8 Ways The Infj Brain Plays Tricks On Them explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
you’d think they’d know their own mind in and
out. However, the ironic reality behind it is that
with introverted intuition and extroverted feeling
as their most dominant cognitive functions,
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But, if we take a deeper look into the INFJ brain
and how it processes information, the INFJ
opinion anchoring is explained as the phenomenon
of one’s first impressions on something or someone
having a significant effect on how they perceive
that thing or person forever. In simpler terms,
first impressions mean a lot more to the INFJ
than they realize. With the ability to pick
up information and file it deep within their
conscious mind, the INFJ may not notice that
they actually rely heavily on those first
Of course, this can be good or bad depending
on the situation. For example, if someone isn’t
treating an INFJ right, but the INFJ has a deep
subconscious imprint of the kind and gracious
first impression of that individual, it becomes
considerably more difficult to let them go.
If you know anything about the INFJ personality
type, you’ll know that their empathic abilities
go far beyond just feeling for their fellow humans
in times of difficulty. In fact, it’s clearly laid
out in the INFJ’s cognitive functions that their
empathizing is not exactly as kindness-driven as
it is the unwilling and sometimes unknowing act of
taking on other people’s feelings for their own.
To put it simply, the INFJ’s extroverted feeling
function makes it much easier to feel the feelings
of those around them in comparison to their
own feelings. So, not only does this result
in the INFJ often feeling out of touch with how
they personally feel, but it also causes them
to subconsciously look outside of themselves
for feelings to feel. Eventually absorbing the
energies and processing them in their introverted
when they’re surrounded by uplifting and positive
energy, this ability can make all the difference
in lifting the INFJ’s spirits. However, when they
find themselves surrounded by anger or aggression
this so-called gift can make things seriously
Think horoscopes, motivational sayings, and
daily readings. This brain trick is referred to
as the Barnum Effect, and it’s not only INFJs who
experience it. Naturally, the human brain wants
vague statements like those you find in song
lyrics and daily readings to resonate with us
so much that we will subconsciously fill the gaps
to make ourselves fit the part.. when in reality,
everyone. However, for the INFJ in particular,
with at-times fairytale-like perceptions and the
strong belief in particular philosophical views
sometimes it can be easy to slip into resonating
with certain things that aren’t exactly meant for
them. For example, this is a common tactic among
untruthful psychics and card readers. By making
fuzzy statements that anyone would want to
resonate with, they allow you to paint the
rest of the picture in your head..something
their more logical side and ask themselves,
‘could this information relate to anyone?”
and think that all eyes are on you? Some would say
it’s social anxiety or maybe even slight paranoia,
but in reality it’s just the spotlight effect
and INFJs know all about it. Because the INFJ
is so apt to observing other people on such a
deep level, they can easily convince themselves
that other people are observing them to the same
degree. The spotlight effect is described as the
idea that someone thinks people notice how they
look and act way more than they actually do.
For the INFJ, while they’re logical side knows
it’s silly to think that others care to observe
them like they do, they can’t help but to think
everyone is staring at them. Luckily, although
INFJs can get stuck in this thinking pattern,
they know in the end that even if someone did
glance at them, they probably aren’t thinking any
of the things the INFJ thinks they're thinking.
high respect for common sense matched with
the difficulty with describing certain concepts,
INFJs can sometimes expect too much comprehension
of people. It’s the unwritten curse of knowledge,
once you have it..you expect everyone knows what
you know. In fact, for the INFJ, sometimes
their brain tricks them into presuming what
they know to be obvious information, when in
reality they’re naturally drawn to rather taboo
topics. Once something clicks in their heads, it
is difficult for the INFJ to remember a time when
they didn’t understand it - making it difficult
to relate to others that don’t understand it.
Eventually most INFJs come to an understanding
that they shouldn’t expect much of people’s
comprehension when it comes to the topics they
enjoy. However, there always comes that odd
occurrence when they mention something after
thoroughly thinking it through, only to find
themselves feeling completely left out in the
cold with not one person to relate to them.
The placebo effect is a long known mental trick
that has been used in countless scientific and
psychological studies. Described as a treatment or
substance that is designed to have no therapeutic
value, the placebo effect is surrounded by the
idea that our brains and bodies can convince us
that a fake treatment is the real thing. The INFJ
is able to use this placebo effect in terms of
alternative medicines, affirmations, meditations
and visualizations. While this isn’t as much the
INFJ’s brain playing a trick on them, INFJs can
use this known brain trick to their advantage.
the hypochondriac effect. This is when someone
convinces themselves that they have an illness
that can not be detected, or is otherwise all in
their heads. Although INFJs aren’t particularly
known for hypochondria, an overactive imagination
can surely exacerbate minor symptoms at times.
empathy, it serves as a double-edged sword.
While it allows them to see the potential
envisioned for someone. This is especially
true if the INFJ can sense a true and genuine
heart behind the hurt someone is experiencing.
It’s as if INFJ’s can’t help but to see all
the ways someone could improve their lives,
and how much happier they could be on the other
end. However, this habit of focusing on someone's
imaginary potential can become seriously toxic
in certain settings. Sometimes people don’t want
to change their ways. In fact, sometimes people
don’t even see that there's anything wrong with
their behaviors or habits in the first place. Or,
sometimes the inability for the INFJ to truly see
someone’s negative behaviors for what they
are can result in codependent relationships.
The INFJ’s perception of people is constantly
tricking them, as they have to constantly be
checking in with their introverted intuition to
make sure their conscious perception is on track.
Speaking of the INFJ’s notorious second chances,
sometimes it’s not all about looking over the
negatives for the sake of the other person.
It could all be rooted in investment clinging.
This brain trick is all about clinging onto
people, objects, or situations solely because of
the amount of money, time or effort the INFJ has
put into it. In other words, the more they put
into something, the harder it is to move on.
This is true to some degree for every personality
type, however, for the INFJ in particular,
the deeper the bond with something or someone
results in things being significantly more
difficult when it comes time to step away. This
irrational way of thinking can cause them to not
only convince themselves to stay in relationships
that are long overdue, or not put a stop to that
business idea that is draining their savings.
Because of this brain trick, the idea of taking
also come to seem overwhelming for the INFJ.
Depending on past situations, this investment
clinging attachment can make the INFJ dread future
scenarios and hold back from investing anything
until they’re completely sure it’s worth it.
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