The Complexities & Oddities Of Infj Sexuality explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Taboo and uncomfortable to discuss, ironically,
sex and sexuality are an integral part of what
it means to be human. Seen as a healthy and
crucial aspect of what it means to connect
to romantic partners, sexuality for the INFJ
can contribute to their self-exploration and
self-acceptance while acting as a key that
unlocks their hidden passionate energy. So,
what’s behind an INFJ’s complex sexuality?
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Considered complex by nature, the INFJ is
known for their contradicting behaviors and
habits. And while this complexity certainly plays
a part when it comes to their sexual experience,
difficult to get the INFJ in the mood. In fact,
being the hopeless romantics they are, INFJs
usually hold unspoken expectations towards their
romantic partners. Although they’re not always
as open to communicating these expectations,
in the first place, they tend to be very simple
and commonsensical. Whether it’s setting the mood
with calming and romantic external stimuli such
as candles, low lighting and background music,
or it’s proving to them throughout the day that
they aren’t alone in their responsibilities,
the INFJ’s sexual vigor is largely impacted
by mental stimuli. It’s through the INFJ’s
reciprocated empathy, respect, and non-lustful
advances, the INFJ’s sensual nature is unleashed.
Number 2: INFJs are innate people-pleasers
has to do with the simple fact that they are
people-pleasers at heart. In their everyday lives,
there’s nothing that gives the INFJ a sense of
satisfaction quite like seeing their work or kind
gesture positively affect someone else. This
same gratification takes effect when it comes
to the bedroom. No matter their gender, INFJs can
become fascinated by the unique forms of pleasure,
both mentally and physically that they are able
to provide to their romantic interest. While they
may be shy and hesitant, INFJs wait for the
green light they observe from their partner’s
reactions. Thankfully, due to their highly
alert extroverted feeling and sensing functions,
but they are able to absorb and reflect back
the pleasure (or lack of) that their partner
experiences. In other words, nothing turns an
INFJ on like their partner being turned on.
Physical attraction is said to be one of the first
and most crucial aspects of physical intimacy
with another. And while INFJs certainly have
their types, compared to some people, physical
attraction isn’t as important for this personality
type. In fact, an INFJ is much more likely to fall
for someone’s character and kindness than they are
to consider someone out of sheer looks. Not only
is this for the philosophical aspect of craving to
build a connection with one’s soul, but for most
INFJs, the importance of physical looks, whether
someone is conventionally attractive or not,
quickly fade in a romantic connection once their
spiritual and emotional attraction takes over. The
INFJ’s deep understanding of human behavior allows
them to see far beyond the physical vessel, even
leading them to stray away from conventionally
attractive people due to the assumption that they
experience life, confidence and vulnerability in
a different way, bringing us to our next point..
The level of vulnerability that comes to sharing
intimate moments with a new or existing partner
can be off-putting, especially for the reserved
INFJ. However, vulnerability and insecurities are
essential aspects of new sexual connections and
often give these moments of exposure an essence
of beauty and thrill. In fact, for the INFJ, it’s
within these subtle moments of observing this
vulnerability through their desired partner that
ignites their infatuation even further. And so,
if the INFJ senses that a potential partner is
overly confident, it can actually come as a major
turn-off. This is mostly because when it comes
to people who mindlessly utilize their sexual
essence, vulnerability and trust have very little
to do with the process. To the INFJ, most times
these are the people that INFJs try to avoid
at all costs. Luckily, their requirement for
emotional depth is the perfect pre-wired boundary
to keep them from mixing with the wrong crowd.
their inner introverted intuitive world that
gives way to their unique fantasies. While you
would never expect the seemingly closed-off and
uninterested INFJ to indulge in such thoughts,
this personality type can live through long
and well-thought-out scenarios within the very
facets of their own heads. From planning future
possibilities to living out alternative realities,
there’s nothing that stops the INFJ from diving
deep into the infinite and at-times seemingly
impossible potentials life has to offer. Despite
their exterior demeanor never giving them away,
a creative space for some of their wildest
thoughts to come to light. To put it simply,
their fantasizing imagination is wild in nature,
places they’d never go intentionally. In fact,
it’s not impossible for the INFJ themselves to
be left utterly speechless and uncomfortable with
just how odd their mind can be at times. And while
most of these thoughts remain behind closed doors,
Number 6: INFJs are considered demisexual
Despite the INFJ’s fantasies of all genres, when
it comes to the real world, most people with this
personality type only see sexual intimacy as an
option to those they are deeply connected with.
Considered demisexual, this personality type
requires a secured level of emotional intimacy
far before acting on sexual desires. For some
people, if done safely, the idea of casual sex can
be a great way of self-exploration. For the INFJ
however, the thought of sharing a moment of sexual
intimacy with someone they barely know rarely
turns into anything more than just a thought.
Casual sex is rarely fulfilling or rewarding for
the INFJ, even if they do participate in this at
one point or another. Not only is this because
they can’t imagine letting their guard down, but
they don’t want to risk falling for a false sense
of attachment. In fact, for the INFJ personality
type in particular, something as intimate
as..well..intimacy, can certainly serve as
a basis for deeper feelings. Plus, for the INFJ,
it is difficult to really feel comfortable or safe
with people, meaning it takes time for them to
reach this point. They need to be with someone
who makes them feel comfortable, or else sex can
end up feeling like a chore or an obligation.
There’s no doubt that a spontaneous interaction
with an INFJ stranger is often laced with
intense energy and underlying mystery. Although
their external demeanor is calm and composed,
most people can tell that there is much more going
on in their mind than they are leading others
to believe. And while the INFJ usually doesn't
realize they are doing it in the moment, their
simple gestures, body language and composure can
intoxicate those who are interested in them. With
their laxed attitude and intelligent conversation,
the intuitive INFJ not only automatically adjusts
their output to match that of their conversational
opponent, but they instantly absorb surrounding
energies and alter their wording to allow others
to feel more comfortable. Although not entirely
genuine, this chameleon-like approach makes even
the simplest exchange of words leave others with
an indescribable feeling that can have them
questioning if they are attracted to the INFJ,
mention, this intensity is only amplified
when the INFJ captures someone into one of
Well PSYCH-Os, that’s it for today.. So, do you
think your approach to sexuality is affected by
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