Eye Opening Realizations Infjs Have When Discovering Their Type explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Those who have been through the discovery
process of their INFJ personality type explain
the clarity and self-understanding as something
they’ve never experienced before. With these
awe-striking findings, a sense of community,
and overall recognition for their unique ways,
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the explanations behind their quirks, even they
themselves can’t quite grasp the ins and outs of
their personality.. With so many contradicting
traits, a cognitive function that causes them
to absorb the feelings of those around them, and
an innate craving to go against all social norms,
it’s fair to say that most INFJs give up trying
to understand themselves before they’ve ever
really even tried. Luckily, everything comes
together like a jigsaw puzzle once they find
the missing piece. This missing piece is the
simple MBTI result of their INFJ type, and the
rabbit hole of information that follows. Slowly
but surely, the INFJ begins to discover that their
perplexities aren’t so perplexing afterall. In
fact, with the in depth clarifications of their
cognitive functions combined with real-world
examples that they can relate to their own
lives, they begin to realize that they’re
actually quite simple creatures. Actually,
Deep conversations, deep understandings, deep
diving into their own minds, the INFJ has no
interest for the surface-level of any area of
life. They don’t like fake small-talk, instead
INFJ’s crave to know what gets people up in the
morning, what traumas they’ve yet to heal, and
what type of person they are behind the facade.
They don’t like simple explanations for their deep
life questions, instead they want to understand
things from every perspective with the goal of
forming a solid answer to their curiosities. INFJs
don’t make excuses for their flaws, but rather
choose to pick them apart; to get to the root
cause of their shortcomings, in order to come out
on top. And sometimes, all of this acuity can come
off as too intense for others. Some people prefer
to take the route of comfortable ignorance, which
teaches the INFJ overtime that maybe their need
for depth is unnecessary in the end. Of course,
once the INFJ realizes just how their mind works,
they understand that their deepness is one of
their most charming and valuable traits.. One
that should never be overlooked, nevermind
dulled for the sake of others’ unawareness.
intuition is actually a cognitive function
decision and curiosity. To most personality
types, this sense of intuition barely qualifies
as a form of reasoning, but for the INFJ,
it’s something they rely on without second
yet even before INFJs realize just how prominent
it is in the order of their cognitive functions,
it serves as their primary internal driving force.
Despite witnessing the power of their intuitive
insights from a young age, INFJs live in a world
that doesn't always value or encourage reliance
on these inner feelings. This often results in
the undiscovered INFJ doubting these hunches,
constantly second guessing how trustworthy their
inner voice really is and ultimately suppressing
their intuitive observations. However, once
an INFJ understands the rationale behind this
dominant introverted intuitive function, it
becomes their superpower. It’s only after
the discovery of just how this function truly
works, that the INFJ begins to trust their inner
guidance system to lead them to a fulfilling
life not solely focused on pleasing others.
Amongst all the INFJ sources, blogs, youtube
channels, and instagram accounts, misconceptions
and false information is inevitable. Yet,
through these platforms of information come INFJ
communities filled with people sharing their own
INFJ-related struggles, habits and understandings.
Found in the comments sections and threads of the
internet, it’s in these shared experiences that
really make a newly discovered INFJ realize that
they’re not alone in this world. For most INFJs,
it’s right around adolescence that they really
begin to figure out just how different they are
to the people around them. Whether it’s within
their deep questioning of everything around them,
their wavering social interests, or the fact that
they require a lot of alone time - it’s not so
easy to justify where these preferences stem from.
Often resulting in them hiding away from society,
can never relate to their external world. All
of that changes when they begin to unfold the
by finding the people they can relate to.
isn’t something to be avoided at all costs
Introverts at heart, there’s nothing that will
ever waver the INFJ into preferring to socialize
over spending time in solitude. They require
ample amounts of time to themselves to rest
and recharge their social batteries. However,
without the understanding behind not having
it’s easy for the undiscovered INFJ to give
up on socializing all together. And while the
discovery of their personality type doesn’t
always change this throwing in of the towel,
socializing is for their development. In fact,
while the INFJ prefers to remain in their
introverted thinking and intuitive functions by
spending most of their time ruminating in their
thoughts, it’s in their extroverted feeling and
themselves and learns their life lessons.
Through this comprehension that comes with diving
deeper into understanding their personality type,
acceptance of this duality can make socializing
seem less daunting. Some INFJs may even prefer to
see their social outings as a means of self
improvement rather than an enjoyable hobby,
allowing them to let their guard down a little
and maybe even make a trusted connection or 2.
Speaking of social connections, one of the most
valuable realizations of a newly discovered INFJ
lies within their newly understood empathy. INFJs
know far before they discover their personality
types that they have a certain sensitivity to the
feelings of people around them. From an early age,
and feeling, which, without the necessary
understanding, can become quite overwhelming in
certain settings. They can feel others’ sadness,
they can understand others’ pain, anger overwhelms
them, and happiness uplifts their mood. In fact,
this is what makes socializing so daunting for
this personality type in the first place. However,
once they discover the depths and purpose of this
empathetic gift, they realize exactly how it’s
meant to be used. Through trial and error, as well
as the practicing of setting necessary boundaries,
comfortably open up to the INFJ and be met with
compassion, despite their reserved demeanor.
The imaginative dreamer, INFJs are known for
their future-focused mindset and their amazing
creativity to match. With the unmatched ability
to file through hundreds of potential scenarios
before making any decisions in life, this
of and perspectives of situations. Yet, while
it all sounds fine and dandy, being a dreamer
isn’t as easy as it seems. For the INFJ, this is
especially true when it comes to knowing which
dreams should be made into goals, and which ones
are meant to never see the light of day. In fact,
if this intuitive type isn't aware of the
importance their intuition plays in the process,
paths in life. Luckily, when an INFJ begins
to understand their own personal fantasy land,
these dreams as realistic and unrealistic.
When they can finally see this distinction,
INFJs can let their imaginations run wild without
the worry of being irrational or inappropriate.
And with this level of an open mind, you never
know just what may make its way into fruition!
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