8 Reasons All Infjs Are Considered Demisexual explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
A deep longing for deep emotional bonds combined
with their honest attraction to intelligence,
the INFJ personality type is known for their
distinctive approach to love and sexuality.
INFJs can relate to the concept of demisexuality.
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to be diving deeper into the demisexual INFJ,
and why most people with this type can relate on
some level! Before we get into today’s video, we’d
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Number 1: They need an emotional connection
people with the INFJ personality type fall
Most INFJs can hypothetically see what makes
people attractive, but until they get to know the
person.. The tricky thing with INFJ demisexuality
is this personality type’s observational skills.
Because INFJs are so interested in analyzing
their surroundings and the behaviors of the people
around them, this introverted type may feel like
they know someone without even talking to them.
And so, it can seem like INFJs are able to find
other people attractive just by looks, when
attraction is based on behaviors and gestures.
Yet, even then, INFJs may have an interest in
someone through their observational findings,
but they won’t take any of their feelings
seriously until there's an actual emotional bond.
Now, we’re not big on labels.. But for the sake of
an explanation, most INFJs are not only considered
demisexual, but also sapiosexual. In other words,
INFJs are one of the main types that are known for
finding intelligence rather sexually attractive,
completley surpassing looks and social status.
In fact, there’s not many people with this
personality type that would willingly create a
physical bond with anyone that doesn’t demonstrate
some level of deeper intelligence. Actually when
it comes down to it, most people with the INFJ
type can’t fathom the fact that other people can
happily engage in physical intimacy without even
knowing if the individual has a good head on their
shoulders. This concept freaks an INFJ out to the
point that even the thought can feel intrusive.
INFJs are not only reluctant to let people
in, but they also crave consisten harmony
within the relationships they do have. Besides
their introverted nature, this empathetic type
doesn’t want to expand or potentially sacrifice
their friend-group for a spontaneous fling.
But this avoidance of attachment goes much
deeper than protecting their harmony. In fact,
for the INFJ personality type in particular,
something as intimate as..well..intimacy, can
certainly serve as a basis for deeper feelings.
I mean, they’re not alone here, but if there’s
somebody who isn't showing similar feelings,
some INFJs won’t even consider it an option.
It’s not entirely out of fear of rejection, but
rather a subconscious measure of protection to
avoid wasting their time attaching feelings to
an illogical outcome.. However, this won’t stop
them from fantasizing at times, of course.
Number 4: They’re extremely private people
Technically, the term demisexuality means
despite being keen listeners, tend to be not
such good sharers.. Creating that emotional bond
isn’t always as easy as they’d hoped. They
have difficulty opening up to new people,
and much rather be the brain-picker than have
their brain picked when first testing the waters.
tendency isn’t usually noticeable to other
people, but internally it sings loud and clear.
All-in-all, until they can lift that long-held
vail of privacy, they aren’t able to take
their own perceptions on attraction seriously.
Number 5: They’re weary of overconfidence
Nobody wants to feel vulnerable, but when it
comes to new attractions and potential partners,
vulnerability and insecurities are one of
the beauties of a new sexual connection or
fling..it just wouldn’t have the same magic
vulnerability can come with a whole host of
negative emotions. For most people that is..
Because when it comes to people who mindlessly
utilize their sexual essence, vulnerability and
trust have very little to do with the process. In
fact, these people are so used to the game that
they have this incredible confidence about it..
But to an INFJ, this overconfidence is nothing but
conceitedness, and ultimately ruined all chances
with this introspective type. As a matter of fact,
these are the people that INFJs try to avoid
at all costs. Luckily, their requirement for
emotional depth is the perfect pre-wired boundary
to keep them from mixing with the wrong crowd..
Just another reason why bars and nightclubs
seem so damn dreadful to this introverted type!
Empathetic, highly sensitive, and seriously
attuned to the energies in their environment,
One of the ways they do this is to avoid uncertain
energy-exchanges. While some may call it woo-woo,
most metaphysically-rooted INFJ views are
isn’t something to be tampered with irresponsibly.
While it has the ability to establish beautiful
synergy between two individuals, if you don’t have
any other intentions with an individual, it can
cause some internal conflict. And so, hook-up
culture is just another taboo interest INFJs
like to observe through their surroundings. As a
matter of fact, many INFJs see the damage hook-up
culture can cause to a person, a family, or
even an entire generation.. And because of that,
they already have a distaste for the idea before
even thinking of considering it! Yet, it’s not to
say an INFJ’s shadow functions couldn’t cause
them to do something rather out of character..
If you’ve yet to unlock the INFJs beautiful brain,
don’t expect to gain entry to their precious
personal bubble. Similar to their need for privacy
in life, most people with this highly sensitive
personality type are known for their discomfort
For example, even if a close friend began
to lean on their shoulder or unnoticeably
sit too close to them, most INFJs would be stuck
in a trance, unable to think of anything besides
regaining their personal space.. Sound dramatic?
Well imagine an INFJ even considering feeling
attraction knowing the thought of being near
someone is much more appealing than actually
being near them. In other words, if someone
who, A) Hasn’t shown their uncanny intelligence,
or B) Hasn’t been witnessed doing an incredibly
nice deed for a stranger, decides to do anything
you can be sure they’ll be on high alert.
Number 8: They need time to think things over
they’ve considered 99% of future outcomes and are
absolutely sure of what they want to do. Rooted in
their dominant introverted intuitive function,
this analytical type doesn’t like surprises or
fast decision making because so much goes into
their conclusions. Well.. this ties right into
the way the INFJ deciphers their attraction to
someone. Like we said, they can certainly notice
the eye-catching features of individuals, but
that only goes so far. Are physical attributes
really enough to conclude attraction? How were
the people acting around that person? What type of
clothes were they wearing and how often did they
smile? Hm.. but what if they like watching sports?
Could I handle a sports-watcher long term? Oh
gosh, or what if they have kids.. I bet they
do have a kid or two..could I be a step-parent!?
Or.. what if they don’t have kids or want kids… am
I really ready for them to make that decision for
me?.. Blah blah blah, some call it over-thinking,
INFJs call it future-proofing. At the end
of the day, the INFJ thought process is an
interesting place..one that makes conclusive
attraction quite complex, to say the least!
Alrighty PSYCH-Os, that’s it for today. So.. Do
you think you could be demiseuxal as an INFJ?
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