8 Reasons Why Other Men Feel Intimidated By The Infj Man explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Whether an INFJ man leans more towards the
sigma or alpha side of the male hierarchy,
they have something about them that seems
to intimidate other men in a different way
than you’d imagine. They’re rarely the life of
the party, and they’re certainly not normally
considered the macho men of the group.. So why
is it that they would be considered intimidating?
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Although the dating game seems rather challenging
for both the INFJ man and then INFJ woman,
from the outside looking in, INFJ men get along
with women on a level that other men can’t.
Sure, it doesn’t always mean they’re perceived
as ‘boyfriend material’ but for the empathic INFJ
man, understanding the emotions and feelings
of women is considered an easy task. In fact,
behind a lot of women’s thought processes.
Because of this, they actually prefer talking
to women compared to men, which gives them the
advantage of being around more women. While the
average INFJ man may be friend zoned, from afar it
looks like they’re undoubtedly a ladies man..which
makes some men feel seriously intimidated,
left wondering what their charm is all about.
The main reason men of other personality types
find the INFJ man slightly intimidating is due
especially when it comes to the emotions of other
people. Besides the fact that their empathic
ability can easily freak people out, INFJ men
carry a sense of intensity in their energy that
can sometimes be sensed by others. This intense
energy can be enough to make other men hesitate
when it comes to approaching or getting to know
the deeply introspective INFJ man. Although most
INFJ men probably know this about themselves
on some level, they aren’t too apologetic about
this intense energy because they have no interest
in necessarily impressing others or fitting in.
They either attract people who are willing to see
through that intensity or they happily move on.
Known as one of the more extroverted of the
introverted personality types, the INFJ man can
mesh with any crowd due to their chameleon-like
abilities. However, it’s not always their social
skills that intimidate the men around them,
instead, it’s the unpredictability of knowing
which INFJ you’re going to get. Of course,
this is only apparent when you’ve seen the INFJ
multiple times and within different settings,
they’re able to adjust their mood, tone of voice
and frame of mind in order to make the person whom
they’re talking to feel more comfortable. While
this is generally quite an impressive trait,
it tends to be more eye-catching when it comes
from an INFJ man rather than a woman. Not only
does it make other men feel like they can’t
relate to people (more specifically women)
the same way an INFJ man does - but it makes
them feel like they’ve been doing it all wrong
all along. Unfortunately, extroverted thinking
and feeling isn’t something you can learn.
INFJ men have a particular energy about them.
It’s an energy that at first is quite difficult
to put a finger on. Interestingly enough,
it’s an energy that’s only confusing to others
because of its contradictory nature. INFJ men are
both inherently laid back, and extremely guarded.
They’ll rope you into a conversation rooted
in original ideas and concepts, ask you about
your life and then hold you at a distance
for weeks, months, and even years to come.
They can easily make acquaintances but when it
comes to letting other guys into their social
circle, it’s a little bit of a different story.
This can be rather intimidating to men who easily
let other people in, or even men who have a large
social circle because they end up questioning what
about them the INFJ doesn’t like. Of course, as
we all know, it’s not so much about the INFJ not
liking something about a person but rather
the fact that they take a painstakingly-long
time to allow others to get to know them on a
personal level. Confusing, yes. Spiteful, no.
they aren't so keen on sharing their original
ideas or shouting their latest greatest plans
from rooftops. However, when in conversation with
the INFJ man, other men can’t help but to pick up
on their unique ways of thinking. In fact, this
is what usually intrigues women when talking to
the rare INFJ man, because this originality comes
with depth and wisdom that they don’t see in some
other men. In fact, the level of independence
INFJ gift feels most threatening to the men who
set out to take all the credit or are stubbornly
closed off to outer opinions. Unfortunately this
is the case in some work settings where INFJs
naturally are attuned to work smarter rather
than harder, because it’s never appreciated by
the stubborn ones who are accustomed to always
going by the rule book. In these instances,
they’ll see the INFJ man as rebellious when
really he just sees a better way of doing things.
Kindness is one of those things that everyone
wants from others, but when it comes with no
warning, we tend to become very suspicious.
That concept is a prime example of why INFJ men
intimidate other men. While some men are able to
accept random acts of kindness without question
or doubt, most men have an underlying sense of
distrust within the world and the people in it.
Most men, or really most people, believe that
if someone is doing something nice for them,
they either expect something in return or they
are going to use that favor against them in the
long run. So, when the INFJ man attempts to lend
a hand or go out of their way for someone else,
it’s no surprise when people are left wondering
but kindness can be not only intimidating but
seen as seriously questionable for some people,
Although INFJ men are keen on helping others,
most of them know that in reality, they are
quite introverted and independent people in their
private life. Sure, independence can be seen as
a manly trait that most men are somewhat equipped
with. But the INFJ’s level of independence is
something most men can’t relate to. They’re not
only independent in the sense that they don’t
really need a large group of friends or social
status to be content, but they hold a level of
independence that affects all areas of life. All
INFJs march to the beat of their own drum, relying
on no one, and often going against social norms.
people at a distance in order to maintain this
level of solitude in their day-to-day lives.
In fact, this independence is most intimidating
to the extroverted men who actually feed off the
energy of others to feel re-energized because
naturally they will want to spend more time with
While all INFJs have an underlying obligation
to avoid conflict, the INFJ man is less likely
to hold back compared to the INFJ women. This is
especially true when they’re faced with other men
that are discussing or actively acting upon things
that are against their deep-set morals. Lying,
cheating, abusing, you name it. If the INFJ man is
up against men that use others for their own gain,
they won’t hesitate to question their motives
aloud. INFJ men have a keen sense of seeing right
through BS of any sort - which can definitely have
some people questioning how they know what they
know. In fact, men can end up feeling intimidated
when faced with this incredible ability to see
through their dishonestly because they’re able
to notice things about people that others are
completely oblivious to. This makes other men
question whether or not the facade they think
they’re putting on is obvious to everyone else or
just the INFJ themselves. Luckily, while it may
look like the INFJ man can read minds, most of the
time they’re using body language, change in tone,
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