7 Secrets Of Dating An Intp explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Attempting to date any of the personality types
comes with its own challenges and nuance. Yet,
when it comes to the mysterious INTP, they
can be particularly hard to get a bead on.
At least, until you watch this video.. That is.
we’re going to reveal 7 secrets of dating
an INTP personality type. But before we get
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Alright, let’s jump into it starting with…
When INTPs are stuck standing around, they’ll
quickly run away. This is owed in large part
to their extroverted intuition- meaning they
crave different kinds of novel experiences.
It can be kind of difficult to discern where
and their boredom begins. This can make it
stressful determining when it’s “safe” to
establish a consistent connection with them.
However, this shouldn’t suggest that INTPs
aren’t interested in regular communication
just make sure to keep things interesting.
Sneak a surprise in here and there to stimulate
the INTP’s vibrant imagination. This kind
keeps them engaged and invested — and that
in turn will keep them coming back to you.
Whether it’s a steamy mid-day text or a new
more new activities, topics of conversation, and
creative ways you can come up with, the better.
but if you lie in any way, shape or form,
don’t be surprised when you find yourself
on their “zero communication” list. They may even
leave with little-to-no explanation.. Serving as
a perfect example of how much lying bothers an
INTP due to their relaxed and accepting nature.
If an INTP is being too distant, isn’t showing
anything else their seemingly reserved attitude
can lead to, tell them. They’ll go out of their
way to provide the support you need, but not
if you try to manipulate them into it, instead
of simply sharing your feelings upfront and
honestly. INTP’s prefer honesty so much that they
would rather hear the inconvenient, unpleasant
truth than a thorough but ultimately hollow lie.
It cannot be stressed enough - truth is far up
- if not at the summit - of the INTP’s value
totem pole. Acknowledge the essential nature
of this, and you’ll not only stay out of the
notifications - you’ll definitely want to
scale it back when it comes to dating an INTP.
Remember, INTPs are ultimately introverts meaning
independence is very important to them, at times
bordering on the extreme. There is and always will
be something new to learn, a new book to read,
a new skill to develop, and so on. And they can
do all of this alone while feeling fulfilled.
dedicated alone time to focus on their own
interests and pursuits, you’ll inadvertently
make them choose between their own nature and
you. But if you do give them that space and
opportunity to recharge their INTP batteries,
they’ll appreciate it and value you that much
more for the effort. Not to mention, the best
version of an INTP is one that is granted enough
r & r to be their genuine selves around others.
mysterious type isn’t as serious as they may seem.
Unlike personality types who hug like they’re
shaking hands, the INTP has a personal bubble
that they mostly prefer to remain intact.
So.. if an INTP goes in for a hug, that’s
a huge sign that they’re really comfortable
with you. Like most introverted personalities,
you’ll see a much sillier, odder, and cuddlier
surprise how exaggerated their actions can be,
in contrast to their otherwise restrained nature.
in more common ways like paying compliments or
simple discussion, they’ll often use physical
touch as a means to convey their affection in
place of such methods. Don’t make the mistake
value it when it’s time to be together. That
appreciation just comes out in a different way.
This can also make it easier to show your
own feelings to an INTP in a way that they
understand and appreciate. If you find their
wires are crossed and you’re not getting across
your feelings to them how you’d like, then
giving them some well-timed hugs and other
forms of physical affection can be a great way to
do this while staying inside their comfort zone.
Secret #5 Don’t Pressure Them On Their Feelings
Being candid, INTPs often don’t even understand
how they’re feeling enough to try and explain
But, this reality just gets exaggerated that
much more by the INTP’s preference for facts
is incredibly difficult for an INTP, despite
having them beneath the layers of rationale.
like a flurry of random verbiage and confusing
phrasings - so in one sense, it’s a blessing
that they withhold sharing their feelings in a
way that will only confuse you that much more.
seem more interested earlier on and less so in
the “middle” of the relationship. This isn’t
a sign of diminishing interest, it’s just
a reflection of their introverted nature.
can be emotionally harmful to others. So to avoid
the kind of brute harshness of children too naive
to know they’re hurting someone’s feelings, INTPs
can grow increasingly distant. Reassuring them
that you won’t take their words too personally can
help a lot with getting them into open discussion.
breakdown, understand that showing so much
openness with their feelings is a sign they really
need you to be there for them. Just the fact
that they’re willing to do it around you means
they trust you with their naked vulnerability.
In fact, when you look into the major triggers
for this kind of behavior, it all revolves
around intense stress like overpowering social
demands, heavy-hitting out of the blue news,
or back-to-back deadlines. It’s at this time
that an INTP’s partner would truly see their
more vulnerable side. They so rarely express
their feelings, and so this intensity is both
gash - that’s how shocking it is for INTP
let alone what caused it. So if you do see
well-meaning presence means everything to them.
Sometimes INTPs get uncomfortable with the term
“relationship” because it can generate a lot of
unnecessary stress, along with the pressure
acts of affection. INTPs generally prefer to
maintain their relationships on a low-key level,
independent of any family or friends. While it
may naturally seem like they’re doing this to
avoid commitment and simply “play both sides”
it actually isn’t for this purpose. The reason
behind the behavior is moreso just the INTP’s long
process of becoming completely comfortable around
view the relationship as one that unfolds
deeper. It puts less pressure on the INTP
while also reducing any disappointment you may
experience when things don’t launch off like a
rocket ship. Just show that you’re worthy
of their trust and can provide the kind of
novelty that keeps them intellectually engaged,
and they’ll reciprocate in their own unique way.
So, psych-os.. those are the 7 secrets to
relationship with an INTP personality type?
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