8 Reasons Why Most Infjs Are Still Single

8 Reasons Why Most Infjs Are Still Single explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.

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and won’t settle for a few common interests,

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Alright, let’s get right into it starting with..

Number 1: They genuinely want to be single

INFJs love their alone time, and there’s no

way around that when it comes to romantic

relationships. On the bright side of things,

there are many personality types that actually

admire the INFJs need for independence within a

relationship. On the not-so-bright side of things,

In fact, if it wasn’t for their desire towards

the idea of romance and human connection, the INFJ

would never consider another way. With their rich

imaginations and a passionate outlook in life,

are fine with being their own best friends.

of solo travelling, going back to school,

or starting their own business, INFJs have

INFJs love deep connections, but quite frankly,

sometimes this empathetic type is able to get

their fix through their passionate careers and

hobbies in life. If an INFJ is lucky enough to

find something they’re truly passionate about,

it can be extremely difficult to pass up the

freedom of true independence for the sake of

a relationship. The fulfillment INFJs get from

giving back to the world or learning something new

can be all they need to live a happy and content

life. This is especially true when their hobby or

career involves communicating with other people.

Not only would it fulfill their desire to help

or learn, but it also feeds their fix for human

relationships with no obligations attached.

INFJs put their all into everything they do,

and although this tendency propels them towards

achieving their personal goals, if dating isn’t

Number 3: They only want deep connections

Deep connections are hard to find in a world that

can seem so ‘surface-level’ and ‘auto-pilot’ at

times. And while some people enjoy the fact

that socializing doesn’t always have to mean

deep conversations and vulnerability, for

the INFJ, this isn’t a part of their reality.

if they feel like they’re not opening up about

themselves at the rate they expect them to.

This sounds slightly harsh, but especially

when it comes to getting to know someone,

small talk just seems an avoidance to talk about

the nitty gritty. The stuff that the INFJ showed

friendship or potential romantic partner,

talking for the sake of talking just doesn’t cut

it for this introverted type that can't help but

to have proper listening skills. And as a

result, dating can seem seriously dreadful;

Number 4: Most INFJs can’t tolerate casual dating

While some personality types find the joy in

dating for fun, casual dating isn’t for everyone

and that definitely includes INFJs. When it comes

to texting relationships and short-term flings

you can almost always count the INFJ out. Besides

the fact that INFJs look for genuine connection,

which isn’t always the case when it comes

to casual dating, INFJs can find dating to

be pointless if there is no means to continue

further. Since they have such a deep drive to

build something in their lives with or without

someone, they don’t want to waste their time

being held up by emotionless relations. Yet, since

we can’t say the same things for the whole world,

the INFJ can seriously struggle to find ways of

connecting to new people that doesn't require

siphoning through no-strings attached go-getters

and dodging vein, empath-seeking narcissists.

Speaking of narcissists and toxic connection,

INFJ’s are said to be one personality type’s

Since INFJs are known for giving people the

benefit of the doubt due to their ability to

understand people on an uncanny level, sometimes

the emotional depth of toxic people can intrigue

them. And as a result of being a little too nice

in a world of evil, naiveness can get them into

some sticky situations, especially when it comes

to toxic romantic connections. While they’re busy

trying to help the world, an inexperienced INFJ

can easily be sweet-talked or guilt-tripped into

a relationship in the name of helping someone,

despite their strong intuition. Unfortunately it

only takes one tough partnership for the INFJ to

want to avoid dating for a good amount of time..

And when they are ready, they usually come

back into the dating game extremely weary,

when they’re expected to become vulnerable.

Almost every INFJ can consider themselves

demisexual to some degree. Demisexual means

that you only feel sexually attracted to someone

when you have an emotional bond with the person.

In other words, INFJs want to know someone

deeply, on a soul level before going forward.

For some INFJs this soul level may look different

than for other INFJs, but overall INFJs see human

connection as an energy exchange. And similar

to their dislike for the casual dating scene,

certain societal expectations and things like

hook-up culture can seem really shallow to this

idealistic personality. Sure, the men and women

of this intuitive type will have very different

experiences, but predicting and dodging ulterior

motives can become daunting to say the least.

So.. how do you win an INFJs heart and prove

yourself worthy? Well.. all it takes is a little

genuinity, consistency and time. A lot of time..

We’re talking months to years before an INFJ can

truly let their hair down and be themselves around

someone new. And quite frankly, that’s just too

long of a time to wait for some people. Contrary

to their interest in other people’s emotional

vulnerability and depth to their personalities,

INFJs aren’t all that willing to share about

themselves. Not only does it require a lot of

patience on the other end of the relationship,

it can almost seem obvious that they’re a little

uptight. That they’re not comfortable enough to

open up.. and to the wrong person, this can make

it seem like the INFJ is holding something from

Number 8: They look for similar interests

INFJs are picky. Not just in relationships,

but in life. They know what they want, but more

importantly they really know what they don’t want

- and they’re not exactly easy to persuade. So,

when it comes to dating and getting to know

someone, INFJs can be pretty finicky on whether

or not their potential partner has interests and

hobbies that could fit into their life. While

they may be willing to settle for some things,

people with an INFJ personality type are usually

interested in out-of-the-box concepts like

conspiracy theories, spirituality, psychology,

arts, poetic writing, and the list goes on. INFJs

have interests and require a partner to have

interests of their own, or of a similar nature.

Uses to connect to others on that deeper level

they crave, unfortunately being one of the rarer

personality types, INFJs aren’t all that familiar

with meeting people that share these interests. In

fact, they’re lucky if they can meet someone who

doesn’t see their thoughts and opinions as taboo..

So, you can only imagine the difficulty that would

come for an INFJ who can see the incompatibility

Alright psych-os, that's it for today.. So, are

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