10 Reasons Why Narcissists Love The Infj Personality Type explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
INFJs have a particular set of traits that
make them one of the most vulnerable types for
the narcissist to prey upon. INFJ empathy
make it so that it’s nearly impossible to stop
giving narcissists the benefit of the doubt
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high for really anyone they allow into their
spends a great deal of their time in their own
heads thinking about the best possible future
outcomes. They’re constantly questioning when
they’re going to get their dream job, find their
purpose in life, and of course, when they’re
going to meet their true soulmate. So, when a
narcissist grabs the attention of an INFJ through
their compulsive fairytale-like love-bombing,
the INFJ can be easily convinced that this
is the true romance they’ve been waiting for.
They feel like they’re finally getting the
attention, affection and adoration they haven’t
been able to find elsewhere. And once someone has
made it into the inner circle of an INFJs life,
it’s extremely difficult for an INFJ to let go.
seemingly genuine emotional conversation, and
narcissists know this as a crucial step getting
closer to their victims. With an INFJs strong
empathetic nature, they can easily be tugged at
by their heart strings. They’re sensitive to the
emotions and behaviors that come from a narcissist
because they can feel the hurt they have inside.
The INFJ personality type is kind, non-judgmental
and has a hard time turning people down who grab
their attention through a sob story. In fact,
they may ruminate about someone’s situation
narcissists need in order to manipulative
While there may be quite obvious red-flags
within a connection, INFJs have the habit of
looking for the light and lesson within it all.
When an INFJ is caught helping a toxic person,
they are continuously convincing themselves
or that things are going to change for the
better. They are naturally attuned to the
looking in and seeing a different scenario,
an INFJ can easily overlook the distress of a
connection and focus on seemingly good qualities
and advantages. However, when an INFJ finally sees
the other side of things, they can’t unsee it.
INFJs rely on their introverted intuition aka
gut feelings when making judgemental calls and
decisions in life. However, when it comes
to making judgement calls on a narcissist,
it becomes extremely confusing for an INFJ.
and pampered with love-bombing, they not only
have trouble taking off their rose-colored
glasses to get a sense of reality, but they
are flooded by so many emotions that they
take it as a good sign from their intuition.
Narcissist can also be extremely convincing,
so even if an INFJ had an intuitive curiosity
that they wanted to discuss, a narcissist would
promptly come up with a convincing answer - making
the INFJ think they’re just overthinking things.
The INFJ peace-keeper will avoid conflict and
disruption to their calm inner world at any cost.
They may keep quiet about something that bothers
them in order to avoid an argument, and they may
brush some things under the rug to avoid seeming
as if they’re blowing things out of proportion.
This may have an INFJ feeling like they’re walking
on eggshells around a toxic partner or friend,
challenged, this is how they prefer it to be.
Not only are INFJs more prone to rationalizing
and denying the behavior of their abusers but they
also can be convinced that the mistreatment
is all in their head. They may speak up for
themselves and then quickly apologize for bringing
anything up because of the conflict that arises.
Most INFJs, if not all INFJs, would probably
know themselves to be an empath to some degree.
Between their intuitive strengths and their overly
compassionate nature, INFJs have a deep desire to
help others. While this allows them to genuinely
connect to people who are struggling, it also
means that they can easily be roped in by people
who prey upon this empathy. INFJs can easily make
it a personal duty to fix a toxic person who
doesn't take accountability for their own healing.
the narcissist a close connection, whether it
be a spouse, family member, or close friend.
Like anyone, it’s human nature to want to
be wanted. We all want to feel the love and
admiration we think we deserve, and while an
INFJ’s independence makes it seem as if they’re
uninterested in all incoming attention, they
can easily be flattered just like the rest of
us. The INFJ actually cares about what others
think of them more than they’d like to admit,
and when someone shows interest in them, they
can easily change their mind about a person.
Since this introverted type isn’t as forthcoming
with their advances on possible connections,
they much rather rely on other people showing
interest first, which is one thing a narcissist
does best. This means that narcissists can
easily charm their way into an INFJs heart
by making them want and understand. And while most
shy INFJs won’t show interest right off the bat,
a narcissist who is not easily offended and
slightly persistent seem like the perfect match.
Narcissists can easily convince an INFJ that
they’re the ones who have something wrong with
them. This is because INFJs have a tendency
to finally get to the point of standing up for
themselves, and then backing down and questioning
if what they’re trying to communicate is actually
what they’re feeling. INFJs who are stuck in
these types of connections are stuck between
their intuition and their logic, which makes them
seem indecisive when in reality they know exactly
what they need to do. This second guessing gives
a narcissist the upper-hand by convincing the INFJ
and what they think about the connection.
Deep down, the narcissist is usually fully aware
of what they’re trying to communicate to them,
clueless by rhyming off all the ways they
Number 9: They are intrigued by human behavior
people they meet to fully understand their
emotions and reasons for doing things. While
this allows the INFJ to really understand
people on a deeper level, this curiosity can
lead to some mentally draining connections.
The INFJ - narcissist connection keeps the
INFJ on their toes because it’s difficult to
fully get a grasp on what’s really happening,
resulting in the INFJ taking on the connection as
some sort of challenge. They can intuitively feel
that something is not right, but they can’t quite
put their finger on it. This creates a whirlwind
of inner conflict, inner challenges, and even
further encouragement to put the pieces together.
an INFJ has felt misunderstood for the majority
of their lives. They carry around a lot of
self-doubt, and uncertainty throughout their
lives because they hold such high expectations
for themselves that they can go through periods
of feeling like they’re not doing enough. The
unfortunate part is that not only does this
insecurity attract uncertain or toxic connections,
but it also contributes to the people-pleasing
nature that allows an INFJ to feel a quick
sense of gratification for their accomplishments.
Ironically, narcissists prey upon people-pleasing
people because that’s all they’re looking
for in their connections.. to be pleased!
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