10 Things All Infps Hate explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Due to their open-minded and empathetic nature,
it can be hard to believe that the caring INFP
personality type has any pet peeves at all.
Well.. newsflash, they’re only human like the
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going to discuss exactly that, the 10 things
all INFPs hate! But before we get into it,
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Okay.. let’s be real. There’s not many people
that particularly enjoy being put on the spot..
especially when they’re being challenged on their
opinion or way of thinking. Yet, when it comes
to INFPs and a few other introverted personality
types, having the spotlight involuntarily turned
on them comes with a whole new level of annoyance.
With such a strong preference to work behind the
scenes, they can even become uncomfortable being
complimented or praised on the spot.. Especially
in front of a group of people. In addition to
compliments and comments, most INFPs struggle to
properly express their ideas when spontaneously
called upon. They require time to think and
sort their thoughts in a way that makes sense
to share without that given time, it can be
extremely annoying and even embarrassing at times.
Number 2: When people refuse to listen or care
Known to be one of the most kind and caring types
of the 16 personalities, the INFP is one of the
best listeners there is. Considered the mediator
type, this empathetic personality is able to
fully sense when people do not demonstrate similar
listening and caring skills. While they don’t have
unnecessarily high expectations for their social
interactions, they do expect a communal sense of
communication and understanding, and rightfully
so! In fact, it’s not lack of attention that
really gets them. The INFP is especially sensitive
to people who refuse to listen or care in a
deliberate or malicious way - and it’s fair to
say, they’re not so fond of those types of people.
Whether it’s someone they should be able to trust,
or a random stranger, people who dismiss the
INFP’s thoughts and feelings as unimportant hold a
special place in their mental book of pet-peeves.
are, INFPs are also challenged with not being
taken seriously. Because of their seemingly
unrealistic and idealistic views on life,
may view an INFP as cute and naive rather than
taking their views and opinions for the truth.
Realistically, INFPs aren’t as innocent-minded as
they seem. Although this introverted type prefers
to look at the bright side of things and the
best in the people they meet, they are all too
aware of the way the world actually is to not take
non-ideal outcomes into consideration. In fact,
some people with this personality may even be
considered more serious-minded than most types..
So, don’t let their passionate nature fool you!
Number 4: Being criticised for their personality
‘too sensitive’ ‘overly idealistic’ or that
they often have their head in the clouds.. And
rightfully so! The very core aspects of the INFP
even intentionally humorous comments and criticism
to their functions can cause negative feelings.
Jabs to their involuntary characteristics
is like telling them that something is not
only wrong with what they’re doing, but also
who they are as people. And it doesn’t take a
genius to understand how deeply that could hurt,
especially when having to pretend to brush it off
Cruelty, inequality, and injustice has no place
around the INFP personality type. In fact,
discrimination and unfairness of any kind
is probably one of, if not the most hated
thing by this generous idealist. Because they
choose to see the world in a positive light,
people with this personality type tend to have
a particular dislike for selfish, judgemental
and egotistical people who hurt others in any way
shape or form. Whether it’s something simple like
unfair favoritism in the workplace, or something
of a bigger scale such as the fight against global
of some of the people who walk this earth.
Luckily, these injustices are what allows this
type to never lose sight of their desire to live
a meaningful and purpose-filled life with the
hopes of leaving the world a better place.
Number 6: Lack of meaning & inspiration in life
Speaking of the INFPs drive to live an honest
and purposeful life, this passionate personality
type can feel a sense of extreme unease when
their life lacks these very qualities. Much
like other intuitive personality types, the
INFP seeks meaning in everything they do.
They can easily imagine a life for themselves
that’s full of contribution and adventure,
because they want life to matter, and not just
on a small scale. They want to be swimming in
the alps, solving world hunger, writing the next
award-winning novel, making deep connections,
and soaking in all the life has to offer.
Unfortunately, this isn’t exactly how life
is cut out for most people, and that reality can
be devastating for an INFP to come to terms with.
Of course, they can tolerate the repetitive
nature of normal life, but without purpose to
remaining fully authentic themselves, the INFP
personality type can surely be annoyed when
faced with lack of authenticity in others. Besides
the fact that people with an ingenuine character
can be rightfully annoying to almost any type,
the INFP tends to feel the deepest dislike
when it comes to dealing with the parts of
themselves that inauthentic people may bring
out in them. When this tried and true personality
type is in the presence of a phony character,
annoyance and irritability sets in at record
speed, sparking feelings that thecompassionate
resotorive alone time! With introverted feeling
as their main function, this personality type
resorts to making most of their decisions
values rather than concrete facts. Therefore,
it takes a little more brain work to navigate
and process through information for the INFP,
requiring them to retreat into solitude..daily.
Without this alone time, this imaginative
personality type will lose their stereotypical
come across as slightly snappy and frazzled
when challenged to socialize despite their lack
of social energy. To put it into perspective,
INFPs probably wouldn’t last through a 3-day long
music festival, nevermind a weekend at the inlaws.
difference between social and human interaction?
everything. Although this introverted type
can feel irritable in times where they neglect
their need for personal space and alone time,
the INFP is actually deeply interested in people
and humanity as a whole. Much like other intuitive
types, the INFP has a longing to uncover more
and more about people and what makes them tick.
Considered masters of understanding emotion
and psyche, the INFP loves piecing together
absorbed information in order to have a deeper
understanding of human nature. Unfortunate for
them, most interactions lack the genuine emotional
human aspect, and resort straight to social
expectations. They hate to know that if they
ask someone how they are, they’ll probably get
a mediocre “I’m great, and you?” response. They
don’t care about gossip or small talk, they want
to know what’s really going on in someone’s
mind, without having to blatantly ask them.
Number 10: Rigid structure & expectations
Creative and open-minded, the INFP personality
spontaneous side of life, this idealist much
rather make loose plans and future projections
with such deep creativity, INFP’s are prone
to changing their minds, which definitely
means they tend to struggle with routines
and consistency. Therefore, when INFPs are
challenged to navigate through highly structured
environments such as school or certain workplaces
where they’re expected to do things in a certain
way, they’ll probably hate it. Not to mention,
they don’t do well with overly controlling
or rigidly expecting relationships either.
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you an INFP? And If so, do you relate to these
10 pet peeves? Let us know in the comments
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