8 Types Of People Infjs Avoid At All Costs explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
With the innate ability to sniff out moods
and motives from a mile away, INFJs tend to be
quite picky with who they surround themselves
with. While they may feel obligated to give
certain people the benefit of the doubt, they
remain cautious to the energies they let in,
whether they’re intentional or not..especially
when it comes to these 8 types of people.
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you can bet that the INFJ will notice before
anyone else. This is especially true when
someone is trying to use fakery to wiggle
their way to the top of a specific hierarchy.
aka the brown-nosers or but-kissers for lack of
a better word. These are the people that only
seem to look like they’re doing something
when the boss comes around. It’s as if they
have trained themselves to use fake conversations
and relationships to get what they want in life.
They don’t spend any more time than they need to
conversing with people on a lower or equal rank
to them, because they don’t see any benefits in
such a connection. In fact, most of these types of
people are so used to using their time and energy
to please the people that would in turn benefit
themselves in the long run that they don’t even
realize they do it. Once an INFJ notices someone
like this type of person they can’t unsee it,
leaving them no choice but to stay far, far away.
especially on an emotional level. They want to
ensure everyone is satisfied and on the same
page before making any decisions that involve
others, however, extreme people pleasers tend to
have a totally different motive. Similar to people
who only pay attention to those of higher power,
these people-pleasers don’t only try to impress
the big guys, they try to impress everyone they
cross paths with because it’s in their nature to
seem more put together than the average person.
despite thinking the complete opposite - which
makes getting to know the real them so difficult.
When conversing with this type of extreme
auto-pilot replies are just repeats from previous
conversations, lacking authenticity and genuinity.
You know the people that just seem overly
Ya.. it’s usually not the case, and INFJs can
usually recognize that underlying dissatisfaction
they refuse to bring to the surface. This
type of person has tendencies of pretending
not to be bothered by things that actually bother
them a lot. These are the people that claim they
hardly ever get mad or frustrated at things,
or that they and their spouse never fight.
Things that you wish were true, but are just
a little hard to believe. Sure..some people
have an uncanny sense of composure in life,
but everyone gets a little ticked off once
in a while. It’s difficult to get these people to
relate to any of the so-called down sides in life,
because their overly passive manner makes
Most of the time INFJs can sense that these people
usually have a hard time processing emotions in
front of other people because their persona comes
first above all else. Yet, when they are alone,
their thoughts can become overwhelmed with
emotions that they are hesitant to process.
Friendships aren’t easy, and it’s not fair
to judge someone based on the amount of free
INFJs also notice when a particular person tends
to show up only when they’re in need of something.
Maybe it’s just an open ear, a shoulder to
cry on, or a serious favor. It’s as if the
connection goes dormant for long periods of
time, and then randomly sparks back up when
it’s most convenient for the other person.
only to follow up with asking if you’re available
to help them with something. Unfortunately, INFJs
can specifically become targets of this type of
connection because they’re always willing to help,
and won’t force a connection once it’s gone
inactive. Yet, on the bright side of things,
it doesn't take an INFJ long to connect the
dots, and once the dots are connected.. See ya!
So.. there’s the people that only call when they
need a hand, and then there's the people that just
can’t get enough of the INFJ and what they have
to offer. While it may be absolutely harmless,
people who show up uninvited, follow them
around at work, invite themselves to plans, or
expect more than the INFJ is willing to give
are all considered red-flags to the INFJ.
If someone can’t recognize the importance
this introverted type will attempt to distance
themselves more and more, in hopes that they’ll
get the social cue. And if it gets bad enough, the
INFJ will be brought to a place of needing to use
stern communication for the sake of their mental
sanity, which can be seriously uncomfortable.
We’re all guilty of it on some level. In fact,
talking about other people is a natural human
tendency that allows us to learn through other
people’s positive and negative experiences.
people almost always comes with ill-intent.
This type of person usually uses this method
to subconsciously divert attention off of
themselves and their insecurities and onto
other people. They may try to showcase their
morals and opinions within the gossip, in hope
to get a rise out of the opposing audience.
For example, if a mother was crying in a grocery
store because her child was having a tantrum,
‘I hate when parents cry in front of their
kids, that mom needs to keep it together’.
By saying this, they are expecting you to not only
agree, but to also praise them for their so-called
empathy towards the child. When in reality,
they have no idea what it’s like to be a mother,
or to deal with a tantrum! Plus, this type of
person won’t stop when it comes to people closest
to them, so INFJs know that they’re probably
being talked about to other people as well!
Smiley and giggly one minute, and then dead-faced
the next. It’s difficult to constantly keep
around this type of person for long enough,
Since INFJs long for harmonious relationships,
and try to avoid people’s unpredictable emotions,
emotional maturity is a must-have when making
new connections. Especially considering their
energy-absorbing tendencies, INFJs can actually
if they stick around for long enough. And
although this type of behavior usually stems
from extreme insecurity of themselves and their
lives, being polite one minute and rude the next
doesn’t help anyone. In fact, once an INFJ
begins to notice when these people finally
do crack their characters, even if it’s for a
brief moment, they’ll get a glance of the beast
with all sorts of emotions from others, but
unpredictability will affect them everytime.
Lying and cheating aren’t exactly considered
favorable attributes in most people’s eyes, but
for the INFJ who can sense these shortcomings
from a mile away, they tend to be even more
annoying. Whether it’s a grandiose claim that
seems a little too far fetched, or minor fibs,
INFJs just can’t wrap their heads around trying
to portray yourself as someone you’re not.
Habitual liars may even feel slightly threatened
by the INFJ’s blunt honesty and ability to pick
up on subtle details. However, when INFJs
are caught in a conversation where they or
someone else are being lied to or manipulated,
this personality type can even start to panic
because although they despise deceit, they
action is the appropriate one in the moment.
themselves on being as honest as possible,
with a great set of morals to become a positive
force in the world, so lying and cheating are
especially irritating for an INFJ because
they can’t relate to the motive behind it.
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