10 Qualities That Automatically Catch The Infj’S Attention explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
There’s something to say about the INFJ’s
love for human nature and the innate observation
when it comes to the behavior of their fellow
In fact, since this personality type holds
the specific cognitive functions of extroverted
feeling and sensing, their attention is easily
drawn to the subtleties of human nature..
But what qualities specifically grab this
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Non-judgment and open-mindedness are two no-brainers
when it comes to the qualities INFJ’s look
And while these two qualities are at the top
of their list, the one thing that will unquestionably
Combining non-judgment and open-mindedness,
offering a sense of validation within vulnerable
and even passive conversation is a unique
trait that not many know how to utilize properly.
Whether it’s the act of validating the INFJ’s
taboo thoughts and ideas or witnessing someone
validate the emotions and feelings of someone
else, this unwavering sense of understanding
and the resulting comfort it provides attracts
Known as one of the personality types with
an equal sense of creativity and practicality,
INFJs admire the innovative abilities of their
In fact, because the INFJ is always looking
for the next intriguing way to utilize their
creative powers, it can be difficult for them
to stay with an artistic endeavor for long
And so, when they witness or gain a sense
of expertise of an artistic or creative talent
that has become mastered overtime, they can
feel an overwhelming appreciation towards
Plus, this personality type has a knack for
interpreting and understanding the beauty
behind even the most taboo or otherworldly
From different forms of music, painting and
writing, to cultural expressions, and alternative
modes of entertainment, INFJs hold a special
place in their hearts for people who take
If there’s something more captivating than
do whatever it takes to remain unpresuming.
Rooted in an egotistical sense of awareness,
this captivating quality allows others, including
the INFJ to feel that anything is possible.
They make their wins seem less-than or completely
attainable and will happily provide the steps
The main reason INFJ’s admire this characteristic
is because they themselves are extremely humble
They utilize their wins and talents to motivate
others and when they sense that same motivation
through the victory of another person, they
In a world of shyness, socially awkward interactions
and a favored notion towards bonding over
to become enthralled in the genuine happiness
In fact, since this empathetic personality
type can’t help but to utilize their extroverted
feeling function by absorbing both the positive
and negative energy of the people around them,
it can be refreshing when they find someone
However, it’s important to note that INFJs
can see right through fakery, a false sense
of happiness, and attention-seeking behavior,
which is not the same thing as the high-spirited
this vibrant liveliness to emerge, and this
is the quirk that gets the INFJ’s recognition.
Whether it’s intentional or not, the INFJ
With an aura of non-conformity and mystery,
this outcast personality type themselves can’t
help but to feel captivated by like-minded
Regardless if they’ve been shunned by their
outer environment or they took the steps to
distance themselves, INFJs know the feeling,
and as a result, their attention and curiosity
This can either be in the form of someone
simply sitting alone within a social gathering
or crowd of people, or it can be the admired
actions of taking life into their own hands
by starting a business, starting a new independent
hobby, or choosing to live life outside of
The INFJ will not only become captivated by
can easily feel motivated and become instantaneously
respectful of someone taking the decisive
step into a more unconventional, free-spirited
Similar to the INFJ’s personal connection
imaginative type is also captivated by other’s
Any thought or idea that is composed outside
of the everyday realm of thinking will instantly
grab the attention of this esoteric type.
Since the INFJ often feels misunderstood for
their out-of-the-box ideas and thinking-patterns,
as soon as they sense the same level of unorthodoxy
within someone else, they get a glimpse of
hope that just maybe they can finally have
that mind-expanding conversation that they
Not only that, but when they get a sense that
someone else doesn’t feel ashamed to think
out of the norm, it instills a trusted bond
for the INFJ that allows them to act most
In a perfect INFJ-world, everyone would practice
an unwavering sense of kindness towards their
However, in reality, INFJs know that can be
quite the unrealistic expectation when it
So, when this appreciative personality type
does observe an act of common-sense rooted
kindness, it certainly grabs their attention.
Simple things like holding the door open for
someone behind, offering the difference in
change to someone who’s short a few cents,
or offering a snack to someone who has forgotten
their work lunch, looking out for one another
without any hesitancy is invaluable to the
When someone is able to utilize their natural
ability to make good judgments and to behave
in a practical and sensible way towards the
In fact, without this compassion, it's rare
for the INFJ to even consider investing in
Besides the sense of independence that can
allure an INFJ personality type as we discussed
about this type’s draw towards people who
Like we said, the INFJ’s extroverted cognitive
function makes it impossible for them to ignore
They not only absorb the high-energy of positive
people they come into contact with, but it’s
inevitable for them to feel the struggle of
those who are battling their inner demons.
In fact, the most captivating of the struggling
individuals tends to be those who think they’re
hiding it from the world by putting on a front
type of the MBTI, the INFJ feels an automatic
magnetic pull towards those who may need their
There’s a sense of realness behind others'
emotional and mental challenges that ground
this type, and makes them crave more insight
positive self-recognition, however, the vulnerability
that comes through uncomfortable accountability
is what really grabs the attention of the
Just like the rawness behind personal struggles,
accountability quiets the ego and establishes
a sense of genuinity that can’t be proven
In fact, in an instance where someone comes
forward to individually take the blame for
a group effort without the need to call anyone
else out for their wrong doings, the INFJ
will hold that individual in high regards
for their amenability and lack of interest
They’re charmed by the self-sacrifice and
strength to take the hit for the sake of their
This is especially admirable when the INFJ
was able to sense exactly who else is to blame,
Number 10: People who stand up for themselves
The conflict avoidant INFJ can certainly feel
uncomfortable when it comes to confronting
And so, when they witness someone else using
a calm and respectful approach to set appropriate
boundaries, they become instantly captivated
Whether it’s within a family setting, within
a friendship, romantic relationship or simply
through an encounter with a stranger, there’s
a certain level of self-respect that comes
Not only is it met with an appreciation for
their courage, but also an admiration and
motivating factor for the INFJ to adopt a
similar approach within their own encounters.
In fact, for the conflict-avoidant INFJ, a
simple encounter of this nature can make all
the difference in their own confidence and
can end up putting their own lack of boundary-setting
So, as an INFJ, what are some qualities of
other people that instantly catch your attention?
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