9 Weird Habits Infjs Have That People Don’T Realize

9 Weird Habits Infjs Have That People Don’T Realize explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.

INFJs are the least likely to be who you think

While some people may assume they have an

INFJ all figured out, there's surely a lot

under the surface that hasn’t been uncovered.

So.. what are 9 of the weirdest things all

INFJs do that others don’t realize they’re

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Let’s just say if you take an INFJ out for

dinner to a new restaurant, don’t be surprised

if they already know what they want, exactly

where it is, how to park and even where they

This is because INFJs plan for everything,

with social events being one of their main

While most INFJs play it cool, for example,

by scanning over the menu so that they don’t

look like a total weirdo, they have most likely

Aside from pre-planning an outfit the day

before, an INFJ may question things like how

busy, loud, or close-seated the restaurant

will be, to accurately mentally prepare for

This is one of the main reasons why surprises

and sudden changes of plans can easily cause

INFJ panic because they need the time to properly

Number 2: They can dissociate from reality

It’s no surprise that the INFJ spend a great

deal of time in their inner world, but how

can INFJs seem like such attentive listeners

when they spend so much time focusing on their

Well.. while INFJs can choose to be good listeners

when they want to be, they can easily daze

off into the inner workings of their minds.

Whether it’s while completing mundane tasks,

or simple things like driving to work, INFJs

can disassociate their minds from the tasks

They may even get distracted while in the

too busy searching for solutions within their

While it may not be totally obvious from the

outside, INFJs can be in a serious train of

Number 3: They have their guard up 90% of

INFJs are a lot more private than most people

In fact, although they are introverted creatures,

INFJs have an added layer of hesitancy when

it comes to sharing their personal thoughts.

Not only is this because INFJs are so used

to feeling misunderstood for the way they

see the world, but also because they don’t

want to burden others with their baggage.

INFJs want to be the helpers, not the ones

So, as much as someone thinks they know an

INFJ deep down, there's always a lot left

And even then, an INFJ will never give away

Number 4: They have fantasized about strangers

INFJs are passionate individuals who love

So, when they feel attracted to someone, they

can easily visualize potential future scenarios

with that person with just a simple act of

While some of the INFJs fantasies can be of

a sexual nature, this personality type mostly

focuses on things like how their parents would

react if they met this person, how great life

would be financially, how great of a parent

They may even ruminate on the thought of who

they think someone is before they get to know

them, and then end up disappointed at the

the fantasized version the INFJ made up in

Ironically, this elaborate imagination is

what makes it sometimes difficult for an INFJ

to settle for a relationship in the first

Number 5: They hold back a lot of what they

This introspective personality type is constantly

analysing and picking up on the energy of

In fact it’s fair to say that most personality

amount of analysing as the INFJ, therefore,

the INFJ sees things that others would normally

INFJs know things that others don’t know,

and at times it can make situations feel tense

and uncomfortable as this introverted type

is stuck between saying something and risking

being misunderstood for their intentions,

or holding back and allowing the situation

And because the INFJ is so empathetic towards

others, they usually end up keeping their

lips sealed to ensure they don’t hurt any

feelings or stir a pot that shouldn't be tampered

While it’s not so noticeable from the outside

looking in, if an INFJ knows something that

Number 6: They can see 2 sides in everyone

Most INFJs have a tendency to want to see

the best in everyone, and although that may

be difficult in some situations, the INFJ

believes there are 2 sides to every personality.

Yin and yang, hot and cold, highs and lows,

whatever you want to call it, the introspective

INFJ loves to analyze the behaviors of others

and after time, it becomes very apparent that

not everyone is as shady, or angelic as they

While this allows INFJs to see the good in

people, it also allows them to remain slightly

skeptical of seemingly good people until they

They know everyone makes mistakes, but they

also know the difference between a mistake

This is why above all else, INFJs require

authenticity and genuinity in the people they

consider to be within their closest circle.

Number 7: They can be secretly obsessed with

INFJs may seem like everything just happens

in their favour at times, but what people

This perfectionist personality type is on

the never-ending road to self improvement,

and while they may change roads depending

They may seem like they’re completely confident

in their skin when deep down inside they’re

actually really hard on themselves in terms

Or, they may make it seem like they’re happy

in their high-paying yet demanding job when

really every night when they get home they’re

searching for something that suits them better.

INFJs always have something up their sleeves,

and while this comes as both a positive and

negative trait depending on how easy they

are on themselves, most people would never

know how high of expectations most INFJs have

Number 8: They can really hide their nervousness

Just as INFJs can make it seem like everything

is just fine and dandy on the outside, while

struggling on the inside, they also have the

ability to hide their introverted anxiousness

In fact, some people are surprised to find

out that the INFJ they know is actually introverted.

This is because, since an INFJ understands

human behaviour and how to have a proper human

encounter, they know what it is they have

to do to come off as likeable and confident.

While they may be feeling overwhelmed, uncomfortable

and disinterested on the inside, they are

able to make it seem like they are totally

vibrant, happy and excited to socialize on

Of course it’s fair to say that some INFJs

are more introverted than others, and it all

Number 9: They sometimes don’t understand

INFJS can be super convincing that they have

their whole lives figured out when in reality,

Although most INFJs would rightfully argue

that they have a deeper understanding of the

purpose of the human experience and the lessons

that we’re here to learn, they still have

their own confusions when it comes to playing

Oftentimes, INFJs struggle to understand themselves

as a whole, including their feelings and future

Although they ask themselves all the introspective

life questions, sometimes, INFJs still don’t

really know if where they are in life is where

who they’re suppose to be with, and if they’re

making the right moves towards the future

but when it comes to understanding what they

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an INFJ that does these seemingly odd things!

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