8 Beautiful Things That Happen When The Infj Finds A Stable Relationship explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
set out high expectations for the people they
allow into their lives. They’re careful, but
not always as careful as they’d like to be when
it comes to romantic connections, and because
of that, some INFJs can’t relate to the feeling
of being in a happy, stable relationship.. So,
Welcome or welcome back psychos! Today we’re going
to be talking all about the beautiful things that
happen when the INFJ finds a stable relationship.
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One of the first things that happens when
the INFJ finds someone that they truly get
of the rehearsed possibility that they may
just be alone forever. Sure, this seems quite
obvious for most types, but for the INFJ who
be single forever at one point or another,
And for others, it can be.. well.. terrifying..for
lack of a better word. But all in all, it’s a
perspective that this introverted type can only
reach once they’ve let their guard down enough
to allow someone in. And even if the relationship
ends, INFJs absorb this feeling and idea of
partnership for future hope - even making room
in their future for someone they’ve yet to meet.
They love to help people, and they love when other
people help people.. But the paradox to it all
is that INFJs don’t exactly enjoy being helped
themselves. In fact, this individualist type is
so reluctant to accept help that they would prefer
to take the harder way out just to know they’re
capable of doing it themselves. This trait can
actually become toxic in romantic connections
partner wouldn’t let the relationship play out
like this; regardless of how many kind gestures
it takes for the INFJ to finally feel like it’s
okay for someone to do something nice for them.
When there’s an equal give-and-take, INFJs are
able to show their appreciation and gratitude
selflessness as their means of affection.
surroundings are in flow, steady and peaceful.
They’re not keen on stagnancy and they can
easily become overwhelmed by choppy water.
This is most particularly when it comes to the
relationships they have in life. INFJs never
want to be the pot-stirrer of a situation, and
truly tries their best to be the mediator before
a continuous peaceful flow may be too much to
ask. In fact, INFJs have been known for their
passiveness when it comes to arguments and
disagreements in romantic relationships, but
only because they feel like their viewpoints
are being listened to solely for the reason of
being challenged. This may make it seem like
INFJs are conflict-avoiding, when in reality,
this stereotypical listener is all about hearing
other people’s viewpoints to discuss. And so,
when an INFJ finally feels stable in a connection,
discussing things that they disagree with, and
finding ways to meet their partner in the middle.
because that’s the only kind of relationship they
long for in life. And with the knowledge of what a
proper relationship is supposed to look like comes
the everyday things INFJs think couples should do
Like most things in life, INFJs have thought-up
what it would be like in a stable relationship,
what they would do with their partner, and the
life they would want to build with them. The only
missing piece is the partner worthy enough to play
out these desires. For some INFJs - despite having
been through multiple unfulfilling relationships
- having a sense of security within a relationship
is the only thing that will allow them to
truly want to invest themselves in the couple
aspect of things. Buying a home, adopting a pet,
setting out for long-distance couple-traveling,
Number 5: They experience a new sense of grounding
The only relationships that work when you
when it comes to real-world relationships,
the habit of constant daydreaming and analyzing
must come into balance in order for both partners
to be seen and felt. Luckily, this naturally
happens to the analytical INFJ once they’re
deep connections begin to flourish. In fact, in
the earlier stages of an INFJ romance, after the
nitty-gritty skepticism phase, they can feel a
sense of presence and enjoyment in physical life
like they’ve never felt before. Having someone
trustworthy to experience this physical realm with
is the perfect excuse for the INFJ to willingly
take a step down from their imaginative duties.
Number 6: Their intuition stops yelling at them
Introverted intuition has its perks, including
keeping the INFJ away from things that won’t
serve them in the long run. But despite the INFJ’s
intuitive efforts, some people with this stubborn
type will go against their inner feelings
for the sake of their rose-colored glasses.
Known for giving people the benefit of the
doubt, INFJs can get themselves into some
pretty tricky connections that end up triggering
a lot of internal conflict within themselves.
Rooted in their dominant introverted intuition,
the classic head vs. heart argument takes on
a whole new meaning for the sensitive INFJ.
Yet, when they’re met with a match that honors
their needs, this introverted intuition can
become the INFJ’s most encouraging cheerleader.
as we all do. But for the most part, once an INFJ
finds that stable connection, their intuition
becomes just a little more quiet and content
in comparison to relationships in the past.
A beautifully stable relationship may make
the INFJ feel more grounded, but it doesn’t
mean they don’t still require their times of deep
introspection and solitude. As a matter of fact,
in their eyes if their introverted needs weren’t
met. Yet, these same introverted needs are the
With a natural sense of introvertedness and
independence it can be difficult for them to
even imagine how their love for alone-time
would jive with someone else’s lifestyle.
Plus, when INFJs are given the freedom to rest
and recharge when needed, they’ll be able to
show up as the best version of themselves,
and that, my friends, is worth waiting for!
Number 8: They can share their wildest ideas
Curious and mysterious, the inside of an INFJ mind
is filled with endless possibilities, imagined
scenarios and information they’ve absorbed through
their extraverted feeling and sensing functions.
However, most people barely scratch the surface
when picking an INFJs brain because this private
type likes to keep most of their deepest thoughts
to themselves. However, when Mr or Mrs. Right
comes along with an open mind and the patience
to allow their introspective partner to unravel,
they’ll be met with some genuine out-of-the-box
concepts. Although most INFJs will test the waters
with a few contained ideas first, after analyzing
their partner’s reaction, slowly they will begin
unleashing the very ideas they thought they would
never share. It’s fair to say that not every type
is open to discussing metaphysics and the human
psyche, but when a like-minded partner does come
along, it can be a serious game changer when
it comes to mutual respect and understanding.
Alright PSYCH-Os, that’s it for today’s video.
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(or have been in) a stable relationship as an
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