How To Spot An Infj Personality Type In Minutes explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
do INFJs really show who they are from their
outward appearance? No.. not really. In fact, this
rare and unassuming personality type is one of
the most difficult to spot from an outside look,
but today we’re going to tell you exactly what to
look out for to easily spot an INFJ in minutes!
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The first and foremost thing to look out for when
deciphering whether or not someone is an INFJ
figurative language and comparisons in an
attempt to put their mind’s work into words
easy enough for other people to understand.
They may seem to pause, look elsewhere, or
stutter their words in an attempt to find the
right words to use without seeming unnecessarily
deep or introspective. In fact, some INFJs may
even resort to using their hands or a pen and
paper to effectively communicate their thoughts.
You can expect transition words such as “like”
and “um” to litter their speech as they strive
to express themselves as coherently as possible,
without losing the interest in the other person.
attentive listening skills can also pose as
a clear indicator of this personality type.
important, you can expect unwavered attention,
eye contact and focus. There will be no phone
scrolling, no interrupting and no half-effort
replies. INFJs ask only the most appropriate
questions that will allow the opposite party
to effectively communicate their feelings in a way
that the INFJ understands on a deeper level. Not
only do people walk away from a deep conversation
with an INFJ feeling like they’ve been understood
in a way they never have before, but they can bet
that the INFJ will remember every minor detail
for the next time you see them. Once information
is stored in their chaotic inner filing system,
it’s there to stay! Bonus points if you talk
about something introspective and intellectual
that catches their attention and you’ll see their
eyes light up and their personality come alive!
INFJs are normally quiet and reserved inorder
surroundings without too many distractions.
And when they’re observing and analysing,
you can expect to witness the infamous INFJ stare.
Whether they're caught in deep introspection, lost
in an imaginative daydream, or simply admiring
something or someone for the beauty they display,
there’s nothing that quite compares to the
intense stare an INFJ gives off. Ironically,
if you bring this to their attention, they’ll
have no idea how they looked from the outside,
Of course, other introspective personality
types may have their times of staring off
into the distance in an effort to connect to
their inner mind, but the INFJ stare comes
paying for someone else’s food, or even being
the first one to start cleaning up at a party,
the INFJ gets a high from helping others that they
can’t get from anywhere else. Their compassion
and kindness is quite obvious when you’ve
spent a good amount of time with an INFJ,
type is matched with their innate common sense and
intuition, which allows them to spot the people
and situations that need help before they’re
willing to ask for it. For example, one INFJ
reddit user claimed they “sometimes linger in
a grocery aisle for longer than needed when
they spot a person in a wheelchair to make sure
they don’t need anything from a higher shelf”.
Now.. that may fall into the category of the INFJs
tendency to lend a hand where it’s not really
needed or wanted - but in the times where this
tactic actually does assist - it can make their
whole day, and usually the other person’s too!
language and facial expressions say otherwise.
As a matter of fact, if you were to pass an INFJ
on the streets, you’d probably see their demeanor
appearing either sad, lost in thought, irritated
or even slightly angry. Yet, if you were to tap
them on the shoulder to ask them for the time,
for example, they would greet you with bright eyes
and a warm smile while racing to get you the time
in an orderly fashion. Being highly sensitive and
introverted, there’s no doubt most INFJs can feel
a little uncomfortable in certain public settings,
and it shows. But aside from that, similar to
the INFJ stare, with introverted intuition
being at the forefront of their functions,
this seemingly cold demeanor is nothing more
with little focus on how others think. They love
their alone time and can surely live a happy life
without having many people around. For example,
INFJs for the most part, would prefer a night in
over a night out, a solo travel over a group trip,
and independent living over having roommates.
They have specific goals, morals and values that
they don’t want to have to rely on someone else
to approve of before going forward. In fact, some
INFJs are known to take the non-traditional route
in life in an effort to avoid feeling tied down to
a job, or specific way of living. This means they
may be known to do things like taking on that
solo travel, starting a business on their own,
and even simple things like not conforming to
gender-specific roles within a family dynamic.
INFJs want to accomplish things on their own terms
by being their own bosses in life. In other words,
what INFJs want is what INFJs get, and there’s
Despite the rare and uncommon quirks of the INFJ
personality type that cause them to stick out like
a sore thumb in certain scenarios, most of the
time, this introverted being prefers to blend
in with the background of things. They don’t want
to be the centre of attention and they never want
to be personally rewarded for something that took
a team effort. The INFJ is known to actually take
conscious efforts in hope of blending in or
seeming.. normal. For example, they know they
tend to stare when in deep introspection, so they
make conscious efforts to avoid it the best they
can for the sake of other people. Quite frankly,
if an INFJ could opt for being a fly on the wall
in social gatherings, it probably wouldn’t be
so difficult to get them to come out of hiding.
Once you’ve cracked the INFJ’s surface, the
following layers just keep getting deeper
and deeper. Not everyone will be invited to
see this side of the INFJ, but if you do,
you can consider yourself approved by their
intuitive radar. The depth and intensity of an
INFJ isn’t always so apparent until you get them
talking about something they’re interested in;
a topic they’ve had a good amount of time
to analyse and ruminate on. And while they
try to keep their explanations and viewpoints
as surface-level as possible to ensure they
don’t lose their listener - their passion
shines through and causes them to dive-deep
known to ask seemingly personal questions,
blurt out insightful blurbs or opinions, and take
the simplest of topics into a whole new realm of
curiosity that other personality types are usually
a little taken-aback by. INFJs can see a world
that others can’t, and they so desperately
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