Why Some People See The Infj As A Threat explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Known as one of the most empathetic personality
types, it’s ironic that people would perceive the
INFJ as a threat, however, some of their natural
qualities rub some people the wrong way. So,
why is it that people see the INFJ as a threat
and is it understandable or uncalled for?
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Number 1: They point out obvious injustice
common perceived threats of the INFJ - their
unapologetic approach to questioning injustices.
Whether it be in the workforce, in school,
higher power. When people fear their unfair
attitude towards a situation will be exposed
they can get rather defensive and stubborn.
And this is exactly what INFJs see right past.
When INFJs begin questioning why certain corners
are cut and why certain people are getting the
brunt of the difficulty, the ones playing the
game can see INFJs have a total threat to the
afraid of losing their position of power,
enlightening others of someone arbitrary.
Number 2: They take calculated risks in life
Some people live life on a whim while others
lead through clear and concise structure. INFJs
are somewhere in between. Guided by introverted
intuition, a lot of the time INFJs seem like
they’re making drastic or spontaneous decisions
in life, there's always a method to their madness.
In fact, the goal to live life with their dreams
as guidance is something INFJs hold very near and
dear to their heart, and that can feel threatening
to people that want them to be less ambitious. An
example of this would be that INFJs are usually
great employees because of their personable and
hard-working nature. However, because they get
bored easily and are always looking to make a move
to the next best opportunity, certain managers can
feel threatened knowing they may not have them for
long. They may think the INFJ is making the wrong
decision for leaving a company, but in reality,
their calculated approach rarely fails them.
out injustice when they’re faced with it,
this creative personality type also isn’t afraid
to communicate their ways of doing things.
The kicker to that is that sometimes people don't
want their way of doing things to be challenged.
This level of independence and assertiveness
can feel rather threatening to people who
INFJs are so familiar with using their imaginative
ideas in life that they know when they will
work and when they won't, making it difficult to
remain submissive when being influenced by others.
threaten people who always go by the book,
because the originality of an INFJs thoughts
usually stems from going against social norms
in some way. In these instances, rebellion
can certainly be perceived as threatening.
and how it ultimately all comes back into their
experience. While this may serve their empathetic
absorb and reflect the feelings of others,
it’s not to say that they always have sympathy for
stupidity or intentional self destruction. Sure,
INFJs are known for sometimes giving a little
too much sympathy and the benefit of the doubt
to people who may not entirely deserve it, yet
the INFJ can clearly see the difference between
someone who is putting in the effort despite their
hardships and someone who sees themselves as a
victim to life’s circumstances. This observation
in behavior can be threatening all on its own,
but even more so when people are turning to an
INFJ for the empathy they’re known to lend out.
Number 5: They strive to be perfect at everything
The perfectionistic nature of the INFJ isn’t
as threatening to others as it is to their own
self-critiquing, however, perfectionism can
certainly be considered threatening to some.
If you’ve worked on a team with an INFJ, you’ll
know that they may be a little more delegating
than their usual laid-back selves. When an
INFJs name or success is tied to an outcome,
you can bet their micromanaging-tendencies
by nature, INFJs are always in competition
with themselves. And that alone makes the INFJ a
threat to the more competitive folks. Constantly
striving to be better than they were while
incorporating their determination and imagination,
Number 6: They don’t require outer approval
Depending on the people they’re surrounded by,
most INFJs don’t trust others with their thoughts,
ideas and secrets like others do with them.
They understand that the motives of certain
so they don’t bother taking their disapproval
too seriously. In fact, INFJs can easily convince
themselves that if someone is trying to talk
them out of an idea, that that person must not
understand the INFJ’s view on the matter. This
sometimes results in them ultimately shutting out
the approvals of others completely. Not only can
this feel threatening to some people, especially
friends and family who may just want to help, but
it can also fall back on the INFJ. Sometimes a
trusted opinion or 2 can actually really help them
get a different perspective on everyday matters.
With a vast inner world that is occupied with
a continuous sequence of internal thoughts,
Because of this, they say you could know an INFJ
for years and never really know much about them,
and that can feel seriously threatening to
people who think they have them all figured out.
Because of their unique thoughts patterns and
their deep understanding of humans they rarely
share their deepest thoughts with other people.
INFJs know they think about topics that most
people wouldn't even think of diving into, and
probably have opinions about everyone they meet
that they don’t ever want to share. They can
easily put on a front that gives everyone
else around them the assumption that there's
nothing going on behind the curtains when in
reality they’re thinking of things that would
probably confuse or offend the average person.
Number 8: People trust them with their lives
Some people see the INFJ as a threat simply
because of their ability to make meaningful
people naturally confide in the INFJ with
their personal issues, life problems, thoughts and
feelings because of their empathetic magnetism.
connections that usually come when the INFJ
is minding their own business, comes jealousy
from those who don’t have this so-called gift.
With heart-to-heart conversations and naturally
deep questions, INFJs are able to achieve a
genuine connection in less time and with less
effort than some other people-persons are
able to accomplish. Of course, to the INFJ, it’s
not about making as many connections with as many
important people as possible, but sometimes they
end up as a teacher’s pet or bosses favorite just
because of their authenticity. Let’s just say,
some people don’t always appreciate that quality.
While some people are put off by an INFJ’s
mysterious energy, others can feel threatened
just by the amount of attentiveness an INFJ
brings to their connections and conversations. In
fact, one of the greatest abilities of the INFJ
is their attentive listening skills and their
ability to ask the right questions. However,
nowadays, people are used to half-thought-out
answers and only partial attention spans,
so when in a conversation with a genuinely
interested INFJ, people can become suspicious.
They may even start to question if the INFJ
has an ulterior motive behind wanting to help,
feeling threatened to the point of wanting
there's nothing more threatening than being
deeply analyzed by an INFJ, especially if you
have something to hide. INFJs may take the back
seat in a conversation but their piercing gaze and
scarce input can certainly make some people feel
like they’re under the spotlight with no idea what
could possibly be going through the INFJs mind.
This is most prominent during large group
the INFJ is in total analyzing mode, trying to
form a baseline of who certain people really are.
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