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they realize they’re not like everyone else.
they relate to, and which habits the people
around them also relate to.. Yet, sometimes
this question never really gets answered.
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Number 1: Feeling lonely surrounded by people
Growing up often feeling misunderstood and
somewhat uncomfortable around most groups of
people, the INFJ is one of the only personality
types that can truly relate to the experience of
feeling more alone surrounded by others than
they do when they are just by themselves.
For many INFJs, loneliness doesn’t come from lack
of socializing and friendships, but actually from
the feeling of being misunderstood. They can
socialize all they want, but for most INFJs,
as much as they may theoretically want people to
relate to their thinking process on some level,
they will never reveal enough about their
true selves to allow it. Most of the time,
this is because INFJs can’t even find the words to
properly explain their intuitive feelings. And so,
this introverted and introspective personality
type tends to feel much more comfortable in nobody
INFJs care 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, with
no breaks in between. INFJs can seem to ruminate
about the simplest things in the eyes of others,
but to an INFJ who sees the deeper meaning
behind everything and everyone - caring is just
in their nature. We’re talking caring to the point
of feeling deep sadness because the extremely kind
and polite pizza delivery man deserves a better
job..Or feeling like they need to accompany the
lonely elderly widow living across their street
who may not even be interested in company at all.
And without even touching on the topic of
narcissist relationships, it’s clear to see that
this INFJ gift is as much as it is a curse for
this highly sensitive and empathetic personality
type. Caring about the world and people around
them is an INFJs biggest motivator in life,
yet also ironically one of their biggest emotional
and mental stressors if not used with boundaries.
As much as INFJs may seem like their personality
traits allow them to be naturally perfectionistic,
organized, and content from the outside - only
INFJs truly know the amount of dedication and
persistence it takes to keep everything in order.
For most people with this busy-bee personality
type, the term ‘balance’ doesn’t exist in their
vocabulary.. No matter which area of life,
whether it be family, relationships, careers,
relate to the concept of going all in or not
at all. Being progress-obsessed idealists
at heart, this type is driven by passion.
Ironically this passion can have them so focused
on one area of life that the others can easily
become neglected - an unfortunate downside of
the INFJ living up to their own high standards.
Being the problem-solving intuitive types
attract situations and people who need a little
fixing. In fact, not only do most INFJs attract
these scenarios, but they live for them - with
helping others being one of the only things that
bring them true joy in life. So.. when there's
a shortage of problems that need to be solved
INFJs can get a little antsy. When everything
seems to be going well, they can feel extremely
reluctant to let down their intuitive guard and
just enjoy the moment of freedom from obligation.
In fact, they may even begin suspiciously
order - similar to the suspicion a parent has when
their toddler is out of sight and being overly
quiet - they begin to think there’s something
they’re not noticing or observing properly.
Now, it’s fair to say that most introverted
personality types can agree that the ‘making
plans’ part of a social outing is much easier
than actually showing up and socializing.
Unfortunately, for the INFJ personality type
who can easily come across as an extroverted
type in certain settings, it can feel even more
confusing and dreadful. This is because INFJs
they use their imagination to picture a vivid
image of how the plan may unfold which fuels
their desire to really commit to plans. However,
contradictory to their convincing plan-making,
especially when it comes to plans that were
made way ahead of time, once the date begins
to approach, all of a sudden the plans that were
made don’t seem as fun as they did in the moment.
This is when the introverted guilt, dread, regret
and imposter feelings come into play. Every INFJ
knows the feeling of really not wanting to show
up, but also really not wanting to disappoint.
INFJs are always looking over the fence wondering
if the grass is greener on the other side.
Although they’re able to be thankful for what
they have, INFJs are naturally future oriented
the next best move in life would be. Now,
there’s a stereo-typical belief that INFJs won’t
settle for anything less than glorious in life..
And while there is some truth in that, considering
their complex imaginative insights and ability to
see things from a big picture perspective, it’s
not entirely what makes them feel so unsettled in
life. In fact, INFJs aren’t necessarily seeking
out the most glorious life for themselves,
but rather the life that feels most suited to
their idea of true happiness and abundance. They
can see right through the vesuade of what most
people think brings genuine happiness in life,
and instead take their own beaten path. And
although they can be quite hard on themselves,
INFJs know deep down what they deserve because
of the qualities they bring to the table.
Sometimes INFJs can surprise themselves just
as much as they surprise others when their
extroverted side is unleashed. Although this
type can easily put on an extroverted front
in social situations, it’s a rare occurrence
to see the actual relaxed extroverted side of
the otherwise introverted INFJ. It takes a long
term relationship, a trusted group of people,
moment. Much like the morning after a misbehaved
night out, INFJs can come back from this social
‘high’ questioning what they were doing, how they
were acting, and what they said.. Did they give
away too much information about themselves? Did
they use their social filter when talking about
their thoughts? It’s almost as if their analytical
selfs return full force, demanding answers in
order to thoroughly process what had happened
during their uncontrolled extroverted outlash..
Otherwise known to others as having a good time.
This analytical and imaginative type loves
decoding and understanding people of all types,
Whether it’s sheer curiosity, empathy, attraction
or all 3.. The INFJ can easily become intrigued by
deeply emotional people, yet sometimes this
attraction causes them serious trouble down
the road. It’s as if the empathetic nature
and high expectations of the INFJ collide,
driving this people-saving type drawn to people
who need saving. While this acts as one of the
INFJs greatest strengths, it surely attracts
people who carry undealt with emotional baggage
that is far beyond the means of being able
to be fixed with a sprinkle of INFJ empathy.
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