8 Surprising Indicators That The Infj Is Upset With Someone explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Some may say forgiveness is the INFJ’s middle
With empathy making a grand-presence in every
quite rare that this personality type would
However, no matter how empathetic they may
And with that, comes emotions of displease
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Number 1: They’re not their normally bubbly
With a solid foundation and understanding
of not only who they are, but also how others
perceive them, the INFJ is good for showing
up as the same person each and every time
While some types become consumed in outer
circumstances, which allow their mood and
behavior to alter how they communicate with
others, the INFJ’s presence is considerably
They don’t take out their personal matters
on other people, and they don’t allow their
at-times negative mood to leak into other
However, if someone blatantly does the INFJ
wrong, you can be almost certain that their
While this may, at times, look like short-replies
and one-word answers, it’s most likely the
INFJ will maintain a demeanor that says ‘they
approach out of the equation, and will only
communicate when and if absolutely necessary..
Number 2: The not-so-silent silent treatment
One of the key differences between the INFJ
just needing some space to understand just
how upset they are and a full-blown doorslam
Although the INFJ is apt to fall into a silent
treatment-like mood when they’re upset with
someone, they don’t utilize this silent-mode
In fact, because of their most dominant introverted
to even fully understand their emotions towards
In order for this type to fully grasp every
angle of the upsetting encounter they need
However, in their attempts to create space,
the INFJ rarely resorts to turning it into
Instead, this rather-gentle type will always
communicate why they have to leave the heated
Ironically, as the INFJ ruminates and replays
every past encounter with that individual,
this time away can either make or break the
When INFJs are upset about anything, they
Choice one allows them to block everything
external out, in order to deeply ruminate
about the upsetting situation, which we just
This second choice leads the INFJ to distract
themselves through their external environment
While everyone goes through these motions
on a certain level, depending on the severity
of the disappointment or distress, when the
INFJ steps out of their minds in times of
dismay, it can feel rather out of character.
In the same sense, INFJs have to try extra
hard to avoid slipping back into their loud
and distracting inner minds, which makes it
crucial that they find something actually
So, in other words, if you think you upset
an INFJ and now they're 10 minutes deep into
frantically scrolling on their phone or randomly
unnecessarily cleaning, you can be sure what
you said might not have been perceived as
could upset the INFJ in the first place, rudely
challenging or dismissing them on their core
values and insights is a sure way to do it.
Since the open-minded INFJ is never quick
to judge others for their beliefs and values,
they go out into the world only hoping for
Unfortunately, the naive INFJ quickly learns
that that’s a little far-fetched of an expectation.
And unfortunately, most of the time they learn
Luckily, within that lesson, they learn that
trouble of having to listen to them elaborate
Actually, lack of interest alone will have
the INFJ saving another from the depths of
their mind, however, if someone is blatantly
ignoring them or belittling their viewpoints,
‘don’t worry about it’ is their passive-aggressive
way of saying ‘I can tell you’re extremely
One of the clearest signs that someone is
noticeably upset is when they begin to vent
For some people, it doesn’t really matter
as long as they can somewhat keep up with
For the INFJ however, venting isn’t a drama-filled
Instead, this private personality type will
only vent about their personal issues when
So, whether they’re in a predicament within
one of their close connections, or they’re
stressing about a workplace relationship,
the only time someone will hear about it is
when it’s become all too much for the INFJ
to laugh off, forgive, or live and let live.
On the same note, most INFJs have a ‘go-to’
venting person..so if you see them venting
Number 6: They challenge the upsetting words
Like we said, there’s not many things that
would send the INFJ to the point of being
Since they try their best to understand other
people and the origins of their habits and
emotions, this personable introverted type
prefers to practice the ‘think before you
Although some may say the INFJ’s inability
to feel their own emotions can serve as a
challenge, there’s no doubt it comes with
One of those positives being that they need
to take an extra minute or 5 to dissect the
If they’re unable to squeeze anymore clarifying
information from the source, they’ll skip
right to keeping themselves busy or going
within to better formulate the appropriate
However, if the situation and person allows
it, the INFJ will attempt to clear the air
With this tactic alone, INFJs can much easier
decipher whether someone’s words or actions
were taken out of context or whether they
need to keep their distance from this person
Calm and composed, the INFJ rarely shows their
inner thoughts through their external appearance.
However, when the INFJ is surprised with a
not-so-positive interaction with another person,
they can end up showing their irritation more
As a matter of fact, since the INFJ tend to
be conflict-avoidant, the simplest disturbance
to their mental and emotional equilibrium
can actually send them into a slight state
As they try to compose themselves and not
become distracted with internal questions
surrounding the encounter, INFJs may end up
using subconscious grounding techniques to
keep them from getting too in their heads
Whether they begin shifting their weight from
foot to foot, cracking their knuckles, biting
their nails, playing with their hair, or even
bouncing their leg to the beat of the music..
The INFJ will subconsciously use these fidgety
habits to play into the idea that they’re
flooding thoughts at bay until they can better
So, now you’re probably thinking you could
pick the upset INFJ out of any crowd..but
no type that can swallow their pride and smile
off feelings of discontent towards another
However, just because it’s nearly impossible
to tell if they’re upset with someone, especially
While they may sugar-coat their dismay through
care that much anyway’ attitude, there will
be some hidden truths behind their explanation.
Plus, because they’re so often misunderstood,
sometimes the simple act of acknowledging
and asking an INFJ if they're upset by something
Not to mention, a little consideration is
enough for this overly-forgiving type to put
So, what’s the best way to tell if you're
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