10 True Infj Turn Ons The Rarest Personality Type explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
With a mind filled with complexity and fantasy,
the average INFJ probably has some interesting
thoughts and ideas that they rather not admit
to. While the same need for kindness and honesty
will always be at the forefront of an INFJs
romantic desires, what really turns an INFJ on?
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the 16 personality types, are drawn to uniqueness
and character. It’s rare to find an INFj that is
drawn to someone who follows a mainstream style or
way of life because INFJs are intrigued by people
who are able to think outside of the box and
confidently share their findings with the world
around them. Whether it be a unique clothing
style, tattoos, a unique hobby or passion,
or anything else out of the ordinary - INFJs
know when someone is being their authentic self
and when someone is trying to play a character,
and in this introspective view, authenticity wins
everytime. Plus, INFJs are able to use their
intuitive functions to see right through lies
and ingenuity - so for someone to act as someone
they’re not is only embarrassing for them.
the INFJ loves a good introspective conversation
where they can pick someone's brain about the
most unorthodox of topics. So, when someone can
provide accurate information and insights about
the topics they’re interested in, INFJs can
feel a certain type of interest and excitement
to actually talk to someone that they can easily
converse with. Since INFJs are also known for
being so interested in the human brain and social
behaviors, they love analyzing people that show
true intelligence because there is a deeper
complexity to their way of thinking that INFJs
can easily turn into infatuation not only
because this introspective personality type is
often so deprived of intellectual conversation,
but also that intelligence is one of the main
qualities they look for in a potential partner.
INFJs are givers in all aspects of life. They are
known for their need to help others and often try
whatever it takes to avoid letting their loved
ones feel burdened. And because INFJs are such
giving creatures, they can attract a lot of people
that are willing to take and not give anything in
return. So when the empathic INFJ comes across
someone who is willing to give more than they
want to take, it can be considered a huge turn
on. Aside from what goes on in the bedroom, INFJs
love to know that their potential or existing
partner is willing to put in as much effort
to keep the INFJ satisfied as they are willing to
give to their partner. They require true romantic
harmony in order to really enjoy a partnership and
when they find someone who thinks the same way,
it can make for a deep connection like no other.
Just as an INFJ can easily be turned on in the
presence of someone with incredible intelligence -
this analytical personality type can become truly
fascinated with someone with a mysterious, private
essence. While most INFJs feel drawn to people of
high spirits because of the infectious energy they
give off, this introverted personality type holds
a special place in their heart for people with
a deeper and darker energy. They can feel when
someone has past experiences that shaped them into
the reserved mysterious person they are because
INFJs can relate to that energy themselves.
Similar to the fact that INFJs are drawn to
genuinity and authenticity, this personality
type is turned on by people who have felt both the
pain and joy of their past experiences but aren’t
There’s probably nothing more joyful for an INFJ
than to witness a random act of kindness. And
while random acts of kindness involving strangers
don’t necessarily turn an INFJ on pursue, when an
INFJ is around an incredibly kind person, they
can definitely feel more at ease and interested.
Kindness goes a long way for this incredibly
caring personality type, and with that being said,
cruelty of any means can have an INFJ quickly
running the other way. A good heart is perhaps
one of the most important qualities when it comes
to allowing people into their social circle,
so in other words, it’s almost impossible to turn
any INFJ on without some form of kindness present.
While INFJs love their personal bubble, and are
usually quite hesitant to share their bubble
with other people - once this introverted
cuddling can feel like the end all be all solution
to all of their worries. Since INFJs use their
extroverted sensing to pay special attention
to key details within their outer environment,
they can be especially sensitive to the physical
feelings of cuddling such as ease of body tension,
than to other types. This highly sensitive side
of the INFJ also makes other forms of physical
touch such as massages and hair play highly
enjoyable for this extroverted sensing type.
the feeling of being completely relaxed and safe
can allow the INFJ to open up to the possibility.
Since the private INFJ is so guarded with their
emotional needs and wants - especially when it
comes to sexuality - it can take a great deal
of time for them to feel safe enough to fully
open up about their desires. Therefore, in
order for an INFJ to truly feel turned and
confident, they will need to be with someone that
has the patience and understanding to allow them
to open up at a comfortable pace. Once an INFJ
can actively see for themselves that someone
is giving them the time and space to peel back
they’re layers, they will happily begin opening
up more and more. A true connection is required
for an INFJ to be themselves, and true connections
take a good amount of patience - especially
when we’re talking about an INFJ connection.
As much as the independent INFJ doesn’t like
to admit it, they want to be wanted. In fact,
Aside from the fact that this rare personality
type so often feels like a misunderstood outcast,
they also have a perfectionistic side that often
makes it difficult for INFJs to see their true
worth. They are known to be sensitive and
INFJs, like most people, want to be listened to,
cared for, thought of, and wanted for their mind,
body and soul. Therefore, when someone makes
it noticeable to an INFJ that they are in
fact desired and wanted - this personality type
may not be so hesitant to let down their guard.
Behind the mysterious essence of the INFJ, they
are actually quite passionate and intense people.
So, when an INFJ sees that same passion and
drive towards dreams and goals in another person,
they can fully relate. INFJs get a rush from
their passions, and they can feel that same
energy when listening to someone else share their
wildest dreams and goals. INFJs are turned on
by knowing that other people are as passionate
about certain aspects of life just as they are
because they love the idea of non-conformity and
living life outside of the everyday rat race.
They love adventure and doing things for a cause
because learning and expanding their knowledge
are some of their greatest goals in life -
and when they find someone that can support
them and even join them in their passion, they
can feel a sense of connection like no other.
Of course, mutual levels of intimacy can be an
important contributing factor to the success
of any relationship - and for an INFJ it’s no
different. INFJs hold their relationships to a
of those standards surrounding the level of
intimacy their partner brings to the table.
While the INFJ can properly understand why some
personality types have less need for intimacy,
in order to feel turned on. With that being said,
one-sided intimacy can make an INFJ feel used,
have you ever experienced burnout as an INFJ?
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