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The highly considerate and hardworking introverted
type, the ISFJ is known for their reliable
While the ISFJ is known to be one of the more
gentle introverted types, it's not to say
that they don’t get annoyed like everybody
So, which pet peeves are amplified for this
introverted, sensing, feeling and judging
Today we’ll be talking about 10 things that
the ISFJ personality type absolutely hates.
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and dedicated individual who uses their words
They understand the fact that words and actions
can have a tremendous effect on other people
by causing a rippling effect through social
So, when an ISFJ overhears a less-than-kind
remark or witnesses a rude gesture, they can't
help but to imagine how many people that one
For example, if an ISFJ were to overhear their
coworker get reamed by their boss in a negative
manner, the ISFJ can automatically see that
coworker taking those remarks home with them
and wreaking havoc on their family as a whole.
Maybe it starts a fight between them and their
partner, or maybe it even trickles down and
ISFJs can see how so many life challenges
could be solved by just being a little more
Number 2: Conflict in their close relationships
ISFJs - much like their introverted feeling
and judging counterpart, the INFJ - hates
when there is any type of conflict surrounding
Although it's fair to say that ISFJs don’t
really like conflict of any sort, for this
introverted type, it's a little different
when it comes to their close-knit group of
Unlike some personality types like the INTJ
and the ISTJ who focus on the topic of the
disagreement rather than the people involved,
the ISFJ can’t help but to take everything
With their secondary function being extraverted
feeling, the ISFJ not only feels fully empathy
towards others in time of conflict, but they
can at times actually feel the stress of a
conflict physically with headaches, stomach
Like many other highly sensitive introverts,
the ISFJ can find themselves in a people-pleasing
loop of struggling to set boundaries and avoidance
They have a deep calling to help others, even
when they have to put their mental, emotional,
This innate desire to be of service to others
results in ISFJs holding an incredibly high
expectation of themselves, because a lot of
So, when the time comes that they happen to
let someone down or somehow hurt someone's
feelings they really feel the pain - often
This is especially difficult when people take
advantage of an ISFJ’s generosity, because
they would rather keep helping than to protect
their energy by setting proper boundaries
ISFJs need a clear picture of what is expected
of them no matter what the favour or project.
Not only do ISFJs enjoy the act of having
structure and order around them, but relating
back to our previous point, they don’t want
Therefore, the more clear and concise details
For example, if an ISFJ was assigned a certain
project at work, they’ll require clearcut
expectations of when it's due, the specific
requirements of how to complete it, and how
On the contrary, if there is lack of detail,
a plethora of unknowns, or an open-ended outcome
surrounding a task, an ISFJ can easily become
Number 5: Sudden changes to their routine
Not only do ISFJs require clear expectations,
but they also want to know when and where
they’re fitting their tasks into their schedule.
Like we said, ISFJs love structure and order
in every aspect of life, meaning they take
Most ISFJs like to not only know when they’re
going to do something, but they also tend
to have a specific order in which they like
Whether it be simple mundane tasks like laundry,
dishes, answering emails to the more complex
tasks like the order of their morning routine.
ISFJs actually rely on this structured way
of living to feel organized and efficient..
So, if their routine is changed, even in the
slightest, an ISFJ will probably hate it.
Number 6: When others minimize the importance
With a primary function of introverted sensing,
They are the ultimate gift-givers and function
planners because they take family traditions
like birthdays, christmas, and other holidays
They love the thought of making great-granny’s
signature gravy recipe every year, or taking
out the board games on New Years Eve like
they’ve done with their family for years.
So, when a family member lacks interest in
these types of family traditions or finds
something seemingly more important to do,
an ISFJ will not only be disappointed at the
matter, but they will also have a personal
fear that the tradition may be coming to a
halt, something that an ISFJ would certainly
Although the helping-hand nature of an ISFJ
may have them mistaken for extroverts in some
circumstances, there's no doubt that the ISFJ
Unlike most extraverted personalities who
seem to amplify their energy when surrounded
by other people, an introverted ISFJ must
work quietly behind the scenes rather than
They want to know that everyone is taken care
of and having a good time, but they don’t
necessarily want to be part of the action
In fact, the ISFJ can begin to feel quite
uncomfortable and self-conscious if they were
So in other words, if there was a party, you’d
probably find an ISFJ helping in the kitchen
rather than proposing a toast to the crowd..
And if they are proposing a toast, you can
imagine that they’re either tipsy or hating
One of the ISFJs greatest strengths is that
they put their all into absolutely everything
While some people rush through their work
with little regard to how it will impact the
final outcome, the ISFJ takes their work seriously..
most often to the point of perfectionism.
They see their completed tasks as an extension
of their character, and they can't help but
They put their full effort into everything
not only because they see it as an extension
of themselves but also because they don’t
want their lack of effort to fall back on
For example, the ISFJ would never clean the
kitchen half-arsed because they know that
someone else will have to clean up what they
don’t use this same logic or when circumstances
make it so that they are challenged to give
Number 9: When someone dismisses their feelings
While most ISFJs seem calm and collected on
the exterior, this personality type actually
holds some deeply sensitive emotions inside.
Being the introverted type who is more willing
to help others than to burden people with
their own feelings, the ISFJ tends to bottle
a lot of their emotions up in order to maintain
Even when it comes to excitement, this personality
They first need time to process the emotion
themselves, but sooner or later, they may
share their related feelings to a trusted
source.. and when they do, it’s considered
And, just as an ISFJ would react, they expect
the reaction of others to be that of understanding
Yet, not everyone is as equipped for kindness
as an ISFJ, so when their feelings are dismissed
or considered invalid, you can imagine how
Number 10: Invasion of their personal bubble
Warning: Do not feed, pet, or hug the ISFJ
While the ISFJ is friendly and kind to all
walks of life, the one thing they ask (or
should ask) of people is to not invade their
While they may love snuggling with their partner
and children, most ISFJs can feel extremely
uncomfortable when it comes to strangers or
acquaintances crossing their personal bubbles.
Anything from someone standing to close in
a shopping line, to an old acquaintance going
ISFJs probably won't vocally stand their grounds,
but you can be sure that internally they are
wanting to run in the opposite direction.
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