8 Things Everyone Eventually Realizes About The Infj explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
With distinctive quarks and ethereal empathy, it
takes a lot more than just a quick conversation
with this private type to really read them. In
fact, it takes a considerable amount of time
to get to know an INFJ, yet overtime, there are a
few things that people eventually come to realize.
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In fact, as much as the INFJ relies on behavioral
patterns and personality quarks to observe people,
when it comes to being observed, they’re not the
easiest to figure out. Seemingly reserved and
serious from the outside, the individualistic
INFJ has an intimidating essence about them
But when an INFJ is eventually approached by a
brave contendant, they’ll be pleasantly surprised
to find that the INFJ is one of the most genuine
people once they get talking. They’re honest,
non-judgmental and willing to lend a hand anytime,
anywhere. Eventually, new people that enter an
INFJs life end up realizing this about them, but
at first glance some people may expect the worst.
From business inventions to planning adventures,
once an INFJ warms up to someone, they begin
to feel more comfortable sharing the elaborate
ideas their introverted intuition comes up with.
In fact, from the surface, INFJs can seem like
they have nothing to contribute to conversations,
usually taking a back seat to observe and
once an INFJ has someone 1 on 1, or if they feel
comfortable enough in a group, they won’t hesitate
is that they’re outside-of-the-box thinkers,
which means these insights and ideas can be quite
surprising to some people. In other words, people
begin to realize that INFJs aren’t as dull as they
seem, eventually appreciating the refreshing
outlook an INFJ can bring to any conversation.
and a craving for independence and individuality,
every INFJ marches to the beat of their own drum,
in their own way.. And it doesn’t take too long
to figure this one out. Whether someone brings
up the latest reality TV show drama, or what
the score for last night's hockey game was,
most of the time the look in an INFJs face would
have said it all, sometimes like.. “I have no
idea what you’re talking about.” Of course,
all INFJs have different likes and dislikes,
difficult to relate to for the average person.
when it comes to unconventional lifestyles,
going against societal expectations, and even
how they physically represent themselves. Yes,
INFJs care what people think about them, but
if they’re not harming anyone in the process,
Don’t you? Most INFJs have yet to even admit this
to themselves, but in reality, most people with
this and other sensitive personality types can’t
help but to care what other people think of them.
Stemming from the fact that INFJs are so hard on
themselves and keen on perfectionism, the opinions
and beliefs that other people have of them can
really affect them mentally and emotionally.
Although they’re good at hiding the importance
often making it seem like they’re unphased
entirely, that’s just not always the case.
Passive-aggressive comments, constructive
criticisms, and even the opinions they’ve
heard through the grapevine can all take a serious
toll on how an INFJ sees themselves, especially
through adolescence and early adulthood.. Plus,
since this analyzing personality type is so
familiar with observing others, they can easily
be convinced that they are being observed or
even judged, when in reality most people are only
concerned about what they’re doing themselves.
and eventually that becomes pretty obvious
for the people who know an INFJ. Although
they may seem to have their lives in order
from the outside, on the inside, the INFJ
sees all the nooks and crannies of their life
that need improvement or a change in direction.
This perfectionist personality type is on
changing directions from time to time but always
on route. For example, an INFJ may seem like
they’re completely confident in their skin when
deep down inside they’re actually really hard
on themselves in terms of diet and exercise. Or,
they may seem to be happy in their high-paying yet
demanding job when really every night when they
get home they’re searching for something that
suits them better. INFJs always have something
new up their sleeves, and while this comes as both
a positive and negative trait, people eventually
realize how hard the INFJ really is on themselves,
and where their accomplishments are fueled from.
INFJs are emotionally sensitive, yet contrarily
they’re also incredibly strong. Because this
intuitive type is able to see situations from
multiple perspectives, things like bad news,
harsh confessions, terminations, and even
tragedies don’t take a toll on the INFJ like
they do some other personality types. Considered
the advocate type, INFJs are always looking to
support people no matter what is thrown their way.
They can hold back their emotional side in order
to provide clear, unbiased advice and an open
ear with no exaggerated reactions. In fact, even
if an INFJ is incredibly shocked, disgusted, or
taken-aback by the information they’re being told,
they can keep a poker-face composure like no
other, which they use to provide the safest
place possible for people to let it all out.
Not only do people eventually realize this
awesome quality of the INFJ overtime, but
this is also exactly what encourages people
to turn to them when they need a composed
reaction to the unexpected hardships in life.
INFJs are thinkers, and once someone gets to know
an INFJ, this habit becomes a lot more apparent.
Sure, INFJs may intentionally leave their deep
introspections for their alone time when there's
the least amount of distractions, but sometimes
they just can’t help themselves. For example,
habits like blanking out in social situations,
asking deep and introspective questions out of the
blue, and taking longer to make simple decisions
are few of the many tendencies the INFJ’s active
mind can result in. While these habits and the
many others that come from this thinking tendency
may be distracting for the INFJ, and possibly
even annoying for the people in an INFJs life,
it definitely comes with it’s positives. As a
matter of fact, the people that can overlook the
shortcomings of these INFJ habits will be met
with some incredibly reflective conversations,
Like we said before, the INFJ is rarely one for
overly-exaggerated reactions and fake enthusiasm.
Yet, unfortunately a lot of societal interactions
which can make the INFJ seem like a tough
crowd. Although composure definitely helps
when it comes to reacting to unfavorable news,
when it comes to everyday conversations, INFJs
may seem underwhelmed or even uninterested
If someone is talking and not looking for
advice, an INFJ may not reply at all, allowing
the engagement of their eyes and body language
to reassure the speaker of their attention.
listens. They may not gasp when they hear that
you locked your keys in your car this morning,
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about you overtime as an INFJ? Let us know in the
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