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Patient, understanding and lead with an open-mind,
it’s hard to believe that the INFJ personality
Although they would never show it, and often
take extra steps to hide it, there’s plenty
of eye rolls, sighs and questioning that comes
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Amongst all the pet peeves and annoyance the
INFJ experiences on a day-to-day basis, there’s
nothing quite like the cringe and disappointment
of humanity that comes with the lack of common
Whether it’s a lack of street smarts, basic
logic, unspoken manners, or the inability
to compose oneself, INFJs can become seriously
annoyed when they witness another human struggling
With that all being said, there’s one aspect
of common sense that INFJs can never wrap
One that gets on their nerves every time.
To the overly empathetic INFJ, basic compassion
and sympathy is a basic ground-rule of being
Basic empathy is the foreground for which
all other common sense stems from, and when
soul, it can certainly trigger their annoyance
Number 2: They often experience sensory overload
Due to the INFJ’s overly sensitive nature,
it takes a certain type of external equilibrium
Therefore, when things are rather chaotic,
overwhelming or overstimulating, INFJs can
Whether it’s heavy traffic distracting them
from a pleasant drive, the emotional intensity
of someone in a group of people, that unexpected
hug or hand on their shoulder from someone
they hardly know, or simply the hustle and
bustle of a busy crowd while they’re trying
to do their errands, INFJs can easily become
concentrated on the exact opposite things
they should be concentrating on.This overstimulation
is not only annoying, but can also hold them
back from enjoying life’s simple pleasures
And unfortunately, no matter how hard they
try to ignore the external chatter, it usually
takes the act of them completely exiting the
ruckus in order to calibrate their focus and
place to retreat to than their private, comfy,
In fact, the INFJ personality type requires
so much time of rest, recharge, reflection
and relaxation that it can be difficult for
them to maintain certain social connections.
This is because without the necessary time
to restore their mental and emotional equilibrium,
a workplace, within a relationship, or simply
due to the fact that the people-pleasing INFJ
has a habit of taking on more than they can
When they ignore their need for recalibration,
their normally calm and collected aura can
become just as chaotic and disorganized as
Luckily, with a preference of spending quality
time with no one other than themselves, their
short social battery life isn’t as difficult
In fact, this need for ample alone time only
requires a few small changes to their lifestyle
Number 4: Their perfectionistic nature can
Known as the mediator of not only relational
conflicts but also their own internal emotions
and external environments, INFJs thrive on
Rooted in their perfectionistic nature, this
personality type feels most like themselves
when everything around them and within them
Yet, of course, life doesn’t always go as
planned, and while some personality types
end up feeling these subtle changes to their
No matter how big or small the task, the INFJ
type finds themselves anxious about the potential
outcome; especially when that outcome entirely
With this perfectionism, the INFJ tends to
paint rather idealistic pictures of their
And while maintaining that vision can certainly
help them with their achievements, they can
end up back-peddling when things don’t go
In fact, some people with this idealistic
personality type would claim that this may
be the most annoying aspect of their perfectionistic
Number 5: When they’re distracted from focusing
Using their idealistic future projections
as an example, the imaginative and intuitive
INFJ personality type spends a lot of time
With such complexity, creativity and resourcefulness,
the experience of living in the mind of an
While it can certainly be chaotic and even
annoying in-itself at times, their imaginative
minds are filled with fantasies, introspective
insights and psychic-like visions that make
it enticing for the INFJ to visit for most
take a good amount of internal focus in order
for them to happily drift off to dreamland.
And so, sometimes, the very experience of
living as a human with the expectations of
stepping down from their internal world to
interact with their external world can be
And unfortunately for them, without resorting
to complete anti-socialism (which is definitely
tempting at times) the INFJ must find a balance
between absorbing information through their
external environments and the internal processing
of that information - without being annoyed
Number 6: When they struggle to explain themselves
With such complexity and the experience of
living life as one of the rarest personality
types, the INFJ often feels misunderstood
And while that’s a fact that they usually
get used to overtime, it’s not to say that
there aren't moments where they still become
Whether it’s trying to explain the feelings
they’re experiencing through their extroverted
feeling function, their intuitive insights
on the future, their taboo interests and beliefs,
their oversensitivity to certain environments,
or simply their preference for living life
on the fringes of society, INFJs can have
a hard time articulating their thoughts and
beliefs for the understanding of the average
In fact, most thoughts the INFJ comes up with
require a good amount of rumination for themselves
to even understand, nevermind make it palatable
However, no matter how annoying the struggle
of explaining themselves can get, there’s
nothing more annoying than being misunderstood
So, sometimes it’s easiest for them to keep
Number 7: Having to focus on the small details
INFJs are naturally big picture thinkers.
They use their external sensing and feeling
functions to absorb details from their surroundings
without even realizing it in order to utilize
their introverted intuition and thinking functions
This is the innate order of the INFJ’s brain,
experience their keen strategizing, visionary
However, sometimes their responsibilities
require a different type of mental approach.
One that requires a focus on the minute details
When they’re pulled from their comfortable
ways of thinking through processing small
details, routine maintenance or taking small
baby steps to achieve their big picture projection,
And while they may be good at it due to their
ability to deeply observe and catch the specific
factors that other often overlook, when they’re
forced to analyze for too long, their irritability
Number 8: Witnessing attention seeking behavior
While equality and the acknowledgment of one’s
own ego may be considered a basic practice
of common sense to the INFJ, it’s fair to
While the INFJ themselves prefers to be on
the complete opposite side of the spectrum,
taking specific measures to remain behind
the curtains of their accomplishments and
away from the spotlight, INFJs can understand
the motive of wanting recognition for one’s
However, when it comes to taking control of
every conversation, using fakery for the sake
of power, fishing for compliments, provoking
unnecessary disagreements, constantly maintaining
a theatrical presence and even some forms
While they may understand the underlying reasons
may even have an inward sense of sympathy
give that person a special form of the INFJ
stare, backed by a continuous internal eye-roll.
So, would you consider yourself easily annoyed
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