Why Most Types Couldn’T Handle The Infj’S Reality explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Intricate, convoluted, and at times, tortuous
The life of being one of the rarest and most
misunderstood personality types is not an
While every type has their strengths and challenges,
the life of an INFJ comes with unique trials
and tribulations that most people wouldn’t
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long for the average onlooker to figure that
In fact, rooted in their combination of intense
ideas and open-mindedness, some of the INFJ’s
viewpoints and belief systems can come across
Some examples of this seemingly hypocritical
nature is there all-or-nothing attitude towards
life, their craving for human connection being
vs. their need for introversion, their longing
for vast life experiences vs. their habit
of staying stuck inside their own heads, their
ability to come off as cold-hearted despite
their extreme empathy, and the way they care
about their looks but despise superficiality.
However, regardless of the INFJs perplexed
and contradictory nature, they do have a method
So, while some people find this complex personality
maybe experiencing a day in their reality
would actually give some clarity to their
Through the primal and inherent need to fit
fair to say that being born into the outcast
personality type is rather difficult to navigate.
The INFJ for example, knows firsthand the
challenges and emotional battles that come
doesn’t have a choice when it comes to taking
the road less traveled because they don’t
feel comfortable conforming to the norms in
However, despite it being a personal choice
in some regards, most people would much rather
choose to remain on the beaten path of socializing,
hierarchy, and obedience for the ease and
With that being said, the average person would
certainly find difficulty when stepping into
the INFJ’s shoes, especially when experiencing
the unspoken rejection and discomfort that
Number 3: The intensity behind their empathetic
Most INFJs know what it’s like to give second
Not to mention third, fourth, and fifth chances.
empathetic type it would be not knowing when
to set the necessary boundaries around their
caring and hopeful nature towards other people’s
However, for the INFJ themselves, as time
goes on, it’s not so difficult to know when
they at least should be setting the boundary
If another person were to take on this INFJ
reality, however, the need to provide their
support and the overwhelming desire to give
others the benefit of the doubt could certainly
become overwhelming for the average person.
Mostly because the majority of empathy-requiring
situations make the INFJ feel as if they have
Besides their naturally big hearts, their
secondary function, extroverted feeling, makes
it so that they can’t not take on the emotions
of the opposing party, making parting ways
and putting up the walls around their empathetic
Speaking of the INFJ’s extroverted feeling
function, this particular function causes
the INFJ to not only wear their hearts on
their sleeves, but also makes it difficult
to connect to their own emotions sometimes.
within their immediate connections and when
they can sense a slight disruption, they can
This can be in regards to the connection itself
or how their close friend, family member or
While most people don’t take on these minor
inconveniences and changes in energy so passionately,
the INFJ takes it upon themselves to fix the
Through their emotional counseling and reluctant
need to get to the bottom of their sensed
disturbance, INFJs can end up feeling rather
And while this is something that the INFJ
has gotten used to over the course of their
childhood and adolescence, people with other
personality types could easily spiral into
To feel so deeply is one of the INFJ’s greatest
gifts and would serve to be quite the eye-opening
experience for others to experience, however,
it can also become a significant obstacle,
If there’s one thing that dives deeper than
the feelings and emotions INFJs absorb through
other people, it would be their profound,
Giving this introspective type the aura of
intensity and mystery, INFJs are continuously
asking themselves the self-reflective questions
They’re constantly wondering who they really
are and what their position in this world
They question what worries them about the
future, what their fear is holding them back
from, what matters most in their life, what
can I do to better take care of my physical
Aside from these types of questions that would
certainly make the average person feel rather
uncomfortable to face, INFJs also ask the
life questions that exist on a grander and
Things like why we’re all here on this floating
rock in the first place, whether or not emotions
are simply chemicals passing through the brain
or something more, whether or not technology
is more harmful than helpful, and even the
less-important ponderings such as whether
With this deep critical thinking habit, most
people would go through an existential crisis
of sorts, unable to decipher where their beliefs
They say the ability to remain present is
With past-focused thoughts being the root
of depressive patterns and future-focused
thoughts being the trigger for anxiousness,
in everyday life is where we feel the most
And while some personality types have an easier
time remaining in the present moment, for
the thought-focused INFJ, this concept can
While they usually have a steady control over
where their introverted intuitive imagination
about either the past, or more often, the
They can’t help but to use their present-moment
time to either ponder on recent experiences
or to think of their upcoming goals, ideas
In fact, even when they are seemingly present
within a situation, especially when meeting
new people in a social setting, the INFJ can
easily be distracted by their deep observation
Instead of focusing on the topic of conversation
within a social gathering, they can’t help
but to tune into every minuscule detail, including
tone of the conversation, the way people talk,
their body language, and even the energy in
the room, which would certainly be difficult
Number 7: They’re never sure of themselves
Speaking of the INFJ’s difficulty with staying
in the present moment, they also have a hard
Since this personality type can predict multiple
future outcomes through their psychic-like
cognitive patterns, even the simplest of decisions
Every decision comes with multiple spin-off
questions that can make the decision-making
process extremely overwhelming, even for the
For example, instead of the INFJ simply choosing
they may instead stare at the menu while they
question every associated repercussion and
They may question whether or not they should
get something that’s better for their health,
whether they should get something that is
the time to eat in a while, or whether they
should get something more snack-size so that
They may even question if they could make
the same thing at home for less money, or
whether they should just get the same thing
The worst part of it all, is that when they
finally decide and are enjoying their meal,
they’ll more than likely question whether
or not they should’ve gotten something else.
So, do you think other people could handle
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