The True Signs An Infj Really Doesn’T Like You explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
With kindness intertwined with every decision
and relationship an INFJ holds, it’s not to
say that they don’t have their fair share of pet
peeves when it comes to interacting with others.
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Through their infectious and notable aura, the
INFJ can often communicate how they’re feeling
easiest through the unspoken ways of their
energy. Whether they’ve become offended by
what someone has said or they simply can’t handle
someone’s disingenuous personality, it’s usually
in the things the INFJ doesn’t say that speak the
loudest. Although not everyone can pick up on this
sudden, or not-so sudden energy shift, when in a
group setting with people that know the INFJ well,
the subtle change in their demeanor is overly
obvious. These changes can be made apparent
through their body language, their tone of voice,
or simply the fact that their reserved nature is
this extroverted feeler type doesn’t even
notice their outer attitude change. And sometimes
this change can be so loud that their friends or
loved ones feel obligated to give them a nudge in
order to keep the peace within their surroundings
and avoid someone’s feelings getting hurt.
Often seen as amicable and friendly, even to
newcomers they know they won’t necessarily
befriend in the long run, the INFJ personality
type is known for their versatile communication
style. They’re easily able to adapt to all sorts
of personality types, energy levels and preferred
topics. However, when this extroverted-introvert
begins to withdraw their obligation to keep an
up-beat exchange of communication with someone,
it can be a clear sign that they really don’t
like an individual. Now, the tricky thing
with this change in communication style is
that it’s quite similar to that of an INFJ who
is beginning to feel comfortable around someone.
their naturally introverted side with how
they think they should act to seem friendly,
they can seem less engaged at times. However, the
difference lies within their attentiveness and
willingness to voluntarily engage. It’s almost as
if when the INFJ is disinterested, they’ll resort
to a professional-esque presenting demeanor
rather than a laid back and observant style.
Number 3: They’re constantly making excuses
Yes, INFJs are introverts. And yes, at times, they
can be caught telling a fib or two to safely back
themselves out of a social invitation. However,
when an INFJ is genuinely interested in engaging
and growing a relationship with someone they
deem worthy of their time, you can bet they’ll
have a few connections they can effortlessly
maintain through intermittent hangouts. And so,
if someone is constantly attempting to make plans
with an INFJ only to get rain-checked and politely
rejected by means of a busy schedule, you can
bet the INFJ is probably not crazy about them.
simply doesn’t have the heart to tell someone
that they’re not interested. This is mostly
because they don’t have a logical reason that
can be said without putting someone down.
INFJs have general expectations for those they
can see themselves forming a true connection with,
if those expectations aren’t met, this introverted
type simply doesn’t see the point in pretending.
Speaking of the INFJ’s general expectation for
those they’re considering to be potential matches
in terms of new friendships and relationships,
a well-managed ego tends to be one of the most
important. In fact, egotistic traits such as being
attention-thirsty, materialistic, gossiping or
overly competitive are amongst the top few that
the INFJ just can’t take on. No matter how sweet
and flattering an individual is, when an INFJ has
observed these specific traits more than once,
they will quickly refuse to engage in the nonsense
of it all - sometimes in a rather noticeable way.
Despite their deep-rooted need to deter conflict
of all kinds, the INFJ won’t hesitate to keep a
straight face when someone is sharing an offensive
joke about another person. They won’t engage in
compliment-fishing and they won’t be the one
congratulating a winner that only got to where
they are through dirty practices. INFJs are the
first type to be genuinely happy for someone
who deserves it, and if they’re not, they probably
don’t like you.. For rather good reasons, that is.
Sure, turning down plans and retracting their
obligated friendliness may be key signs, but
one way someone will absolutely know for sure if
the INFJ dislikes them is through sheer avoidance.
Haven’t seen the INFJ in a while? It’s not
uncommon that there’s someone they’re trying
to avoid talking to. Whether they suddenly choose
to park on the other side of the work parking lot,
go to the gym at a different time of day, the
INFJ will take truly remarkable measures to stay
away from someone they don’t like engaging with.
While for most types a simple engagement may seem
like less effort in comparison to changing
for this intuitive type, making it easiest to
ignore the fact that someone exists tends to
seem like the easier route. And if they can’t
physically avoid someone, they may just happen
to be on a phone call at the same time everyday
or will avoid being caught without headphones
not interested in engaging in the slightest.
personality type prefers to take a back seat
no matter who it is they’re engaging with.
conversation, they don’t hesitate to still
By asking well thought out questions pertaining
to philosophical viewpoints and other’s personal
experiences, the INFJ can take a surface-level
exchange of words and morph it into a much more
profound setting. And while they try to avoid
brain-picking one specific individual within
these less-intimate conversations as they
would in a one-on-one setting, they may still
use this as a tactic to pull the attention away
from a conversation-hogger. Speaking earlier of
their detest of attention-seeking behavior, INFJs
love to give the talked-over one of the group the
microphone. Without putting the shy ones on the
spot, this introverted type loves to skip over the
ones who love to hear themselves talk and give
the floor to those who have something to say.
So, if they’re point-blank ignoring someone’s
input within a conversation in order to focus
on someone else in the group, they probably
feel rubbed the wrong way in some aspects.
It’s a well-known fact that the INFJ can pick up
on and mentally absorb the energies around them.
Often feeling invigorated and uplifted around
Within just a short time of absorbing the feelings
of someone who is negative, disrespectful,
pessimistic or can’t help but to fall into the
trap of victim-mentality, the INFJ’s temporary
physical well-being will change. Feelings
of exhaustion, weakness, nausea, dizziness,
fogginess or simply feeling burned out after an
interaction with someone is a sheer sign that they
don’t jive well with the energy that person is
emitting. In fact, they may even find themselves
suddenly yawning or verbally complaining about how
tired they feel with this person without realizing
what it is that suddenly affected them. Ironically
however, the empathic INFJ often holds a soft spot
for those who struggle with these difficult
belief systems and outward energies. This
makes it so that it’s not that they necessarily
dislike those who deplete them of their mental
and physical energy, but rather, they dislike
how much those ill-rooted feelings affect them.
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