Why The Infj Heyoka Empath Can Seem Rude To Others explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
and a tendency to do things quite opposite
from others, the modern day INFJ heyoka empath
doesn't always communicate to spare feelings,
can seem a little off-putting to some people? And
is it something that should even be considered?
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Anyone with the INFJ personality type who also
identifies with being a modern-day heyoka empath
probably has trouble relating to the INFJ’s
stereotypical feeling-sparing communicative style.
While it’s fair to say that every INFJ has a
certain level of bluntness, the heyoka INFJ
unapologetically tells it like it is. They
don’t mind making people feel uncomfortable
through their mirrored actions and words if it
means that someone may be able to use honest
feedback to better themselves. However, heyoka
honesty isn’t for the faint of heart. In fact,
this seemingly ruthless communicative style acts
to shake people from their emotional hold-ups that
slow them down as individuals, which most INFJs
can easily detect from people. When this bluntness
is accepted with open-mindedness and not shut
down by the defensive ego, it can change someone's
perspective instantly. Yet, if someone isn’t
ready to face their truth, they can become deeply
offended by this empath’s good-willed honesty.
Number 2: They’re focused on the larger picture
When you’re wired to innately focus on the bigger
picture, the smaller details become slightly less
significant. Silly everyday matters that caught-up
humans can become so consumed in barely phase
the INFJ heyoka, because they can see that every
hardship has a blessing or lesson that unravels.
Sure, this deeper understanding may save them
from a lot of temporary inner turmoil, but when
it comes to communicating with others, this INFJ
heyoka trait can seem like nothing but dismissive
or even arrogant behavior. When this mirroring
empath pokes fun at people’s minor inconveniences
like being stuck in traffic or spilling coffee
on a new blouse for example, all they’re trying
to do is enlighten others to laugh it off. Yet,
in the heat of the moment, snarky remarks and
even humorous words of encouragement can be the
last thing to truly set someone off - ironically,
leaving them to wallow in the frustration that
they caused themselves in the first place.
is their unique way of presenting to others how
they choose to present themselves in the world.
With introverted intuition and innate empathy
and ultimately uses that to subconsciously mirror
it back to them. It’s like they’re walking karma,
giving people a taste of their own medicine right
before their eyes. And so, people who choose to
only put good out into the world are more likely
to perceive the INFJ heyoka as a kind-hearted,
helpful spirit that we all know and love the
INFJ for being. Someone who chooses to put out
negativity, selfishness and control, however, may
have a different view of this type of INFJ empath.
Besides their use of jarring words and frank
honesty, the heyoka INFJ empath sees more to
an individual than most people do. What makes
them tick is finding out what makes others tick,
and why some people don’t tick at all. And so,
they spend a great deal of time analyzing and
observing people from afar; a classic INFJ
tendency. Intuitively, INFJ heyokas who have
taken the time to develop these talents are able
to see past the smiles and auto-pilot responses of
people, with a look into their deep-seated wounds
and unhealed traumas they’ve experienced in life.
Sometimes these unacknowledged wounds are so
obvious to this infj empath that they can’t help
to get nosey. They may ask some thought provoking
questions, or even resort to requesting personal
information that is ultimately none of their
business. To some people, this risky bravery and
interest can be quite flattering, allowing
for some much-needed insight to be brought
to their attention. And to other people..
well.. It’s fair to say it doesn’t go over
as well as the INFJ intended. Not only does this
challenge people’s vulnerability, but it can be
extremely off-putting to know that your traumas
are so noticeable from the outside looking in.
A lot of people claim that if they only had
persistent encouragement towards their goals,
that they would probably have better chances at
achieving them. Just like how a fitness coach can
help you lose weight, or how persistently showing
up for classes can earn you a university degree.
But what about having a persistent voice in your
life that wants you to become the best version of
you. Someone that, despite your insecurities,
Well, it’s not as nice as it may sound. In
fact, although most of us want to achieve
the highest form of ourselves, being challenged
on your habits, behaviors and thinking patterns
can be a true soul-shaking experience. And that
is exactly how it can feel when you’ve caught
the attention of an INFJ heyoka. While it may be
difficult, offensive and uncomfortable to endure,
if an INFJ heyoka is being persistent with
their lessons, it’s actually their way of saying
they see so much potential they can’t stand to
let you continue on their path of mediocrity.
Every INFJ heyoka empath goes through several
awakening processes as they advance through
their adolescence and adulthood that allow
them to see through the constructs of reality.
They understand the ripple effects of our
thoughts, words and actions, and how it ultimately
all comes back into their experience. And so,
while they may serve their empathetic nature
well by being able to effectively absorb and
reflect the feelings of others, it’s not to say
that they always have sympathy for stupidity
or intentional self destruction. While INFJs
are known for giving undeserving sympathy and the
benefit of the doubt, the Heyoka INFJ can clearly
see the difference between someone who is trying
despite their hardships and someone who sees
themselves as a victim to life’s circumstances.
This makes their opinions and observations of
behavior quite different to other empaths.
Surprise, surprise.. An INFJ who needs their
space, who would’ve thought. The INFJ heyoka
empath is no different when it comes to the amount
of R & R that’s required to maintain optimal
sanity. And it’s no less difficult explaining this
need to other people for this blunt type either.
In fact, you don’t really have to be considered
a Heyoka INFJ per se to know how offensive this
need for solitude can be for people who really
put the effort into spending time with you.
Whether it’s romantic or platonic, every Heyoka
INFJ can probably think of a time that they had
to choose disappointing someone else in order to
maintain mental equilibrium. Since feeling so much
emotion coming from their outer environment can
be so taxing, heyoka INFJs often prefer solitude,
even though their gifts are best used in social
situations. Yet, it’s never easy to communicate,
and often requires a few misunderstandings
Number 8: They won’t hesitate to door slam
INFJ heyokas have the power to turn people’s world
upside down, more particularly in their eyes,
right side up. Like other INFJ empaths, the
intuitive heyoka joker will spend any amount
of time it takes spoon-feeding their wisdom
to someone that they deem truly deserves it.
They’ll take every approach and use every
for good. Take advantage of the INFJ heyoka,
however, and you’ll see a door-slam like you’ve
never seen one before. Since the INFJ heyoka
literally reflect people’s energies back to them
as we mentioned before, they’re able to use the
dark and narcissistic ways of manipulators to
not only cut off all contact with little notice,
but also teach them a long overdue lesson
along the way. They’ll use the same behaviors
and manipulation tactics in a more obvious and
humorous way in order to show the other person how
obvious and ridiculous their behavior really is.
have you ever offended someone as an INFJ heyoka
empath and what do you do to seem less offensive?
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