8 Reasons Why People Find Most Empaths Intimidating explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Empath understand people’s pain, joy, and
everything in between. They have big hearts,
and choose to spare the feelings of others
at all costs. So, with such ideal traits,
why are there so many empaths left lonely
in this world? Well, the simple answer is
that most empaths seem intimidating from the
outside looking in, but why exactly is that?
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people can’t quite connect with empaths is because
they simply don’t understand how they can feel
things so deeply, especially when it comes to
the emotions of other people. Besides the fact
that their empathic ability can easily freak
people out, empaths carry a sense of intensity
in their energy that can sometimes be sensed by
others. This intense energy can be enough to make
people hesitate when it comes to approaching
or getting to know this deeply introspective
individual. Although most empaths probably
know this about themselves on some level,
intense energy because they have no interest
in necessarily impressing others or fitting in.
They either attract people who are willing to see
through that intensity or they happily move on.
Number 2: They can see right through dishonesty
Speaking about easily freaking people out with
their empathic abilities, empaths have a keen
sense of seeing right through BS of any sort -
which can definitely have some people questioning
how they know what they know. People can easily
feel intimidated around an empath because they’re
able to notice things about people that others are
completely oblivious to. Once someone witnesses
an empath catching someone lying or being
dishonest with no clear cut evidence, they
can begin questioning what the empath knows about
them that they don’t want them to know. Luckily,
while it may look like empaths can read minds,
most empaths use body language, change in tone,
eye movements and energy to determine if someone
is being distrustful. However, it takes a good
amount of time getting to know an empath to see
how they’re lie detector really works - something
While some people are put off by an empath's
intense energy, others can be intimidated just by
the amount of attentiveness an empath brings to
their connections and conversations. In fact,
one of the greatest abilities of the empath is the
way they can attentively listen and ask the right
questions to encourage a positive outcome to other
people’s most pressing issues in life. However,
in today’s day in age, people aren’t exactly used
to other people being ‘all ears’, fully focused
on what they’re talking about. Instead, people
are used to half-thought-out answers and only
partial attention spans, so when in a conversation
with a genuinely caring empath, people can become
suspicious. People may even start to question
if the empath has an ulterior motive behind
wanting to help, which can lead them to stop
wanting to talk to the empath all together.
that their level of empathy feels like a calling
to help all humans for the rest of their lives,
most of them know that in reality, they are
significant amount of time alone to rest,
recharge and process their emotions without
being interrupted by the absorbed energies of
others. Although people who have known an empath
for a long time would totally understand their
need for solitude, it can be a difficult point
to get across to newly established connections
and relationships. The high value empaths place on
their independence can seem to others like they’re
making excuses to distance themselves, when in
reality, they won’t be themselves without it.
In fact, independence alone can be extremely
intimidating to people who feed off the energy
of others to feel whole because naturally
they will want to spend more time together
Number 5: They speak their exact thoughts
Empaths are honest, and honesty is intimidating
for a lot of people. Highly empathetic people
never shy away from the truth because they
honor honesty as one of their core life values.
They are never afraid to face the truth, even when
it’s painful because they know that dishonesty
will never go unnoticed for long. And while
‘calling it like they see it’ may seem like
an honorary trait to have, especially when honesty
is delivered in the most empathetic way possible,
many people can see honesty as a threat in some
way. The main reason for this is because people
are so used to living life with an ‘ignorance is
bliss’ attitude that genuine honesty can become
extremely off-putting as they’ve become so used to
the comfort of deceit. Aside from the unfiltered
honesty that empaths choose to communicate with,
they may even ask people personal questions that
they are curious about, which oftentimes can make
others feel particularly vulnerable and maybe even
uncomfortable. In other words, the straightforward
and openness of a true empath can feel intrusive,
and unfamiliar - especially for someone who
an empath is particularly suspicious about.
Empaths, for the most part, know exactly what they
want and exactly what they don’t want on a grand
scale. They often have a great set of morals
and interests that give them a general idea of
where they’re headed in life, leaving the finer
details for them to work out when the time comes.
The intimidating aspect of this empath trait is
that they don’t necessarily need factual evidence
to move on from or move towards certain situations
and people. Their highly intuitive sensitivities
for their surroundings can give them unwavered
feelings towards certain aspects of their lives
regardless of how it seems from the outside
looking in. Although their empathy for others
can put a damper on their plans, empaths will
almost always follow their gut feelings that
Similar to attentiveness, kindness is one of
those things that everyone wants from others,
This is something an empath knows all too well.
While some people are able to accept random acts
of kindness with open arms, most people don’t
have that remaining trust within the world
or the people in it. Most people believe that
if someone is doing something nice for them,
they either expect something in return or they
are going to use that favour against them in the
long run. So, when an empath attempts to lend
a hand or go out of their way for someone else,
it’s no surprise when people are left wondering
“what's the catch”. Ironically, being nice
can be intimidating and questionable for some
people.. And most empaths know this first hand.
Number 8: They require a healthy level of intimacy
saying that once an empath feels safe enough to
really let down their guard and grow with someone
whether it be romantically or platonically,
they are not afraid for the other person to
The tricky thing is that most people hold their
true vulnerable shelves deep, deep within,
and are almost foreign to the feeling of really
being emotionally intimate on a deep level.
Therefore when an empath comes along and expects
the same amount of vulnerability that they’re
willing to give, people can actually become
discouraged that they’ll be able to keep up with
being so open. These deeply intimate expectations
can be enough for people to begin questioning if
this is the type of connection they want, as most
people aren’t ready for something that authentic.
Well, that’s it for today PSYCH-Os.. So, If you’re
an empath, have you ever felt intimidating? If so,
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