How Does The Infj Personality Type Get Revenge explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
When someone does the INFJ wrong, there’s no doubt
they take it hard. With so much hope and empathy
for humanity as a whole, this personality type
can’t help but to not only feel sad for being
done wrong, but also disappointed in how some
people treat others, generally. And nothing
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Alright, let’s get right into all the different
ways the INFJ seeks revenge, starting with..
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aside, it’s fair to say that INFJs are one of
the least-likely personality types to take
any form of spiteful revenge against others.
vengeance may call for different reaction levels,
no matter the personality type. However, for the
INFJ who can’t help but to see the good in people,
revenge rarely crosses their minds. In fact, the
INFJ’s need to ‘live and let live’ sometimes has
feel on an emotional level. Sometimes, just the
thought of putting in action towards revenge or
getting even with someone can seem like way
too much of a mental and emotional hassle for
it to be worth it. Usually, if the INFJ has been
wronged, they want less to do with the person,
into the manner. Plus, most philosophical
INFJs are big believers in karma.. So, they’ll
happily step and leave it up to those believed
laws to put things in order when it’s most
appropriate for that deserving individual.
While some people must act out and experience
certain things in life in order to feel truly
opposite. In fact, they can easily play out
a potential scenario in their heads and become
seriously bothered by it. On the other hand,
they can use these powerful and vivid visual
images to play out certain scenarios in their
imagination in order to feel a little better about
the situation. Instead of leaving it up to Whether
they perceive it as healing, manifesting,
or a weird form of mediation - usually if an
INFJ just sits and thinks of all the ways they
someone, they walk away feeling much more
at ease. And even within their wildest and most
realistic ideas, this sympathetic type is rarely
actually vengeful. However, that’s not to say
that on the extremely rare occasions, these
visions are just too fool-proof to not execute in
reality. And that brings us to our next point..
Number 3: They weigh up the pros and cons
Now, if you’re an INFJ yourself, you know
sometimes karma just won’t cut it. Sometimes
empathy, understanding and patience isn’t enough
to manage the constant racing thoughts of a
particular person or situation. And usually,
this kind of still very hesitant-retaliation
only comes about when they’ve been seriously
wronged, but most often when someone they love
has been wronged. In fact, it doesn’t always
have to be by one individual person that is
done the wrong-doing, but even a workplace, group
of people, or business. No matter the scenario,
they can certainly begin questioning whether
not only have they played it out in their minds,
but they’ve probably found a route of harmless
vengeance. A plan that is needed not only for
their own satisfaction, but one that will truly
allow that person to learn their lesson. For
the sake of humanity, and anyone else who may
have experienced being wronged in the same way.
And for the sake of hopefully stopping someone
being wronged that way in the future. So, how
do they approach taking this vengeful action?
Well, we can only hold off on the harsh truth of
the matter for so long. And that’s that sometimes,
it, and contemplate it, but sometimes they
actually go out and get it. Luckily, there’s
not many INFJs that can speak in this manner
due to lack of experience. However, there is one
particular instance where this normally calm,
cool and collected personality type may in fact,
step out of line. And that’s when they are under
over-stimulation, over-working, over-committing
and ultimately burn out, the INFJ can get stuck
in a toxic loop of their introverted functions.
they have no space to utilize their extroverted
ones. Unfortunately, the INFJ’s extroverted
feeling and sensing functions are the ones
that ground this rather up-in-the-clouds type.
These are the functions that allow the INFJ
to truly understand the emotions of others
and the world around them as a whole, which has
a lot to do with their strong empathetic traits.
However, when these aren’t available, the INFJ
gets stuck in their own thoughts like never
before. This is where they can convince themselves
that maybe revenge is the best option. Yet,
even then their high morals won’t allow them
to take it very far. The ironic thing is that
if an INFJ should be thrown into this loop, the
regret and remorse they feel once they’re back to
their normal selves is incomparable to any type of
spiteful-action they could take towards another.
Okay, so we have the rare occasions that send
the INFJ in a painful mental-loop of constantly
questioning whether to act or not. And then
you have the seemingly harmless situations
where the INFJ just wants to have a little fun.
You know those scenarios where you just have
to shake your head at the indecency and lack of
common manners in some people you pass in a day?
The frantic highway driver weaving from lane
to lane, the restaurant guest that’s rude to
the waiter, or even the simple act of not saying
thank-you when someone else has waited for them
with the door open. Well, unfortunately, for the
rather observant INFJ, witnessing humanity from
the sidelines can feel like one disappointment
after another some days. And on these days,
While they probably won’t choose to start cutting
off the crazy highway lane-jumper, they may use
humor to combat people who don’t use their manners
by saying the reply anyway. With the least amount
of snark possible and often acting oblivious
to the situation, an INFJ may say ‘You’re so
very welcome’ or ‘My pleasure’ as a response
to the non-existent appreciation. This way,
even if this person was in fact too busy or too in
their heads to say thank-you (like the INFJ will
probably convince themselves), maybe a playful
remark will give them that gentle reminder.
The most ironic aspect of the entire INFJ-revenge
concept is the fact that they seem most spiteful
elaborate. So, if you’re an INFJ yourself
you’ll know the level of contemplation and
strength it takes to set even the simplest of
boundaries around your time, energy, empathy and
need for solitude. And unfortunately, it usually
takes a little time for the INFJ to figure out
how they can fit someone in their lives. Or,
really, if they can fit them at all. In other
words, in the perspective of others it can look
like the INFJ makes these decisions a little
late in the game. The worst part of it all
away from anyway. So while it’s difficult
for this empathetic type to communicate these
needs, it also serves as a test to see whether
or not the individual will accept this part of
them. When boundaries aren’t accepted however,
the INFJs' need for space or their reasoning for
cutting off a connection can seem very spiteful.
Using the INFJ door slam as an example, an
action they take solely to free themselves,
and one that is usually filled with forgiveness
for the other person, can end up looking like
the biggest vengeful tactic. Luckily, if you’ve
reached the point of being door-slammed by an
INFJ, you probably needed the harsh lesson anyway.
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