Why Some People Hate The Intj explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
With INTJs being known for their never-ending
it comes as no surprise that most people who
meet an INTJ would consider them seemingly
withdrawn and slightly pessimistic. But what
about an INTJ makes it so difficult for some
personality types to enjoy their company?
we’ll be talking all about why some people
hate the INTJ personality type. But before
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It’s true.. INTJs hate being wrong. But for
this intuitive and analytical know-it-all,
they actually usually do in fact know it all.
So, when they’re faced with someone who thinks
they’re wrong, they can get quite definesive
because they themselves almost can’t fully
believe it. In fact, some sources claim that
INTJs are downright obsessed with being right,
but mostly to prove to themselves rather than in
an egotistical manner. While most INTJs are open
to disagreements in hopes of proving they are in
fact right - they aren’t opposed to being proven
wrong and as long as they get straight facts that
they can then use to further their knowledge.
However, whatever the reason the INTJ is defending
their reasoning, some people can’t stand a
know-it-all when they see one, and INTJs are as
close to a know-it-all as you’re going to get.
over emotion, no matter what the situation
is. It’s not to say that this is necessarily
always a bad thing, because it does allow
INTJs to easily find solutions to issues,
but this personality type is so blindsided by
the emotional factors that they weigh out logic
and rationality to come to conclusions even if
emotion is one of the biggest factors at play.
For example, they may not see the harm in
to just get a new one. In an INTJs eyes, they can
see the emotion in the situation but they don’t
necessarily take it into account when offering the
most logical advice. They sometimes don’t see why
others would need a shoulder to cry on or an ear
to vent to, they think that if someone is coming
to them to talk, they are looking for logical
solutions. This can make people assume the INTJ
is insincere or maybe even at times, down right
rude, when of course that’s not their intention.
Number 3: They enjoy arguing thoughts and opinions
Just as much as INTJs hate being wrong, they
love a good disagreement. In fact, opposite to
their feeling counterpart, the INFJ who can feel
overly uncomfortable and disturbed in times of
disagreement and conflict, the INTJ sees arguments
as a logically informative way to either teach
or learn new information. They love using solid
facts to defend their case, and they expect the
same from the other party. So, if you’re arguing
with an INTJ and you’re relying on your gut
feelings and emotions to back you up, you can
be sure they won’t see your arguments as valid.
While some extroverted personality types don’t
mind a solid conversation of indifference, most
people would rather run the other way, because
not only can an argument with an INTJ be extremely
intimidating, but they’re probably right anyway.
Number 4: They don’t mind to challenge the system
INTJs don’t blindly follow anything without a full
understanding as to why. This includes rules,
restrictions, societal structures and the
authority figures who impose them. While it may
seem rebellious and unnecessary to some people,
INTJs feel the need to argue or challenge useless
rules and regulations that are imposed on them.
While of course, this attitude can definitely
rub people the wrong way, including the authority
figures being challenged, it can also make it
extremely uncomfortable for the people around
them. While the argued points of an INTJ usually
hold a lot of truth, challenging higher power
usually doesn’t get resolved by the INTJ proving
they are right, so most people see no point in
making a fuss. In fact, if someone is with an
INTJ during their times of challenging authority,
there’s a good chance they’ll avoid future public
ventures with them to avoid the embarrassment.
Number 5: They are highly perfectionistic
INTJs are pessimistic idealists. They have an
extremely high standard for most things in life,
but they also see the faults in the world and
the people in it. Therefore, they like to control
the things around them to the best of their
abilities with the understanding that the more
they make things happen rather than let things
happen to them, they will be ahead of the game.
The unfortunate thing for this introverted and
highly individualistic type is that their main
goal is to better themselves, which means they
can easily sacrifice their time, relationships,
perfectionism makes it difficult for them to
work with others, so they don’t rely on others
for anything. In fact, most INTJs actually see
most people as incompitant to hold the level of
standard for life as they do. They need everything
organized, planned and properly executed in a
very specific manner which makes it extremely
difficult to work with an INTJ for some types
that need a little more freedom for creativity.
Humans are curious creatures. When we lack
our own judgements to ease our curiosity.
Well, let’s just say, for an INTJ who holds
a very private life and guarded emotions,
this personality type has a lot of judgments about
who they are from outsiders looking in. Smart,
off as an intimidating character, but also maybe
even cold and uninterested at times. To be fair,
this personality type can be quite judgemental
self-control over their thoughts and feelings,
their judgments can be seen in their faces and
body language. So, with their curious nature and
judgemental looks, you can only imagine the
conclusions some people make about the INTJ.
Because INTJs can see the solutions to issues so
obviously, they can’t wrap their heads around the
fact that the majority of the world is so blinded
to them. In fact, not only does the INTJ have
difficulty relating to people who lack a deep
sense of rationality, but they can actually get
noticeably annoyed and needlessly harsh with
some people who don’t think the way they do.
If someone is making a decision based off of the
way they feel, such as the INFJ would do, an INTJ
wouldn’t be able to help but to argue the fact
that emotions have no real basis of evidence. This
intolerance for lack of logic can make people
feel as if their emotions aren’t validated,
and emotional validation is one of the key
bases of connection.. In other words, it can
be hard for people to feel compelled to befriend
an INTJ after being shut down for their feelings.
INTJs aren’t the warm and fuzzy friends you call
when you want to be told what you want to hear.
Instead, the INTJ will tell you exactly what you
need to hear, and the most logical solution to
fix whatever issue it is you have. No sugar
coating, false hope, or emotional soothing.
They understand that life can be harsh, but for
this logical personality type, emotions and false
hope only get in the way of achieving what it
really is you need to do in a given situation.
They’re not going to tell you your spouse is
a good partner if they can clearly see all the
ways in which they aren’t pulling their end. And
they’re not going to tell you it’s okay that you
lost your job when they know you need to look
for a new one to make the rent for that month.
Some people can really appreciate this INTJ
trait for what it is, because to be fair,
honesty and rationality are quite hard to come
by these days. However, in reality, most people
aren’t ready for the truth of the matter, and a
pessimistic attitude can surely make it all worse.
Well, that wraps up today’s video PSYCH-Os,
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