10 Signs The Infj Isn'T Really In Love explores key ideas related to psychology, presented clearly and practically.
Whether you’re an INFJ questioning if you
may be falling out of love with a partner,
or wondering if you ever really had love for
them in the first place - it’s a tough judgment
However, for this introspective type in particular
there are a few signs that can make this contemplation
to be talking about the 10 signs that the
INFJ isn’t really in love in their relationship.
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Number 1: They’ve put a mental expiration
INFJs are naturally future-focused beings.
They have a deep imaginative and intuitive
process that allows them some accurate insight
into possible future scenarios, including
whether or not a relationship will work long
If you’re an INFJ and you’re having thoughts
few months” or you go blank when thinking
of a long-term future with this person, you
If this introspective type can’t pinpoint
what it is about their partner that doesn’t
jive, the INFJ may even resort to trying to
look for a flaw in their personality as a
breaking point where they can finally decide
This process can cause you to pinpoint issues
of the relationship on them, and make big
fusses out of things that aren’t that big
Although it can seem harsh and uncalled for,
to rationalize the deep feeling of not being
that emotionally interested in them in the
So, if you find yourself planning your future
with them not by your side, you can be sure
that you’re probably not as interested in
Number 2: A partner’s needs are an inconvenience
The INFJ personality type is known for being
givers and pleasers..especially when it comes
Of course, when there's a sense of comfort
and stability involved, like that of a long
term connection these pleasing tendencies
may dwindle slightly, but they never stop
And so, if an INFJ begins to find that their
partner's needs (in which they normally take
on as their own) become just a total inconvenience,
this empathetic type is either seriously burnt
out or considerably uninvested in the connection.
Yes, an INFJ has particular needs when it
comes to reserving their energy, but they
would never miss a chance to be there for
So, when it comes time that their partner
needs a shoulder to cry on or a listening
ear, and the INFJ feels like they’re asking
for too much, you can be sure that this is
Number 3: They share their partner’s private
Private and reclusive, INFJs rarely share
anything about their love life with friends
Not only would they rather keep things to
themselves, but oftentimes an INFJ actually
trusts their own intuitive analysis more than
So, when they find themselves talking about
their partner and his or her behaviors it
Whether the topics of conversation are used
simply the INFJ stepping outside of their
own heads to look for alternative viewpoints,
they should begin questioning if they genuinely
For most people, talking about their significant
other during times of uncertainty is common,
but when the INFJ begins sharing private details
and attaching their negative opinions on their
partner's life decisions as if they aren’t
Number 4: They avoid bringing their partner
Speaking of privacy in a connection, INFJs
will only ever introduce their new partner
to their friends and family when they are
Nonetheless, bringing someone home to meet
their closest people is an exciting aspect
of having a new relationship, and they don’t
want to attach any hesitancy to the at-times
So, if you’re an INFJ in a newer relationship
and find yourself avoiding this milestone,
you should start asking yourself why you are
avoiding it because it could be that you don’t
On the opposite side of things, if you’re
an INFJ in a long term relationship and find
yourself avoiding bringing your partner to
family functions when you used to enjoy having
them as your plus one, it could be a clear
sign that you’re losing feelings for them,
Number 5: They find ways to keep busy without
INFJs are great at procrastinating when they
One of those main reasons is a lack of passion
Well.. the same goes with a dull relationship.
Maybe they find themselves staying late after
work to avoid spending the evening with their
partner, or they're continuously making weekend
plans to avoid feeling obligated to spend
With quality time as one of their dearest
love languages, an INFJ in love would make
it a point to balance their life in a way
the other person, usually more than anyone
Yet, even if it doesn’t go to the extreme
of avoiding home altogether, this sign may
come in the form of finding tasks to do around
the house that would excuse you from having
any down-time to connect with your partner.
If you’re an INFJ and have no interest in
the things that you used to do with your partner..
Let’s start by saying INFJs are definitely
not the clingy type in most relationship cases,
considering their need for individuality is
However, even in the INFJ relationship, proper
connection is based around desired communication
and should rarely be accompanied by feelings
When the INFJ is in love, they genuinely want
to know how their partner is feeling because
their partner's happiness is in direct relation
to realize you’re rarely the one initiating
the first text or phone call, or are faced
with serious dread when replying or picking
Quite frankly, you may even find them a little
bit annoying, when before you would eagerly
await their texts and calls throughout the
When an INFJ is falling out of love, or coming
really in love in the first place, they begin
subconsciously shining a negative light on
The quirky little personality traits they’ve
had all along, soon become inexcusable or
even unbearable, leading you to blow them
out of proportion, mostly within your own
Once an INFJ has this opinion of their partner,
it is difficult or nearly impossible to shake
more annoyed at these traits, resulting in
complete dissatisfaction of their relationship.
Number 8: They’re secretly planning their
With a mental expiration date in mind, the
INFJ’s introverted intuition will automatically
While they may convince themselves these ideas
are nothing but a ‘backup plan’, in reality,
it’s a sure sign that they have no intention
Maybe they’re secretly scoping out new potential
partners or finding ways they would tell their
partner they want to leave without hurting
It’s as if the INFJ begins to make the scenario
very real in their head to find comfort in
They begin answering questions like, where
will I move, how will I get back into the
dating scene, what hobbies will I start to
fill my free time, and so forth..These are
really shouldn’t keep this person hanging
on in hopes that the INFJ will come around.
When an INFJ looses feelings or interest in
anything in life, whether it be a relationship,
a job position, or even a living space, they
wouldn’t ever wish anything negatively upon
So, when it comes to falling out of love,
an INFJ always asks the question, can I be
If the answer is no, their still may be some
However, if an INFJ can confidently say that
they would be happier to know that their partner
is happy with someone else rather than staying
Likewise, when the thought of being with other
people doesn’t trigger any emotional thoughts
within the INFJ themselves, aside from relief,
Number 10: They begin doing more things for
When the INFJ is in love, they feel like they
can let down their sense of survival or ‘every
partnership where both people look out for
Although independence is a crucial aspect
in an INFJ’s romantic satisfaction, if they
find themselves back in this thought process
and decision-making habit of only thinking
of themselves and their own success, that’s
More so, if you’re an INFJ who feels like
you’re past the point of mentally preparing
to flee, but actually putting in the work
to make it easy for yourself, you can take
it as a sure sign you’re ready to move on.
Maybe you’re saving money for your own condo
Or you’re planning for a trip without even
This selfish way of thinking scraps the idea
of making any sacrifices from your own goals
And that is a sure sign you don’t love them.
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