Mature Infj Vs Immature Infj How Do You Know explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
From the outside looking in, the mature INFJ and
the immature INFJ could be perceived as completely
different personality types. In fact, sometimes an
immature INFJ can mistype themselves due to their
inability to relate to the traits and habits
of their positively functioning counterpart.
And how do you know if you’re particularly
mature or immature in your personality type?
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Number 1: Pushy Viewpoints vs. True Understanding
When the INFj first begins to uncover the
they can feel seriously obligated to share their
discoveries with other people. In fact, this is
one of the great things about having this uniquely
imaginative creature in your social circle.
However, it’s only a favorable trait when they
know how to use it. For when it comes to the
less mature INFJ, they may take it upon themselves
to push their views onto other people for the sake
of helping or even awakening them to a new level
or perception. They may get caught up in pushing
concepts that their friends and family aren’t
interested in, or willing to hear. For example,
if an INFJ falls into a rabbit hole of why a
certain everyday food is disease-causing, they can
feel anxiously responsible for convincing everyone
they love to stop consuming that food. Even if it
really is for their benefit, this approach only
ends up stirring a pot that didn’t need stirring.
Healthy INFJs have the ability to provoke
personal-reflection in other people through
simple questions and hypothetical topics. They
don’t feel obligated to convince others of the
way they see it, but rather present them with
information to perceive and decipher themselves.
When an INFJ realizes the power in the information
they discover and the importance they place on it
compared to other people, they begin to understand
that not everyone is deserving of it. They don’t
avoid sharing out of spite, but rather out of a
protection of their energy. However once someone
comes along that wants to pick at their brain,
they better know they’re in for a wild ride!
between a mature INFJ and a so-called immature
INFJ is all in the way of how they let other
people’s feelings affect them. While all INFJs
have a habit of involuntarily feeling, and even
absorbing other people’s emotions to some degree,
For the immature or burnt out INFJ, the feelings
and moods of the people around them can take a
massive toll on their own mood. This can result
in them changing their entire emotional state
when influenced by the people around them. In
fact, they can become so influenced simply by the
presence of people’s silent moods that they can
feel obligated to make certain decisions in order
to make other people happy. Whether the absorbed
mood was painted in a positive or negative light,
the influence of an emotion that wasn’t their
own to begin with. This sense of control can
overtime make them vulnerable to controlling
empathetic level, while still being able to
differentiate them from their own feelings.
They’re able to make decisions solely based
on their own values and independent thinking
It’s fair to say this maturity doesn’t come
without a few harsh lessons.. But once the
INFJ realizes the strength of their intuition and
personal power, they can take people’s feelings
into account like no other, with a silver lining
protecting what they personally think is right.
Number 3: Their Perspective Of Their Abilities
In relation to how the INFJ personality type
navigates their ability of separating their own
emotions from other people’s, it all comes down
to their highly intuitive and empathic abilities.
Most INFJs are considered highly sensitive
beings, mostly due to their hyper-awareness
of their surroundings. Because of this uncanny
predicting the unpredictable and attracting
For this intuitive type to truly understand
the potential and power of their capabilities,
they must first embrace the advantages they
bring.. but it’s not as easy as it seems.
When an INFJ doesn’t know any better, their
differences can seem not only burdensome,
but even debilitating in some aspects of life. An
immature INFJ can see these blessings as a curse,
or as an obligation that they don’t fully
understand how to execute. Because of this,
themselves for being so different from others,
For the INFJ who is considered more mature
however, these differences are viewed only
as strengths. They have no desire to fit into
the world around them anymore than necessary,
and they don’t dumb-down their skills to meet
the needs of others. The mature INFJ eventually
steps into their own power by utilizing their
skills and abiding by their personal requirements
mature INFJ and the immature INFJ is seen
in their day-to-day levels of anxiety. Now
of course some general anxiety disorders can
be considered hereditary, and unavoidable,
but for some INFJ cases, anxiety can be a
direct product of sensory overload, emotional
burnout and a misunderstanding of their needs.
I mean, anxiety is nothing new to any INFJ
person. For example, since people with the
INFJ personality type are inclined to analyze
the people around them on such a deep level,
they can feel as if they’re constantly being
analyzed to the same degree; thinking it’s a
natural human tendency. Sure, people are curious,
but nobody analyzes like the INFJ themselves. And
so when this type is caught up in the thought of
the entire population being as observant as them
without the empathy to back it up, it can
make them rightfully apprehensive. Without the
understanding that not everyone is as interested
in figuring other people out as they are,
anxiety can creep up anytime, anywhere, making
social interactions somewhat unpredictable.
For the healthy INFJ however, life just isn’t all
that serious anymore. When this intuitive type
they begin to realize it’s rooted in needs
being unmet. Although anxiety still creeps up,
by their instinctual reaction. Plus, once this
type can embrace their uniqueness and depth,
We said it INFJs.. A social life is actually
quite beneficial for you. Although the idea
of spending days on end cooped up in imagination
may sound like the ideal life, social interactions
and observation is a must for any INFJ. Not only
does a balanced social life allow this analytical
type to collect new information to day-dream
about on their own time, but it also fulfills
the natural curiosity all INFJs have for human
behavior. It’s a need that shouldn’t be ignored,
but most often is, especially for the notably
immature INFJ. It’s fair to say that when it comes
down to it, socializing and ‘getting out there’ is
daunting to everyone with this introverted type.
But when an INFJ has become too comfortable
with turning down socializing opportunities,
this immature tendency can result in the INFJ
self sabotaging opportunities in love, career,
On the opposite end of the spectrum is the mature
INFJ who can decipher the opportunities they feel
called towards and the ones they know to stay
far away from. Although most people with this
intuitive type tend to be overthinkers, the
considered more-mature counterparts seem to better
know when they should push themselves to socialize
for their benefit. Sure, they still set their
boundaries, turn down a few invites, and maybe
even cancel a few last-minute plans, but overall,
they don’t let the hermit-energy consume them
and hold them back from life’s opened doors.
do you think you’re leaning towards the healthy or
unhealthy side according to these 5 differences?
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