8 Set Requirements Infjs Need To Fully Trust Someone explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
With so many complex layers to their personality,
the INFJ surely doesn’t open up to just anyone.
Layer by layer, the INFJ will slowly reveal
themselves but only to the people they genuinely
trust. So.. what does the INFJ require in order to
feel comfortable enough to show their true colors?
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The first and ultimately most important factor
in earning an INFJs trust is to patiently wait
for them to analyze and observe the connection
at their own pace. It may seem like a simple
requirement.. One that would hopefully be at
the foundation of any new friendship. However,
depending on the type of connection. They
so deep analyzing is always a part of the process
for INFJ’s when meeting new people.In fact,
which usually includes reviewing the other
person’s behaviors towards others, the words
they use, their perspective on worldly manners,
and how they carry themselves overall. In fact,
just when someone thinks they really know
an INFJ, they can find themselves surprised
themselves. This keeps relationships with
this mysterious type intriguing and exciting
- but only for those who are willing to wait!
one thing that really sets the trustworthy
ones apart is open-mindedness. INFJ’s know
it requires a certain level of open-mindedness to
understand their complex viewpoints and unorthodox
way of thinking. And so, when they befriend
someone who is able to understand their unique
and trusting of that person. Truth be told,
trustworthy people they meet. If they get
an inkling that someone may actually be on
their level to some degree, they may test
them by sharing something crazy about themselves
or an odd perception in order to analyze their
reactions. Flinch, judge, or ridicule and
the INFJ will know that person is probably
not cut out for earning the necessary trust for
this personality type to truly be themselves.
INFJs are amazing listeners, but when it comes to
sharing about themselves, they’re met with extreme
hesitation. Aside from their concern of not being
fully understood and the fear of miscommunicating
their feelings, the INFJ is also aware that most
people generally don’t give a damn about what
others have to say. In today’s day-in-age, people
much rather hear themselves talk than attentively
listen, and usually this is a good thing for
this brain-picking personality type. However,
when they happen to meet someone who shows
genuine attentiveness, it can feel seriously
but it just so happens to also be a major
necessity for a truly trustworthy foundation.
Having the skills to properly listen is one
of the INFJ’s ‘make or break’ qualities in
expectation they can easily slip into the role
of therapist..which can only go on for so long.
The INFJ’s perfectionistic nature along with
their deep imagination drives them to constantly
be on the road to self improvement. They are
always looking for ways they can grow their
character and gain new life experiences. And when
they’re not improving themselves, they’re usually
found trying to help improve others. And so, when
someone is able to come along and patiently push
them to better themselves, this rare personality
type will feel a sense of confidence in the
connection that they can’t get elsewhere. Because
INFJs are so used to being the ones to put their
own needs and wants on the back burner to help the
people around them, to have the roles reversed for
once can provide a sense of security that can
make all the difference in their lives. The most
beautiful aspect of this rare quality is that
not only do INFJs directly relate to the desire
to help someone achieve their optimal potential,
but they also appreciate the fact that someone
has a genuine concern for their well-being.
With patience and open mindedness combined
with gentle shoves in the right direction, one is
certain to gain points on the INFJ trust-o-meter.
Number 5: Unique forms of self expression
INFJs are drawn to people who are real and raw.
No fronts and no facades. And so, when someone
holds the confidence to express themselves
This sense of comfort and association with
the odder things in life can instill a great
sense of trust and connection for an INFJ.
This is mostly because they so often feel a
lack of genuine character and unapologetic
whether it be an unorthodox style of clothing, a
mysterious nature, an unconventional lifestyle,
an interesting hobby, you name it.. The weirdos
will always have a special place in an INFJ’s
heart and with that, they usually win the INFJ’s
trust over someone who blindly conforms, anyday.
Number 6: Consistent and predictable behavior
Contrary to the INFJ’s seemingly unpredictable
decisions at times, this personality type requires
a sense of consistency and predictability in the
people they trust. Aside from decision-making,
and dependability within their connections.
This makes new connections difficult enough to
navigate, so when they find themselves surrounded
by someone with roller-coaster mood swings,
everything can become all too intense. In fact,
but it’s required for any type of long-lasting
mutual connection with this type. This is because
avoiding the inconsistent behaviors of others is
one of the most important boundaries an INFJ can
set in order to protect their empathetic gifts
and limited social battery life. So, INFJs look
for the people who don’t waver from who they
are as people, no matter how ugly life can get.
INFJs have a natural sense of integrity that
they truly value about themselves. They live in
accordance with their deepest values while staying
honest and always keeping their word. And so,
naturally, INFJs look for those same positive
qualities in the people they trust. Having
similar thought-processing isn’t necessary for
an INFJ to lay down their guard, but similar
morality is certainly important. Saying what
you mean, and meaning what you say is one thing,
but this observant type wants to know that the
people they’re trusting don’t just talk the talk,
someone says they're going to do something,
INFJs want to know that they don’t need to
worry about that something anymore, and that
they won’t have to do it themselves in the long
run. They want to know that someone's judgments
are sound even if they don’t necessarily agree
on their opinions. They want to know that when
they have someone’s word on something, nothing
will comprise that promise. And so, consequently,
lack of integrity is a one-way ticket to INFJ
distrust.. But can you really blame them?
There’s no doubt that INFJs can appreciate having
a practical and rational person around when
they’re gifted one, but overall, INFJs tend to
put their trust into people that can see the world
through the lenses of optimism and enthusiasm.
Patience, integrity and open-mindedness are all
great, but without a little sense of hope
and optimism behind it all, trust becomes
a tricky thing. Of course, they don’t require a
constant ‘happy-go-lucky’ energy in order to feel
someone is trustworthy. However, if someone
is constantly down on themselves and low in
energy with an overall doomed and gloomed outlook,
INFJ’s may question their judgments temporarily.
This imaginative type spends such a great deal
of time thinking up possible future projections
and ‘what-ifs’ that a positive outlook can
process. Ultimately this type can see the often
overlooked beauty in the world, but may have a
difficult time taking it for what it is, because
of their constant poking and prodding for a deeper
understanding. And so, when someone is able to
bring light to an INFJs ruminating imaginative
scenarios, the INFJ will have no choice but to
feel more at ease and supported in the connection.
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what else do you require as an INFJ for someone to
fully earn your trust? Let us know in the comments
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