The Compromises No Infj Will Ever Regret Making explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
others, often at the detriment to themselves,
INFJs tend to compromise their needs and wants.
With that being said, compromisation is nothing
sometimes they can end up deeply regretting this
recurring choice. However, then there are the
necessary compromises that INFJs never regret..
8 of which we’ll be discussing in today’s video.
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If there’s one thing the INFJ can be faulted
for, it’s their need for perfectionstic and
their future projections or the people they rely
on, INFJs can’t help but to place their at-times
Luckily, they know this about themselves,
and can often compromise these expectations
when they see fit. When they’ve worked up an
imaginative future-scenario in their heads that’s
incredibly realistic, only to find that when they
arrive at that future destination in their lives,
it’s nothing as they’ve imagined, they have no
choice but to compromise with the reality of the
matter. While some INFJs can end up disappointed,
over time they learn that to live life in the
moment, and to focus on the strengths of others
rather than their perceived short-comings is a
much better approach for their overall happiness.
Number 2: The compromise of their social status
They say without the appropriate networking,
those people are in society. With this belief,
people often compromise their mental health,
their connection to self, and their independence
for the sake of this social power. For the
introverted and intuitive INFJ however, this
concept is all backward. While they understand
compromise the position they’re expected to hold
within their social groups for the sake of their
solitude. Despite having the necessary skill set,
motivation and social skills for climbing to the
top of the professional and social ladder, they
often compromise that potential dream for the sake
of the deeper satisfaction they long for in life.
maintaining connections built on ingenuity
and self-gain. And while they may look at
those in higher positions as having something
they don’t have, they know it’s all in their
willingness to put up with fakery, leaving the
INFJ with no room for regret for their choices.
Number 3: The compromise of their beliefs
With strong beliefs and an unshakable open
mindedness, INFJs can be found caught between
learning about alternative possibilities.
Luckily, their innate knowledge-thirsty nature
allows them to compromise their initial beliefs
in the hopes of finding something they can
closer relate with. This expansive approach
may seem counterintuitive to people who see their
views as the end-all-be-all, however, no matter
how seriously the INFJ takes themselves, they
will always leave room for a different approach
or mentality. While they say that values and
beliefs live right in the core of each individual,
some of the INFJ’s deepest beliefs revolve around
the very fact that they’re not always right.
They feel humbled by that fact, and the knowing
that the brilliance of their fellow humans may
in fact have connected different dots due to their
life experience. And should the INFJ be convinced
of these opposing findings, the INFJ will happily
adopt them as their own. Or at the very least,
that everyone should have their own views.
Number 4: The compromise of their comfort zones
Despite having to fight against their screaming
inner avoidance in the moments before they take
the leap into the unknown, the INFJ rarely regrets
what they discover on the other side. In fact,
this is one of the best compromises this dreamer
personality type can make in their lives.
Whether it’s a nagging dream that won’t go
un-experienced like moving across the country,
setting out for a solo travel, or even getting to
know someone they’ve been pondering on. Or be it
the milestone in their self-growth journey, such
as taking a step in the right direction for their
health or expanding their professional skill
set. INFJs do have a deep need for alone time
new connections and a new vigor for life.
Speaking of the preference for close connections
based on genuinity, INFJs will do a lot for the
people they hold close to their hearts. One
of which is the compromise they make to the
preferences they have for how they like to live
their day-to-day life. While this occurs to a
certain extent when prioritizing their immediate
friends and family, there’s nothing quite like the
compromises they will make when their normally
solitude-based life is replaced with a close
romantic connection. In fact, since they’re
known as the mediator type, most INFJs have a
history of making self-sacrificing accommodations
for their partners. This type of ‘compromise’
is usually less of a ‘middle-ground’ approach
and more of a regretful over-giving scenario.
However, luckily, it’s not always an uneven
balance of give and take. And when the connection
is built on more of a balanced foundation,
INFJs will happily compromise their go-to way
of living for the sake of their lover. In fact,
in these rewarding romantic-based compromises,
they’re able to expand their interests and
even adopt new ways of doing things that last
regardless of the state of the relationship.
INFJs make compromises in their lives that
other personality types wouldn’t even consider,
nevermind relate to. Due to their truth-seeking
compromising both the comfort that comes with
blissful ignorance and the ease that comes with
living life through conformity. There’s a special
kind of challenge that comes with refusing to go
with the crowd by instead opting to be the black
sheep of society as well as their families.
through the forbidden knowledge and alternative
approaches to living for the sake of their overall
health and well-being, there is never any
regret attached to the compromises they make.
In fact, some INFJs would argue that when it
comes down to it, they have no choice but to
take the road less traveled for the sake of
staying true to themselves. A road that comes
with many compromises to the connections they have
with their family, the judgments they receive from
others, and the overall loneliness that comes with
this unavoidable perspective they have on life.
been on the unfortunate side of a targeted
attack, the need for reassurance of being
faultless is a fair approach to closure. However,
most times, that aspect of closure never comes in
the way we need it. And for the conflict-avoidant
counselor-type INFJ, who can usually see all sides
to a conflict quite fairly, they know this to be
true first-hand. In fact, this is a compromise
they’ve had to make time and time again for
the sake of their own mental healing in life.
Since they’re often the ones to be walked
over rather than the ones doing the walking,
they’ve had to make the compromise of needing that
specific type of closure by learning to let go.
Despite their need to analyze past conflicts for
days, weeks or even months before this conclusion
is met, INFJs rarely hold grudges. Although
they don’t necessarily forgive and forget, they
can certainly forgive and move-on in a healthy
manner, regardless of the absence of an apology.
Speaking earlier on the INFJ’s high expectations
they set out for themselves and their future,
this personality type certainly holds some of
their greater life goals with utmost importance.
They can end up being slightly competitive through
their determination, and may end up compromising
by playing out some of the most implausible
actions they never thought they’d take. However,
when it comes to their morals and need for
contributing to the greater good of humanity,
Whether it’s a job position, a relationship
the virtuous INFJ will compromise their initial
goals to remain true to their moral high ground.
Luckily, the choice is usually a change in
direction is usually a blessing in disguise.
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