The Real Reasons The ‘Faithful’ Infj Would Cheat (Infj Infidelity) explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
combined with their genuine loyalty means
that when they’re with someone exclusively,
it’s nearly impossible for them to even consider
the idea of falling for someone else.. And yet,
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Number 1: They were cheated on by that partner
personality type isn’t always one to seek
loved ones. For the most part, they usually
and can rationalize what drove them to do what
they’ve done. However, despite putting others’
destinies in karma’s hands, it’s not to say that
the INFJ doesn’t get hurt in the process. In fact,
it can take a major toll on this personality
type. And while overtime they may just be able
it left on their perception of that person. They
will withdraw, and even when they eventually let
that person back in fully, the connection is
never the same as it once was. Unfortunately,
this is where the INFJ can grow weak in terms
of the possibility of experiencing their own
form of infidelity. This forever imprint makes it
so that if the opportunity should present itself,
the INFJ may not be as disinterested as they
normally are. Which brings us to our next point..
able to walk away from a major mistake such as
being unfaithful without much consideration,
the INFJ’s guilty conscience will eat them
whether it be emotionally or physically, would
feel too unbearable to even consider. Yet,
sometimes the analytical INFJ mind takes over,
and can even convince them they deserve to be
wanted in the way they long for. While they
would never go and search for the opportunity,
it’s when the opportunity presents itself that
the INFJ’s rationalizing mind begins working
in overdrive. This is when all the things the
INFJ once forgave their partner for now become
questionable, including all the areas they lack
giving the INFJ what they think they deserve. They
begin to convince themselves that it’s possible
their partner isn’t “the one”, and may even begin
emotionally distancing themselves due to this
simple conclusion. It can be a scary place for
the INFJ empath who simultaneously calculates
just how much it would hurt their partner.
Speaking of rationalization in terms of all
the ways their partner falls short within the
connection, there’s something about the INFJ
feeling misunderstood that can drive them to
seek that understanding. Realistically, it’s
a lifelong battle for the peculiar INFJ to
find people who truly get them. With a mix of
complexities and the patience required for the
INFJ to reveal their true selves, it takes a
very specific type of person and circumstance
for this type to genuinely feel recognized
and appreciated for who they are. In fact,
with this life-long challenge being so apparent
for the INFJ and their ability to connect with
others, sometimes they can end up putting aside
the requirement to feel understood in order to
move deeper into a romantic connection with
someone. With hopes that this understanding
will come about eventually, the INFJ essentially
settles for something that doesn’t resonate with
them fully. In these instances, should someone
come along with the ability to resonate with the
themselves into a hole they can’t get out of.
Speaking of self-sabotage, the conflict-avoidant
habits of the INFJ tend to be the underlying
common-denominator in most of their romantic
and platonic challenges. Through their extreme
sort of discord within their connections,
INFJs are known to put off setting the necessary
boundaries that are meant to keep certain toxic
people away from accessing their energy. And
while this tactic makes the relationship seem
seamless and effortless in the beginning stages,
the INFJ ends up carrying an unbearable weight on
their shoulders once the connection becomes
this personality type can take the steps to
remove themselves from a toxic person’s energy,
and move onto someone more fitting. Yet, in
the worst case scenario, their toxic partner
makes leaving nearly impossible. Whether it’s
through some form of emotional manipulation,
physical threats of harm, gaslighting, pleading
or false convincing, when the INFJ feels trapped,
foot in the door. Despite it not being the
most effective or morally right strategy,
An emotionally unfulfilled INFJ is an unhealthy
INFJ. And an unhealthy INFJ is known to do things
INFJs require the necessary communication,
quality time and levels of physical intimacy for
the romantic connection to make it. While some
people can turn a blind eye to some of these
emotionally fulfilling components with their
partner, INFJs hold high-expectations of what a
romantic connection should look and feel like.
Despite trying their best to hold out for a
specific partner to meet these expectations,
or trying to rekindle the love they once had,
once an INFJ becomes increasingly emotionally
disconnected, they become more vulnerable
to external emotional offerings. In fact,
type of cheating amongst INFJs due to the
simple fact that this is the type of love they
crave amongst all else. Which brings us to..
They say love and stupidity are two sides of
the same coin. For the INFJ, who’s experienced
personal emotional infidelity, that’s certainly
the case. Like we’ve mentioned previously,
despite their introversion, every INFJ longs
for an emotional bond that allows them to be
their most authentic selves. And so when this
personality type finds someone they actually enjoy
spending time with, it can be difficult for them
to not want to grow the connection into something
further. While it’s not always a particularly
romantic destination they initially have in mind,
on the rare occasion they can end up finding
themselves in a deeper bond than they expected.
when this worthy individual has different
intentions. When the INFJ becomes vulnerable
with someone else while in a relationship,
it can be difficult for them to decipher how
far is too far. This confusion can make it
challenging to know when or if they’ve crossed
the line from friendship to emotional infidelity,
and just how the other person is perceiving
In the end, it’s extremely rare for the INFJ
to find themselves in these types of sticky
situations. When the INFJ is in the right mind,
without the influence of past traumas, toxic
partners, and delusional rationalizations, even
the simple thought of cheating is enough to scare
the INFJ back to reality. In fact, while some may
not consider it infidelity in technical terms,
the INFJ’s imaginative ideas can be enough to
cause their guilty conscience to shame them into
serious discomfort. Self-critical by nature,
the INFJ can begin questioning themselves and
their faithfulness within their connection
imaginative thoughts. It’s within this guilt that
the INFJ can actually end up shutting down within
their connection temporarily to try and understand
themselves and what they’re subconsciously missing
that’s leading them to these types of thoughts.
For the less balanced INFJ, these thoughts do
have the potential to lead to something more,
especially if they’re caught in an introverted
thinking, intuitive loop that hazes their
judgements and drives them to be rather impulsive.
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