Why Infj Men & Women Are Irresistible To Fellow Intellectuals explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Genuine intellect is quite difficult to come
however, for the intellectual INFJ woman,
this personality factor tends to remain at
the forefront of their personalities whether
Luckily, this aura of common sense and intelligence
creates a magnetic pull for the fellow intellectuals
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Number 1: Their intriguing mysteriousness
And when it comes to the INFJ personality
type, just about every characteristic screams
With such an intriguing energy, the mysteriousness
of an INFJ stems from not only their naturally
reserved nature, but also their self-assured
They’re not easily fooled by their surrounding
‘matrix’, and therefore, they see no sense
in participating within their encompassing
environments anymore than is absolutely necessary.
And although this lack of conformity can draw
attention to their unorthodox ways, they try
their best to remain out of the spotlight.
They don’t feel the need to take their ego
so seriously, which allows them to only draw
like-minded attention towards them through
Ironically, the less the INFJ’s fellow intellectuals
know about them, the more they want to know..
It’s almost as if the INFJ unintentionally
plays hard to get, leaving a trail of mystery
for only the most interested to pick up on
Number 2: They give off loyalty and devotion
It’s in our very human nature to feel attracted
Especially when contemplating whether or not
we can see someone taking a position in our
lives, a sense of loyalty remains a strong
what it is about them that gives off this
loyal vibe, it tends to be one of their most
attractive qualities, especially when it comes
In fact, it’s not only their loyalty within
their own relationships, but also the observed
loyalty that outer intellectuals observe through
In direct connection with their empathy, there’s
something about the unconditional understanding
that both the INFJ man and woman bring to
They will happily take a stand for the people
within their inner circle, and will bend their
own beliefs and understanding to cater to
These are the factors that like-minded intellectuals
find enticing due to the feelings of safety
Number 3: Their genuineness is undoubtedly
The INFJ you get today will be the same INFJ
Despite their need to adapt to the energy
around them, every INFJ comes with a sense
of genuineness that they never steer too far
Unlike the need other people have to fit in
by changing their innate preferences and beliefs,
They hold a unique charm about them that catches
the eye of other intellectual beings due to
the inability to see right through their non-existent
With a mix of dark humor, taboo interests,
deep imagination, fascination for the human
mind and their need for out-of-the-box thinking,
most INFJs come with a refreshing energy that
follows them with grace in every interaction.
This authenticity not only gives others of
high intellect a sense of appreciation for
also serves to encourage them to share their
own distinctiveness that separates them from
Number 4: Their moods rarely intensely fluctuate
With a chameleon-like ability to match their
moods to their surroundings, the INFJ also
holds the ability of keeping a cool, calm
and collected exterior no matter what they're
Regardless of what’s going on in their lives,
this grounded personality type will never
and with the INFJ in particular, they can
certainly have their moments of being rather
However, in these moments they either use
communication when it comes to their closest
people, or they hide behind a smile until
In fact, being the ‘counselor type’ they’re
the INFJ more uncomfortable than to be the
And so, regardless of their ever-fluctuating
and intense emotions they experience internally,
tantrum, coming across as passive aggressive,
or acting sad to catch the attention of someone’s
Number 5: They’re naturally great listeners
On the topic of their empathetic counselor-like
aura, both the INFJ man and woman come with
a comforting silence they bring to every interaction.
When they’re not asking deep pondering questions,
this attentive type loves simply listening
to both the spoken and unspoken words that
They appreciate being trusted enough for others
to feel comfortable venting and expressing
And luckily, aside from their notable interest
in what others have to say, they also come
with an unwavering care that attracts people
This is the invisible personality factor that
causes strangers to spill their whole life
story to only walk away wondering why they
While some people are put off by this intense
energy, fellow intellectuals can be quite
fascinated by the amount of attentiveness
the INFJ brings to their connections and conversations.
Plus, with genuine open-mindedness, fellow
intellectuals could share just about anything
with the INFJ without the fear of an exaggerated
Number 6: They want to understand you on a
Speaking of their amazing listening skills,
the INFJ can’t help but to take the backseat
They crave to know not only the light in people
In fact, without probing and prodding to the
point of attaining their desired information
in terms of someone’s struggles, emotional
depth and the challenges they face in life,
They ask the necessary mind-bending and personally
reflective questions that can seem both challenging
With an essence of complete attentiveness
and care, both the INFJ man and woman don't
just start conversation for the sake of talking.
Instead, they cut the small talk to a minimum
in order to get to the bottom of their curiosities
Other intellectuals not only appreciate this
like-minded conversational factor, but also
find their observant interest incredibly impressive.
In the same way, INFJs love the ones they
let in with the same care, which only furthers
this compatible infatuation of fellow intellectuals.
Number 7: They remember the slightest of details
With sheer attentiveness and genuine enjoyment
of learning the ins and outs of each personality
they encounter comes an incredible sense of
With the ability to not only absorb and download
the spoken facts of someone’s personality,
preferences, experiences and differences,
the INFJ also takes note of the unspoken tendencies
type holds a record-breaking memory bank of
observed details, but rather, once they’ve
discerned certain important points of information,
they tend to ruminate and replay them on their
They’ll analyze the data they’ve observed
by picking apart the relevant information
and disposing of the rather irrelevant bits.
While of course, this isn’t exactly noticed
by new intellectual on-comers, it’s certainly
intellectual friends, family and romantic
By being able to recall the slightest of details
and interests, fellow intellectuals feel not
Number 8: They’re independent & self-sufficient
Similar to the INFJ’s mysterious aura mentioned
previously, there’s nothing more captivating
than their preference for proving their independence.
By unintentionally motivating others through
their ability to set and achieve their goals
without relying on other people, the INFJ
catches the attention of their fellow competent
In fact, it’s not that every INFJ is born
trial and errors that came with a host of
This is what makes the INFJ’s self-sufficiency
allow not only for more trustworthiness but
also the ability for others to take them more
seriously in the things they say, knowing
they have the track-record to back up their
This adequacy is something fellow intellectuals
look for in the people they spend their time
So, have you ever felt that a fellow intellectual
was magnetically drawn towards you as an INFJ
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