8 Noticeable Effects Infjs Have On Others explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
the INFJ can certainly cause some people to be
taken aback by their sheer presence. Through
this personality type has both positive and
negative impacts on others.. but at what cost?
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Number 1: The comforting ego-boosting effect
With a balanced mix of optimism and empathy comes
the INFJ’s incredible ability to make others feel
like the best versions of themselves. Through
their deep understanding of the human mind and
the contrast of both the beauty and the darkness
it holds, the INFJ type can see both sides to
every person they meet, and yet has a tendency
to automatically focus on the good in people.
They see and communicate to others the aspects
of them that they fail to recognize themselves.
By asking the right questions and observing
beauty of each person. Using their subtle,
findings by dropping their precise opinions
throughout conversation, people walk away from
a personal and reflective conversation with an
INFJ feeling on top of the world. Whether the
INFJ has the conscious intention of motivating
or boosting someone's confidence or not, they
tend to have an infectious ego-boosting effect
on others that can be quite flattering for
those who have never experienced it before.
Speaking of asking the right questions, INFJs are
constantly gearing conversations towards a more
intimate and deep-rooted setting. Especially when
it comes to one-on-one engagements with others,
the self-reflective INFJ type can’t help but
to try and understand what’s beyond someone’s
outer demeanor. By thinking outside the box when
it comes to the approach they take when digging
further into someone’s brain, INFJs tend to
have an ever-lasting effect on those they
successfully break through. After penetrating
the surface of one’s subconscious facade,
this type can shake someone to their very
core, leaving them with self-reflections and
introspections that can cause them to change
their entire trajectory in life. Known as the
counselor or advocate of the MBTI, INFJs aren’t
there to push their views onto others, or to deem
their way of doing things as superior, but rather
utilize the details they gather to analyze and
than form the proper reflective statements that
will purposefully lead to one’s own pondering.
At one end of the spectrum, INFJ’s have the
ability to make the self-doubters feel like
a million bucks. Yet, on the other end of
personality type can easily humble the ego-based
character who is convinced they run the show.
In fact, there’s nothing more annoying for
the INFJ than to witness someone who can’t
help but to unnecessarily self-boast. Someone who
does whatever it takes to remain in the spotlight,
no matter the ill effects it has on those around
them. In these cases, INFJs have an interesting
effect, a subtle but lingering blow to one’s
overbearing ego. INFJs have a keen eye for those
who value themselves as better than those around
them. By refusing to engage in compliment fishing,
they slowly watch as someone's inflated ego
withers away in their presence. And while
INFJs may take the empathetic humbling approach
in where they see and communicate the underlying
inferiority that may be triggering someone’s need
for attention, most times they take the route of
avoidance, leaving them to question why the INFJ
doesn’t see the inferiority they have on others.
The ironic thing about the INFJ’s introverted
and reclusive approach to finding love is
Besides their calm exterior demeanor, the INFJ’s
understanding and non-judgmental approach to
communication with those around them can instantly
make people feel at-home. In fact, there’s no
personality type that quite understands people
on the level the INFJ chooses to. Whether they’ve
caught the INFJ’s romantic interest or not, this
personality type will take it upon themselves as a
challenge to try and understand someone on a soul
level. And since they already have the introverted
intuition and extroverted feeling to back them
up, they usually succeed without much effort.
Due to this gift, INFJs usually leave others
feeling like they’ve never been understood
by someone so easily and effortlessly before.
Some may be convinced that there’s a platonic
soul-tie between themselves and the INFJ because
of this uncanny feeling, while others may feel
as if the INFJ is ‘the one’ for them. Yet, the
INFJ knows no difference, and once they’ve gotten
their information, they usually take their foot
off the gas pedal unless they too feel the bond.
Much like the INFJ’s ability to trigger intense
and emotional self-reflections within people, this
imaginative personality type can also give other’s
the green light when it comes to allowing their
once-active child-like imagination to sore. To
the INFJ, a mundane life is where once-adventurous
souls go to die. With the ability and tendency
to dream big and unapologetically, the INFJ
can’t help but to consistently ponder on what life
could be like if they were to make certain moves.
Like the ripple effect, INFJs often reflect
on how they got to where they are due to their
past decisions, and just how much different
life could look in the future if they were to
make bold moves into a different direction.
This is the exact infectious thought pattern
that can have deep effects on those who find
themselves bored in their day-to-day lives.
A simple open-minded conversation with an
INFJ can unlock the buried dreams that were
once very active in one’s mind. INFJs not
only give the safety of allowing someone to
dream big without being ridiculed for the level of
unattainability but their brain-storming abilities
also allow them a look into the best ways one
could actually make their dreams a reality.
sooner or later you’ll catch a glimpse at the
incredible perspectives and understandings
having factual evidence to back them up) may
be deemed as conspiracy-theories and fables,
INFJs definitely have a way of planting the seed
of questioning reality inside someone’s mind.
Whether the topic of engagement is due to
planetary alignments, government motives,
the toxic side of the entertainment industry,
big pharma, the purposeful struggles placed
on the family dynamic, or anything else the
INFJ has thoroughly researched and concluded,
there’s something about the INFJ’s persuasive
knowledge that leaves others wondering. In fact,
regardless if the context of conversation is
surrounding proving the INFJ and their ‘coo-coo’
beliefs as wrong, their deepsea of understanding
may just leave the other person questioning their
own view of things. This is mostly because
someone’s mind directly, but rather to offer an
opposing argument with the passion to back it up.
self-reflection and imagination, the example INFJs
set by their own self-disciplined regimes can
have certain effects on others. Humble at heart,
INFJs rarely brag or even talk about the things
they’re currently doing to better themselves.
However, being the ever self improving type they
are, there’s never a time INFJs aren’t taking
certain steps towards personal growth in one or
more areas of their lives. Things like starting
a new fitness program, taking a new approach
to healthy eating, making the switch to natural
body products, or making a cleaning schedule for
their home, the self-critical INFJ is constantly
analyzing and re-analyzing their habits in order
to ensure they’re at their optimal efficiency.
Although this approach to life comes with both
positive and negative aspects, it certainly allows
them to lead by example in a non-egotistic
way in order to motivate those around them.
Through their active valuing of mind, body
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