8 Signs The Infj Is Experiencing More Anxiety Than Usual explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
For the introverted INFJ personality type,
who is not only prone to overthinking but
also self-criticism and perfectionism, feelings
of temporary anxiety are nothing new. However,
when it comes to burnout, unhealed trauma, and
toxic relationships, INFJs can experience more
sometimes it’s difficult to pinpoint whether
or not it’s the anxiety they’re familiar with.
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Number 1: Uncharacteristic negative reactions
Coming off a little aggressive or over dramatic
when something doesn’t go their way is not only
far from who the INFJ is as a person, but it’s
also far from anyone an INFJ would ever be
associated with. However, to their surprise, when
there are feelings of extreme anxiety involved,
they themselves can end up experiencing serious
irritability and other negative emotions. When it
comes to toxic connections or perceived failures,
it’s about the only time an INFJ who is under the
influence of heightened anxiety will react out
of character. And these dramatic reactions are
just representations of the reactions going
on internally, even at the subconscious level.
Failures and chaotic relationships definitely
affect the INFJ mentally and emotionally,
but with hidden anxiety, even the smallest
things seem like the last straw.The worst
part of it all for this conflict-avoidant
type is that big reactions can cause simple
situations to become bigger than they should have,
increasing anxiety and emotions along the way.
Under immense anxiety, overwhelming reactions
usually escape the INFJ without even realizing,
Zoning out and drifting off into their imaginative
experiences, naturally. Whether they’re sitting
back and enjoying a daydream, thinking up some
of their classic future projections, or worrying
about those future projections, INFJs need their
zone-out time to properly sort through and analyze
their thoughts. However, when an INFJ is shaken
back to reality, they’re usually pretty good at
knowing exactly what they were drifting off about.
When it comes to increased anxiety and feelings
of uneasiness, it’s a little different. In fact,
anxious thoughts, sometimes they’ll drift
off only to find they’re in blankness. Their
imaginative powers have vanished and they’re
either faced with the exact reason they're feeling
anxious, or complete nothingness. The ironic thing
is that most of the time, they don’t realize
they were drifting off into nothingness until
thought process they just had. Not only is
this blankness rather annoying, but an influx of
anxiety can also make these moments happen more
often making them super distracting in an INFJs
normal day to day life. Which brings us to..
Whether the INFJ is facing feeling anxious
not exactly sure where this increased anxiety
is coming from, overthinking is an absolutely
sure way to tell if it’s time to chill out.
The tricky thing is that, like zoning out,
INFJs are prone to overthinking as a natural
tendency. So, the mark of differentiation may
keep in mind would be finding it difficult or
literally impossible to concentrate at work,
in class, in conversations, and driving..
realize they’re not as attentive in their
listening skills as usual. These tell-tale
signs let the INFJ know that there is something
tugging at their attention span, and luckily,
these distractions can eventually draw their
intuitive attention to the source of the anxiety.
decision-making that is required can already
seem overwhelming for the INFJ personality type.
Yet, when an INFJ is strung up on subconscious
feelings of angst and anxiety, every decision
seems like a risk to take. Sure, this personality
type is notorious for weighing up their options,
but when they begin assuming things won’t work,
that’s when you know they may be feeling a little
more anxious than usual. Whether it’s due to fear
of failure, disappointing others, or not living up
to their own expectations, taking risks requires
self-confidence and when INFJs are under mental
pressure, their confidence begins to deplete
little by little. In fact, it’s not only this
personality type that experiences this. According
to psychologist Dr. Joan Rosenburg, the concern
with taking risks for anyone with heightened
anxiety is that they are avoiding feelings
of not only failure, but also embarrassment,
judgment, disappointment, and frustration - all
in which can be extremely overwhelming to process.
can it result in immense critical judgment
towards oneself, but also those around them.
With the previously mentioned irritability and
hesitancy to take risks, the anxious INFJ begins
to nervously question if they care for doing
the best for themselves. Their anxiety begins
to leak into their empathy and their need to
help others until they are in this confusing
place where they genuinely think they’re helping
others but critiquing their lives. This deep
anxiousness and insecurity can cause them to be
critical of other people’s lives and decisions,
even when there's really nothing to be critical
about. For example, if an INFJ’s best friend was
entering a new relationship with someone that gave
the INFJ bad vibes with no real rhyme or reason,
they may feel like it’s their moral obligation
to talk their friend out of the connection
when really, it’s a possibility that their
feelings are a result of their anxiety at play.
Efficient planners with a normally punctual
reputation, it’s unlike the INFJ personality
obligations and expected appearances on time
sometimes but when an INFJ is feeling rushed,
overwhelmed and behind in even the simplest
of outings, anxiety is certainly in the mix.
Whether it’s finding an outfit, contemplating
backing out at the last minute, feeling caught
up with some other obligation or a combination
of all 3, anxiety can come in waves, with some
days being better than others. And much like
depression, on the bad days, any commitment
can feel overwhelming and not worth it. This is
especially true if it becomes more comfortable
for this introvert to avoid friends, family and
work in order to stay at home with their anxiety.
Number 7: Heavily relying on structure and order
they’re feeling unlike themselves due to anxiety,
they heavily rely on structure and order to get
through their days and weeks. This external order
provides them a sense of calm and connectedness
amongst the chaotic disorder that is happening in
their heads. In fact, as an extroverted feeler,
it’s normal for the INFJ to begin reaching
outside of themselves for something to cling onto
inorder to ground themselves in times of emotional
instability. And when that ‘something’ also gives
this analytical type that sense of stability and
order they naturally crave, it can become a habit
that allows them to avoid the real issues they’re
facing. This structure can also play a part in the
way the INFJ organizes their surroundings. If
they’re experiencing uncharacteristic reactions
to things being out of place or if plans don’t
go as originally scheduled, it may also be a
sign of heightened anxiety. Structure and order
are certainly among the INFJ’s preferred ways
of going about things in life, but when it takes
a toll on their stability, it’s not really them.
Similar to structure and order, there's nothing
that quite soothes the INFJ’s over-flowing
feelings of anxiety like grasping on something to
control. Something in every area of their life,
that is.. Sudden bouts of control such as
micromanaging at work or helicopter parenting
may be necessary at times but controlling
can be seriously exhausting for the INFJ. And
not to mention, rather annoying for the people
being controlled. The reasoning behind this sense
of control stems from the need for structure in
outer circumstances to counteract the conscious
or unconscious chaos in their head. However,
with perfectionism at hand, they can end up
setting standards so far out of reach that
they’re bound to experience a sense of failure
and even more anxiety when they finally realize
they’re not reaching goals as intended. Not only
does this perfectionist control cause unnecessary
stress and panic, but it also comes with an
emotional side of feeling inadequate and even
incapable. Feelings that are much more difficult
to process through already-occurring anxiousness.
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