10 Things Infjs Can Never Forgive explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Just like patience, forgiveness is a virtue. One
that frees someone from feelings of anguish and
distrust towards another, however, for an
INFJ it isn’t all that easy. With guards up
and skepticisms strong, INFJs are known for
their difficulty in trusting other people,
and with that comes particular unforgivables
that are nearly impossible to come back from.
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never forgive. Before we get into it, we’d love
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sake of a little excitement in their lives.
Like we said, INFJs try to avoid confrontation
and heated conversations as much as possible in
order to maintain their inner equilibrium. Whether
someone is stirring the pot to prove themselves
right or to create drama that takes the heat off
their backs, the concept of creating conflict
for no real reason other than self-gain can be
seriously off-putting for the INFJ personality
type. Not only will they not be able to forgive an
instigator for their approach to discussions but
INFJs also would never be able to fully trust
them to the point of sharing their insights
Whether it’s cheating within a relationship
or someone cheating their way through life,
INFJs rarely forgive cheaters. Sure, with a broad
understanding of mental and emotional motives
And it definitely doesn’t mean they’ll forgive.
While they may be able to put the past behind
them and continue a connection with someone
who has cheated depending on the situation,
this guarded personality type will always remain
weary. Because once an INFJ’s trust is broken,
there's very little that can be done to gain that
trust back. Which brings us to our next point..
The concept of breaking trust in any relationship
is quite broad and particular to the situation.
Whether someone has been lied to, talked about
behind their back, or thrown under the bus,
they have a right to claim their trust back and
no longer expect that individual to be considered
trustworthy. However, for an INFJ who is already
extremely skeptical about trusting others,
sometimes even the simplest of things can
break an INFJs trust to the point of no return.
bad-mouthing other friends and family, not
holding their end up within the connection, and
inability to control feelings of frustration and
anger all leave a bad taste in an INFJ’s mouth.
Sometimes so bad that they want nothing to do
with that person, with little explanation to why.
but in an INFJ’s eyes, there's no coming back
from it. Because of the INFJ's intuitive nature,
they can have strong gut feelings about the people
they meet, making it impossible to overlook the
negative qualities they feel about someone. When
INFJs are caught in a conversation where they
the INFJ will become overly uncomfortable,
because although they despise deceit, they
also try to avoid conflict at all costs, so
it leaves them in a limbo of knowing what action
is the appropriate one. It all comes down to
the fact that this empathetic type prides
themselves on being as honest as possible
by using their highly valued set of morals to
become a good force in the world. So not only
is manipulation especially irritating for an INFJ
because they can’t relate to the motive behind it,
but they know it’s usually not a one-time-deal,
meaning they can never fully forgive them.
The real kicker to being around fake people
and manipulators is one of the INFJs biggest
trust-breaking pet peeves, and that’s ingenuine
compliments.. Whether it’s a commissioned retail
clerk raving about how nice those jeans look,
or a sweet-talking narcissist trying to weasel
their way into their heart, INFJs can’t stand
fakery. In fact, this introverted intuitive
can clearly distinguish between someone’s
actions in comparison to their intentions,
you should probably save the ingenuine compliments
for someone a little more gullible. Not only
can they see right through you but they’re
probably cringing at the obviousness of it all.
which gives them the ability to come up with
some pretty interesting opinions. Not only that,
but because they’re always wanting to gain deeper
insight into other people's thinking patterns,
they’re more than willing to hear different
perspectives. However, when perspectives are
forcefully communicated or used in place of hard
facts, INFJs automatically put up a guard knowing
they have to filter through what that person says
is based on truth and what is rooted in opinion.
If they feel as if they’re being convinced of
a certain opinion with little time or space
to incorporate their own views, an INFJ’s trust
towards that individual and the things they say
will be jeopardized. Sure, some people talk with a
little more passion and enthusiasm than others but
There’s nothing an INFJ despises more than being
put on the spot, especially in a group of people.
While they don’t mind being called out for their
short-comings, this gentle type knows that there
is a right and wrong way of going about it. If
an INFJ feels ganged up on, called out, or as
if they’re the but of a joke because of a mistake
they made, they will never be able to forgive and
let go of the panic it caused them. Especially if
there is a sense of anger or frustration involved,
they much rather wait for things to cool down and
then be discussed rather than being the one to
take the brunt of it. Since INFJs can’t properly
defend or really even think for themselves in
times of forced confrontation they end up feeling
helpless and maybe even bullied in these moments.
Insincerity of any kind speaks loud and clear to
the INFJ personality type. Similar to ingenuine
compliments, INFJs just can’t wrap their heads
around saying something that they don’t really
mean all for the sake of personal gain. Now let’s
not forget that INFJs are known to be some of
the most forgiving, understanding and considerate
types because of their tendency to give people the
benefit of the doubt. However, this doesn’t mean
they can’t sense insincerity from a mile away.
INFJs are faced with a sense of second-hand
embarrassment for their immoral approach.
Sure, an INFJ can laugh it off and play along
in the moment, but in reality, they’re setting
serious boundaries around their connection with
that individual - boundaries are unchangeable.
Preferring being behind the curtains rather
than in the spotlight, INFJs have tremendous
strengths they bring to the table and are quite
used to them being unrecognized by others.
there's a sense of understanding when their
results go unnoticed. However, when they’re used
for their talents, empathy and perseverance only
for someone else to take the credit, there's no
chance an INFJ will forgive. When they feel as if
someone is downgrading their successes, belittling
their worth or undermining their accomplishments,
they’ll never be able to see that person the same.
INFJs strive for equality and shared credit,
so when someone takes it upon themselves to
be seen as better than everyone else, trust
and forgiveness goes right out the window.
Number 10: Illogical rules and regulations
Some people make rules just because they’re in the
power to do so. Bosses, spouses, parents, and even
people in higher governing positions - when people
let power get to their heads, INFJs will never
fully forgive. In fact, it’s not so much about
the INFJs need for creativity and tendency to go
against social norms, but this personality type is
always asking why. Why are things done this way,
why hasn’t someone reevaluated, why aren’t people
standing up for themselves.. And if they can’t
find a logical answer, they begin to question
the ulterior motives behind the regulations that
are placed upon them. Through this questioning is
where the INFJ usually reveals the unfair, bias,
immoral and discriminatory side of it all, and
this is where all potential forgiveness is wilted.
And that’s it for today’s video PSYCH-Os.. So,
can you think of any other unforgivables as an
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