Why Infjs Can'T Settle For Mediocrity In Life explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
INFJs may seem composed and maybe even boring
But the truth is, this rare personality type
With a natural essence for complexity and
understanding, not only does the INFJ have
a difficult time fitting in but they actually
prefer to live a life avoiding indifference,
focusing on the more extraordinary things
Today we’re going to be discussing why the
INFJ just can’t settle for a mediocre life.
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speak for every INFJ here, but for the most
part, this introspective type knows what they
Even the most insecure INFJ innately knows
that they have positive qualities and morals
that some people lack or refuse to utilize.
And so, when it comes to making decisions
in life, they take into account how the situation
will benefit them in comparison to how they
up, you can guarantee that the INFJ will begin
The best example would be in a relationship
This independent type won’t settle for something
that doesn’t fit their anticipated narrative
because they know their unique qualities will
not something is indifferent or ordinary,
but leaving a situation once that’s realized
Especially for the INFJ who prefers to keep
the peace wherever they go, cutting ties in
hopes of finding something ‘less average’
comes with a host of uncomfortable feelings
Luckily, INFJs often remind themselves that
life is too short to waste their precious
serve their highest good..and this serves
something that feels dull and unfulfilling
for long enough, they will be missing out
on the opportunities that could potentially
And so, most of the time, INFJs much prefer
being on stand-by, researching new opportunities
than feeling captive in that stale energy.
Number 3: They hold seriously high expectations
and nothing could be more true when talking
By constantly thinking, planning and analyzing
their next moves they set the bar extremely
high and then do all they can to achieve it.
They go into new endeavors with an all or
Not only is this attitude rooted in their
perfectionism, but they genuinely want the
best for themselves and are willing to put
Of course, these high expectations can backfire
should they fail to reach them in the way
they initially expected, but for the most
part these expectations act as the ultimate
motivation to ditch mediocrity and strive
Number 4: They see far past societal expectations
Let’s just say, the life that is bestowed
upon us by society's expectations is rather..
Where's the adventure and zest in spending
the majority of your waking hours working
Where’s the growth in staying in one place
These are all questions that haunt the INFJ
and fuel their drive of marching to the beat
of their own drum in all aspects of life.
Most INFJs see past the facade of the American
dream, exchanging it for a life that is more
supposed to feel when following mainstream
standards because they’ve seen it fail one
too many times when observing other people.
to rush into the highest paying career choice,
or the seemingly ideal relationship because
they know there's always more to it than what
So, unless they have a genuine interest or
intuitive hunch, there’s no convincing an
Number 5: They’re innately guided by intuition
For the most part, INFJs wouldn’t be able
to settle for a happy mediocre life if they
Of course there are INFJs that are in fact
living a rather mundane lifestyle, but the
question of whether or not they’re actually
In fact, when an INFJ ignores their intuitive
pull towards a certain decision, soon enough
Now we’re not saying that the opposite of
mediocrity is this big extravagant lifestyle,
rather one that fits their morals and need
for creativity, a life that’s lived on their
And this is the exact life that the INFJ’s
dominant introverted intuitive function attempts
It’s like the inner compass or higher power
that knows what’s best for the INFJ by taking
into account previous lessons, likes and dislikes,
formed opinions and preferences of the people
Sure, they may not have to follow it, but
for them to feel like they’re on the right
Number 6: They have a different view of what
It’s not as if every INFJ lives this epicly
bold life filled with constant adventure and
change, but that’s not what they’re always
In fact, to most people with the INFJ personality
type, mediocrity is simply living life with
little say as to how they want to live it.
or through someone else’s expectations of
In the grand scheme of things, what one person
considers mediocre may be the complete opposite
So, while staying in on weekends to research
and explore their deepest life questions may
seem like absolute snooze-ville to some personality
types, the thought of spending that time mindlessly
shopping or partying can seem rather repetitive
One of those others being the INFJ themselves.
Number 7: They’re minds need to be stimulated
Repetitive schedules may seem safe to an INFJ,
but if stagnancy goes on for long enough they’ll
find themselves craving new learning material
With their unique combination of intuition,
feeling, thinking and judging, INFJs require
new things to observe, analyze and understand
in order for their functions to work in harmony.
If they’re stuck solely in their own thoughts
day in and day out, due to a rather predictable
lifestyle, they can begin nit-picking about
the things that they’ve already concluded
For example, if an INFJ is stuck in a repetitive
career position that requires no new skills,
learning or use of creativity, they will eventually
begin to dive deeper in the tasks they already
They can begin wondering what’s the point
of it all or spend their time trying to think
of better or different ways of doing things,
Yet, when they have new material to examine,
these natural instincts and thought processes
Number 8: They want to serve as an example
the potential in others, and encouraging them
to push themselves to greatness, INFJs use
that same processing when self reflecting.
They don’t want to view themselves as average
is less meaningful or genuine to others they
And like we said, it’s not like they intend
to seem better in order for people to listen
to them, but they genuinely want to utilize
their own advice by following their passions,
strengths and values to live the life they
that glimmer of hope to the people in their
to be perfect by any means in order to live
Alright, that’s it for today, PSYCH-Os..Before
you go, let us know in the comments below
if you would consider your life mediocre,
and what mediocracy really means in your opinion
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