The Weird & Quirky Ways All Infjs Flirt explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
For the INFJ personality type, anything related
to showing their interest in a romantic partner
With introversion, shyness and reluctance
to let others in at the core of their personality,
there’s something about the act of purposefully
flirting that just makes the INFJ cringe in
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The INFJ is quite an unusual specimen, especially
that shows an INFJ’s romantic interest quite
like the overwhelming awkwardness that overtakes
When this chameleon-like personality type
is in the presence of someone they fancy,
it’s as if they instantly become distracted
by their feelings, to the point that their
mirroring social abilities become dormant.
find the right words to act nonchalant, so
instead they resort to their reserved and
While this isn’t exactly considered a flirting
method, or at least not an overly efficient
one, this shyness is easily detected should
their crush notice the instant change in character.
Ironically, while they’re busy unintentionally
friendzoning their romantic interests, their
kind and direct nature becomes effortless
around those they don’t see in that light.
Number 2: They become uncharacteristically
Going against everything we’ve said in the
first point, sometimes an INFJ who has been
exposed to their crush on multiple occasions
can become overwhelmed with high-spirits around
After their nervousness subsides, INFJs can
feel a type of high around their crush that
causes them to act uncharacteristically silly
As a subconscious attempt to distract themselves
from the self-made pressure they place on
the situation to seem as cool and collected
as possible, this type can end up making a
fool of themselves in the best way possible.
In fact, once the INFJ has reached this flirting
stage with their crush, it’s usually within
to get their crush to develop feelings for
It’s a refreshing and welcoming change from
the INFJ’s usually reserved selves and despite
this tactic not being intentional in the moment,
it allows their romantic interest to feel
Another unexpected way the INFJ shows attraction
Instead of directly brushing against their
crushes arm, complimenting them directly,
or noticeably trying to be around them as
much as possible, the INFJ takes an indirect
In hopes of not coming off as obsessive or
overly interested, the INFJ tries their best
to intentionally show their interest in a
Instead of complimenting their crush’s outfit
head on, they may meticulously start a conversation
that somehow leads up to the fact that they
appreciate a specific style..a style that
just so happens to be that of their crush.
Or, instead of telling someone that they appreciate
the passion they have for a hobby, they may
beat around the bush by talking about the
importance of passion and how they could only
see themselves end up with someone who holds
It’s all in laying the subconscious hints
and planting the seeds that let their crush
know they have the qualities the INFJ is looking
for, without directly telling them they’re
In psychology, they say eye contact is one
The right piercing glare combined with the
right facial expression can speak a thousand
words, for the INFJ however, sometimes their
While they may utilize their notorious stare
not always intentionally done for that reason.
In fact, sometimes they don't realize they’re
So, while it can be an effective method of
flirting without having to bring themselves
to verbally approach someone, sometimes it
can also be misinterpreted for the wrong reasons.
Used as a method to deeply connect to their
inner thoughts, sometimes the INFJ doesn’t
While this subconscious habit can give others
the wrong impression, luckily, eye-contact-based
gazes often come with a special aura that
nothing that fulfills the INFJ more than listening
They naturally show their interest in others'
problems and are the first to lend a hand
should someone need advice or an act of service
However, when it comes to someone they’re
genuinely interested in, this concern of well
In their efforts to better get to know their
crush, deep and meaningful questions are guaranteed
to come up, and often lead to hard-hitting
try and soothe the internal traumas their
No matter the information that is thrown at
them, the sheer amount of understanding and
sympathy is obvious, showing that the INFJ
In fact, they may even take it as far as beginning
to try and fix this person's problems without
Number 6: They let someone into their personal
The private INFJ’s personal bubble stretches
They not only hesitate letting others into
their life, their psyche and their emotions,
tag, stand too close to them in line, or , this
personality type can’t help but to become
overly uncomfortable when someone bursts their
However, despite the fact that INFJs usually
take the invasion of their personal space
quite seriously, when it comes to their crush,
who they secretly want to get closer to, this
personal bubble can downsize considerably.
When the INFJ is convinced intuitively that
this person may be someone they can see themselves
with, they will try to get closer to their
energy by either sitting closer to them at
lunch, finding excuses to unnoticeably brush
up against them or walk by them close enough
Number 7: They sacrifice their alone time
Just like their personal space, personal time
They are known for their reclusive nature
and often choose to spend time with themselves
However, when it comes to letting a crush
in, sacrificing their introvertedness becomes
Time conscious, they don’t make room within
In fact, even the thought of giving up their
much enjoyed alone time is enough for the
INFJ themselves to know how much interest
they have in this potential love interest.
If the INFJ is trying to conceal their feelings
while simultaneously showing interest, they
may resort to setting up a group hangout with
some mutual friends is the perfect tactic
to spend time with their crush without directly
Or, sometimes it’s the simple act of staying
a little late after school or work to talk
to this individual that speaks for itself.
While it may not seem like much, if their
crush knows the importance they place on alone
Vulnerability is a tricky subject for the
Like we mentioned, the INFJ is extremely private,
and often prefers to listen to other’s issues
However, when the INFJ is crushing on someone
they trust, they can feel rather compelled
Whether it’s due to the deep conversations
they’re able to have with this individual
or the fact that they feel they need to reciprocate
their ability to open up to the INFJ, there’s
nothing that notifies someone that this personality
type is interested than in their ability to
Yet, aside from opening the doors to their
minds, another way the INFJ shows genuine
interest is when they open the doors to their
Whether it be an invitation to their home,
their workplace, their favorite nature spot,
or even an invitation to meet their friends
and family, these sacred components of their
life are extremely meaningful and act as a
sure way to know that the INFJ is definitely
So, what is your go-to flirting method as
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