Why Do True Infjs Trigger Envy In Some People explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
The hard-working type that leads a life of
humility and grace.. It’s not surprising that
the empathic INFJ can end up triggering deep
and unexpected envy from those around them.
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Alright, let’s get right into what exactly causes
the INFJ to bend their rules. Starting with..
Chill, mellow, reserved, and mysterious, INFJs are
often seen as the agreeable and relaxed one of the
group. Also known as the mediator or the mystic
personality type, no matter the circumstances
the INFJ is always the peacemaker, the problem
solver and the unflappable one of the situation.
one would be surprised by how many people resort
to panic when the simplest of things don’t get
the way they initially expected. In a world
riddled with anxiety, restlessness and fear,
sensing an aura of unwavered calmness from
someone can be rather refreshing and reassuring.
with a difficulty in breaking things down
into more attainable understandings can end
up perceiving this connectedness as a false
tactic. Rooted in envy, they may question the
very authenticity of the INFJ’s undisturbed
nature, writing it off as simply impossible.
better themselves through self discipline
Ironically, to the INFJ, this personal habit can
be rather tortuous at times. With the inability
to ever be completely content with who they are
and where they’re at in life, INFJ’s can’t help
at least one aspect of life at all times.
However, on the outside looking in, this ambitious
and self-driven characteristic of someone with the
INFJ personality type can certainly trigger
the INFJ may be in the best physical shape in
the opinion of others but still strive to eat
fitness regime. They may have a fulfilling
but still continue to try and find ways to
spice things up. Or, they may have an excellent
degree in their field of work, but still strive
to keep up to date on the latest certificates,
courses and training to progress their knowledge.
certainly trigger passive aggressive comments
and the occasional eye-roll here and there.
Speaking of the high standards the INFJ holds
themselves to when it comes to self-mastery,
because of this at-time challenging quality,
they tend to only display the best work they
produce. Considering they put their whole
passionate enough to achieve in life, they can
end up coming across as a high-achiever in one
way or another. Whether it’s in the workplace,
in a learning setting, in their personal goals
of health or even when it comes to how much
effort they put into their relationships,
some people can begin questioning their lack of
effort when they witness this innate INFJ quality.
In fact, the jealousy people have towards
this INFJ self-standard isn’t only due to
but it’s the fact this personality type is
able to strive with grace and humility. They’re
not putting in their best efforts in hopes of
impressing others, or to achieve status and power.
Rather, they do their best because it’s in their
very nature to do so. Which brings us too..
Number 4: They talk their achievements down
When referring to this personality type’s
modesty, some people can envy the very fact
that INFJs don’t even know how good they really
are. With regards to their talents, the strengths
they bring to friendships and team settings, the
common sense they hold in everyday scenarios,
and even the deep understanding they hold for
others’ feelings, some people notice the INFJ’s
powers far beyond what the INFJ acknowledges
about themselves. And even for the qualities the
INFJ knows they bring to the table, they’d be the
last people to rub it in the face of others. Since
they’re not about self-boasting and much rather
remain behind the scenes as opposed to being
admired in the spotlight, the INFJ’s strengths
never come with a distasteful aura. In fact,
if through their extroverted feeling function, the
INFJ notices that someone may be feeling envious
of their achievements or talents, they’ll more
than likely take appropriate action to make them
seem easily attainable. For example, if someone
were to subtly communicate their feelings of
jealousy towards a job the INFJ has landed, the
INFJ may go off on a tangent about how anybody
could get the job they got and that it was simply
a matter of luck. When in reality, they have the
specific strengths and determination required.
Number 5: They usually live a balanced life
for doing things for themselves, the INFJ’s
priority for personal care and personal time
Now, of course, this idealistic priority doesn’t
always take form in the quantity or quality the
INFJ wants, but for the most part, their need
for solitude can trigger significant envy in
those who are running around without a minute to
their name. The ironic thing is that, once again,
most INFJs feel as if they have no choice but to
make time for themselves. Without the necessary
time to recharge, reflect and rejuvenate, the
INFJ will find themselves on the fast track to
serious mental burnout. They simply cannot handle
as much hustle and bustle as the average person,
way they spend precious hours very carefully.
Sometimes this even results in them needing
to set boundaries around how much time they spend
with certain people and in the hobbies they enjoy.
So, while it may seem all fine and dandy from
an outer perspective, INFJs can actually end
up slightly envious of the fact that others can
have a lively social life without repercussions.
Selflessness and empathy can trigger funny
feelings in those who don’t run on the same
values. As a matter of fact, sometimes the
rules the INFJ lives by are not considered
Due to their unique mix of introverted intuition,
extroverted feeling, introverted thinking and
extroverted sensing functions, most INFJs are
captivated by higher purpose and deeper meaning.
Especially when on the topic of the major life
sectors of career, relationships and living
circumstances, INFJs aren’t motivated by feeling
obligated or pressed to follow social norms.
They don’t usually work solely for the sake of
money, nor do they hold onto falsely founded
relationships for the sake of avoiding loneliness.
They wouldn’t move out of their loving parent’s
home at an early age before they could afford
it simply because that’s what’s expected of
them by others. To put it simply, they don’t
make life choices for the sake of status,
impressing others or for the means of finding
happiness outside of themselves. Instead,
INFJs have a realness about them that allows them
to follow their dreams and their dreams only.
do with making a difference in the world.
Number 7: They seem to never make mistakes
Some sources say that INFJs are known for their
clumsy behavior, but we’d have to disagree.
While they certainly make mistakes just as often
as every other human, they’re much more careful
in their planning and predicting. Not only does
this innate sense of organization in life allow
them to limit the amount of witnessed mistakes
they make, but it also gives them the future
projection of avoiding negative outcomes to
their choices. In fact, INFJs are considered
one of the least adventurous types due to them
requiring some sort of plan of action in almost
every endeavor they set out on. One INFJ blogger
explained this aspect of themselves perfectly by
saying “I see questions from time to time asking
about INFJ clumsiness. People who barely know
me would not call me clumsy; I almost never make
these kinds of mistakes. But the reason for that
is I plan my entire life carefully because I know
that if I don’t, I will literally walk into every
wall and trip on every stair. They think I’ve got
it together, but I don’t.” This sense of poise
and coordination can trigger envy..but for the
most part, it’s all a well-thought-out scheme.
Well PSYCH-Os, that’s it for today.. So, as an
INFJ, do you think you’ve ever triggered envy in
someone in your life? Let us know in the comments
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