6 Surprising Signs You May Be Dating An Infj Personality Type explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
If anyone could point out the traits of the
private INFJ it would be a long term partner
or spouse. Yet, ironically in a way, INFJs can
be slightly different people to their loved ones
unpredictable world. So.. what are these signs
of an INFJ spouse and how do they differ from
the average INFJ traits we all know and love?
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Now, it’s not as noticeable to an INFJ who
is on their own, because their periods of
deep introspection are second nature to them.
In fact, these times of self-analysis can get
so deep that they get a little dark, or at least
it can feel like that for brief moments in time.
Most people that know the INFJ would never notice,
but when someone is with this introspective type
for long enough, they may begin to wonder why
they have these phases of extreme independence,
disinterest in their surroundings and reserved
behaviors. Actually, it takes quite some time and
an extremely understanding, open mind to truly
grasp how harmless these occasional periods of
distance are. Considering INFJs are already known
for their need for space and individuality within
a relationship, for most people, these moments can
feel seriously threatening to the relationship,
especially at the beginning phases. However, it’s
good to remember that sometimes, general life can
feel overwhelming for this introverted intuitive
type. Whether it’s the negativity in the world,
the countless scenarios running through their
heads, or just the dull mundane of everyday life,
Number 2: They’re constantly seeking improvement
Now.. This sign can go one of two ways. Although
the INFJ can be quite critical of their spouses
at times, usually they want to improve the
relationship as a whole. And so, while it
may seem at times like INFJs are never satisfied
or overly idealistic within their romantic lives,
it’s usually because they can see the potential
of a person or connection. Usually this is a
self-committing journey that INFJs go through
by analyzing their own behaviors, actions and
thinking patterns to find ways they can improve.
However, when an INFJ is fully invested in someone
romantically, these self-improving prophecies can
certainly have their effect on the connection as
a whole. Luckily, INFJs are quite fair in their
desires, keeping the satisfaction and happiness
of both people in mind at all times. Whether
it’s practicing love-language desires, learning
new tips on how to spice things in the bedroom,
trying new hobbies together, or simply finding
ways to spend more time together within a busy
family life, INFJs don’t settle for mediocrity.
One thing all partners of an INFJ must keep in
mind, however, is that this need for constant
improvement isn't an indication that they’re
unhappy, but rather that they value the connection
so much they want to put enormous amounts
of effort into making it the best it can be.
While it may seem overbearing to some types that
are hesitant to commit or look too far ahead,
the INFJ isn’t afraid to share their big-picture
thinking and future projections with their long
term partners. Rooted in their intolerance
tendency to resort to deeper, more meaningful
conversation topics, INFJs tell it like they see;
through their projection of the future, that is..
Whether it’s conversations surrounding topics like
future bucket list desires and family-starting
preferences or simpler things like saving money
for a 5-10 year plan down the line, INFJs
love discussing potentials and possibilities.
In fact, INFJs are naturally future-oriented
thinkers, rarely reminiscing about the past. This
means that the future potential of a connection
can end up being more important and valuable to
them compared to past shared memories. Regardless
of the outcome, they always like to be prepared,
and when they get pieces of information that
pertain to another potential future outcome,
is thinking the same thing. Normally.. This INFJ
tendency doesn’t really involve anyone else,
so it’s usually an internal process that not
many people would know about. And even then,
they’ll never share everything they’re thinking.
INFJs are not only extremely supportive and
ambitious lovers, but they are also naturally
wired to want to help others. When it comes to
relationships, this trait can be a slippery slope
for the naive INFJs who have yet to learn the
lesson of over giving. However, when they’re met
with a supportive relationship where there is
a genuine opportunity for equal give and take,
connection. In addition to this helpful nature,
INFJs bring a great deal of romance to the table.
This means they don’t hesitate by going above and
beyond for their loved ones, especially when they
feel it’s appreciated. With that being said, if
they’re met with an equally independent type who
is reluctant to receive the help they long
to give, they can run into some issues later
down the line. In fact, INFJs see their care and
generosity as a manner of expressing their love,
making it crucial to have an outlet for these
needs with their romantic relationshionships
in the healthiest way possible. No, we’re not
talking about you narcissists and sociopaths.
It’s well known that INFJs have suburb listening
skills, however, when it comes to relationships,
INFJs don’t need to hear how their partner
feels in order to know. In fact, INFJs can
feel a shift in mood or energy from a mile away
when it’s only them and their significant other.
No matter what you say to this empathetic
type, they are more inclined to respond to
emotions and feelings rather than words. It’s
useless getting frustrated at the INFJ when
they insist that there's something off, because
sooner or later they’ll get it out. Actually,
they have no choice but to resolve it because they
will actually absorb these feelings if they linger
around for long enough. Truth be told, the INFJ
actually tends to feel the emotions of others
better than they do their own at times. And so,
when this feeler type is paired with someone who
has a naturally bright and uplifting energy about
them, it makes it a lot easier for the INFJ to
mirror those same frequencies back. However, the
contrary is also true. If you have an increasingly
cranky INFJ on your hands, it's probably a good
idea to look at your own mood. And because of
that, if this empathetic type begins to dislike
who they’ve become in a long term relationship,
you can be sure they’ll be looking to see how the
other person may have something to do with it.
In fact, in the case of an INFJ, sometimes
it doesn’t come at all. Or at least when it
does come, it can be easily wavered. For being
so independent and skeptical of the world, the
simple act of an INFJ letting down their guard to
get into a relationship is quite intense for them.
And usually they’re never fully ready to commit
in the first place. But when it comes to trust,
one of the first things partner’s notice is the
INFJs hesitancy to feel fully confident in the
connection. While some partners would never
even notice, other’s observe this hesitancy
through the INFJ’s ever-peeling layers to
their personality. They may notice months or
even a year down the line that the INFJ is
finally allowing themselves to fully love,
miss and expect from this person, without the
interruption of what-ifs. Plus, INFJs also just
take a longer time in general to truly decipher
if someone is worth their time. It sounds harsh,
but they want to learn someone inside and out
before they place their emotions before their
observation too soon. The difficult thing is
that being skeptical can cause some INFJs to find
things that aren’t actually there, resulting
in suspicions that aren’t rightfully due.
Luckily this is balanced by their ability
to properly read people combined with their
intuitive guidance, which makes it easier
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