, but they
definitely have an infectious charisma that
seems to draw people in and make them want
While some INFJs take the back seat when put
in new surroundings, others are able to connect
with others in a completely genuine way, not
relying on small talk and gossip as the topic
This uniqueness mixed with their deep energy
can easily draw people towards them, yet an
INFJ will only let people into their lives
if they feel an intuitive pull towards that
person which can lead to confusion and even
Just as the INFJ can use their understanding
of the human mind to unveil their charisma,
they can also come off as being seemingly
Although the INFJ has a hard time flirting
with people that they’re actually interested
in, this personality type can surprise themselves
with the flirtatious comments they say to
It’s fair to say that these types of comments
can definitely lead to mixed signals, miscommunication,
If someone is showing an INFJ attention and
interest, not only is it fulfilling the INFJs
underlying want for attention, but it also
leaves them in a position to be flirty back,
Ironically, showing their interest in someone
can create one-sided connections and ultimately
avoidance once an INFJ becomes tired of feeling
Which, in the end, only makes the opposing
person try harder in hopes of tearing down
If so, have you ever felt like someone was
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