15 Infj Everyday Struggles The Rarest Personality Type explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
While everyone deals with their own personal
personality type knows a thing or two about
struggling to fit into the world around them.
With a unique set of functions, this introverted,
intuitive, feeler, judger personality type faces
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This chameleon personality type is able to use
their deep understanding of human behaviour
to properly connect with people on a genuine
level. While they’re social skills may seem
effortless and charming, deep down, INFJs
often feel like they can’t be their true selves
but when it comes to the true connection they
crave, they can surely seem far and few between.
Being highly introspective and intuitive,
familiar with the voice inside their heads.
While most people barely notice their autopilot
most INFJs would say they have a bittersweet
relationship with their inner selves. Although
their self-talk can consist of some of the deepest
encouragement, it can also act as that consistent
nagging in the back of their mind telling
them they’re not living up to their potential.
INFJs experience intuitive insights like no
other personality type..whether they like it or
not. While it may sound like all fun and games,
sometimes INFJs know things that put them in
a sticky situation wondering if it’s better
to share their insights or keep it to themselves.
Although it varies depending on the situation and
the people involved, INFJs have to be careful
of offending people or weirding people out
INFJs can be in a room full of people and still
feel absolutely alone. Often being the black
sheep of their families, the INFJ is familiar with
the struggle of feeling as if they don’t fit in.
Now, it’s not to say that all INFJs who feel alone
are necessarily lonely. Although that is often the
case, sometimes INFJs can find themselves
feeling both alone and lonely within their
work environment, family, and sometimes even
within their long term romantic relationships.
This alienation can discourage an INFJ from
further opening up or expressing themselves,
which of course doesn’t do them any good.
It can be surprising for some accutainces of the
INFJ personality type to come to find out that
they are in fact technically introverted.
and when they feel it is necessary, but deep down
inside, this introverted type requires a great
deal of alone time - which they happily work
into their schedules. This can definitely seem
peculiar to the people in their social circle
who don’t quite grasp the concept that they
probably don’t want to hang out every weekend.
Number 6: Not knowing whether to settle or flee
Most INFJs have the inner longing to live
the ideal lives they’ve fabricated in their
minds throughout the years of figuring out
what they like and don’t like. Even if it
looks as if they’re living well-maintained
and perfectly content lives on the outside,
like most people, INFJ struggle with the idea
of wanting more.. However, unlike most people,
the concept of wanting more to an INFJ doesn't
necessarily mean more materialistic things,
but rather a more fulfilling life, or at least
one that closer resembles their ideal worlds.
The fact that INFJs are rare is no secret, and
aside from all the other struggles that come with
being the rarest personality type, most INFJs
will actually never meet someone that shares
the same personality type. In fact, most of the
other personality types that the INFJ relates to
such as the INTJ and the INTP also happen
Luckily, we have the magical world wide web to
help connect the INFJs from all around the world!
INFJs struggle to buy into and work for the
big corporations of the world. Not only is
this because they can easily realize how much
corruption the big guys contribute to the world,
but they also see the power their time and
money has on the alternative options. However,
An everyday struggle for the 21st century INFJ.
Some INFJs can’t help but feel as if they’re
burdening others with their thoughts and feelings
imagination such as the INFJ can sometimes
seem more disrupting than enjoyable. INFJs can
oftentimes create an elaborate expectation of
how something or someone should be, before going
into it. Whether it’s a new date, a new school,
or even something as simple as a vacation -
sometimes INFJs can get so wrapped up in how it
should be according to their unrealistic standards
that they end up disappointing themselves.
However, as long as the INFJ isn’t directly
involved, helping others with their life problems
and lending an open ear isn’t as daunting
as it may sound for this empathetic type.
INFJs are writers.. Not talkers. While INFJs can
be great listeners, insightful advice givers and
avid users of the much dreaded small-talk
card to get their fix of human connection,
when it comes to talking about their feelings and
thoughts it can seem like a near impossible task.
One of the main reasons INFJs have such a tough
time explaining themselves through words is that
they explain their emotions in the same way they
view other people’s, which is difficult for most
people to relate to. INFJs are so interested
emotions of others that they can easily overlook
or completely ignore their own feelings. In fact,
INFJs are almost always slightly confused about
how they feel about all emotional issues in life.
Because INFJs truly value emotional vulnerability
connection, an INFJ may feel compelled to relate
to someone with a personal story. While it feels
natural and right in the moment, once an INFJ is
by themselves mentally reviewing the conversation,
they’ve opened up about themselves. While
can feel like the ultimate self betrayal.
There are times in every INFJ’s life when
their intuitive puzzle, meaning although they
know what they should do, they just can’t see
the logic or proof behind the matter. Even
sometimes insights and hunches can make no
sense at all. This leaves INFJs stuck between
trusting their gut feeling despite the facts,
or following their heart and giving the person
or situation the benefit of the doubt. Luckily,
intuitive insights will always unravel overtime,
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