The Real Reasons Why The Infj Can Never Live A Normal Life

The Real Reasons Why The Infj Can Never Live A Normal Life explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.

Some personality types are known for their

charisma, or their articulate knowledge, but

when it comes to the INFJ personality type,

it seems that the first thing that is usually

acknowledged by the INFJ themselves is their

Yet, why is it that they can’t fit in with

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If you asked any INFJ what the meaning of

life is, it’s almost certain that they will

give some uncertain philosophical open-ended

Although they may believe their beliefs without

question, INFJs are always open to hearing

what others have to say on that matter because

In fact, when INFJs first open their eyes

to the many false-led beliefs riddled within

society, they may become consumed on answering

And until they find a concept that best resides

However, even still, most INFJs have an intuition

knowing that life’s purpose isn’t to find

out what the purpose of life is, but rather

what the purpose of their individual life

With this understanding, everything in life

that people strive towards becomes obsolete

compared to their mission to find reason.

With an underlying aloof approach to life,

the INFJ seems to be rather picky about who

While some people are used to taking what

they can get in life or settling for connections

to avoid loneliness, this overly-independent

being knows they don’t have the mental energy

While others may feel that the instant gratification

or the ability to distract themselves from

their inner thoughts is worth an unrewarding

connection, INFJs prefer to spend the most

This is what makes purposeless jobs and mediocre

relationships so difficult for the INFJ to

In fact, for this introverted intuitive, outer

obligations and relations are only a compliment

Number 3: Their inner worlds tend to be more

Speaking of this intuitive type’s vast inner

minds, the INFJ type tends to feel a sense

of distraction from the life that’s playing

Filled with otherworldly curiosities, pattern-forming

analyses, future projections, imaginative

fantasies and feeling other people’s emotions,

this type tends to be much more willing to

spend time in their free interactive theater

So while they may be able to be convinced

to attend a social outing, you can guarantee

that they’ll be busy consciously and subconsciously

analyzing every single thing in the room.

They may not really be as present as you’d

expect, even if their chameleon-like social

Plus, every INFJ has an inherent craving to

shorten the gap and unknowingness between

them and their higher selves or at least a

Number 4: They prioritize their mental equilibrium

as to whether or not people prioritize materialistic

success, personal image and selfishly beneficial

relationships over their own personal mental

People so often put work before their health

because of feeling obliged to maintain a people-pleasing

attitude, despite hearing their inner selves

This is one aspect of self-respect that the

INFJ hopes to maintain for themselves throughout

Of course, responsibilities and life’s predictions

get the best of all of us, and sometimes it’s

However, for the most part, a mature INFJ

will gladly drop the necessary connections

and obligations that seem to be causing a

slow leak in their balanced mental energy.

This is what stops the INFJ from forming too

large or friends-groups and also what can

end up stopping them from advancing in their

Because no boss wants you to have personal

priorities..in that case, who would pick up

With imagination constantly at play, INFJs

struggle to find a path in life that fits

in with what everyone else around them is

Rooted in this imaginative foreground, this

dreaming type has huge plans and goals for

And while these dreams come and go, some to

be achieved and some to be laid to rest for

good, they almost never involve the INFJ following

They make it their mission to find influences

and role models that help them believe in

their out-of-the-box approach; just enough

to make it a possible reality through their

For example, most INFJs crave the financial

independence that allows them to remove themselves

from the daily hustle and bustle of society.

Yet, in order for them to achieve that, they

must look at other avenues besides those offered

Number 6: Their need for newness gets in the

Once again rooted in their introverted intuitive

and extroverted feeling of imaginative qualities,

one of the simplest reasons the INFJ can’t

life is that their restless mind won’t tolerate

Yes, this organized type is known for feeling

prepared before going forward, however too

much repetitiveness is one way to quickly

While some personality types thrive in repetition,

or may even find a sense of security in knowing

what is expected of them at all times, the

extroverted feeling and judging functions

require the INFJ type to constantly explore

This can obviously get in the way of succeeding

long-term in a regular 9-5 job with commutes,

Plus, the set rules and regulations that you

often find in societal structures and institutions

leave no room for creativity, new approaches

All things that are required to keep the INFJ

The most ironic aspect of the INFJ’s choosy

preferences in life is that it can take them

a considerably long time to reach a conclusion

Of course, this all depends on the situation

and person, as the INFJ can sense a toxic

However, paradoxically, they also have the

habit of giving things more chances than they

deserve, just to be completely sure of their

They don’t come to any conclusions without

first ruminating about them before, during

Subconsciously, they need to know every possible

outcome, and then why the chosen outcome was

They are constantly analyzing patterns and

behaviors to come to the most accurate conclusion

should they need to make a decision on the

decision-making habits can end up making living

a so-called ‘normal’ life quite daunting.

Because they require things to be mentally

‘settled’ before going forward with confidence.

Number 8: They can play the part for not permanently

Okay, so what exactly is a so-called ‘normal

Well, with everyone living their own unique

lives, of course there's no exact meaning

However, when we think of a functioning member

of society, we don’t think of the outcasts

When INFJs come home after a long day of navigating

if they take off their high-alert ‘functioning

While everyone (or at least every introvert)

enjoys this feeling after a long day at work,

the INFJ enjoys this feeling even after a

quick run to the grocery store, or going out

While they’re certainly convincing at the

moment, acting as if their mind isn’t observing

able to enjoy the time they had once they’re

And once they’re done with their day, and

they close that front door behind them, the

INFJ is officially in hermit mode and will

So, what about your life is rather taboo or

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